Is anyone jealous? or have you had
problems with a jealous partner, wife, girlfriend
family, or friends.

My son is very jealous, and people tell me that
it is because he is a boy and boys are always jealous of their
mothers, specially when they are that age (11)

Boys are usually attached to their moms. He watches out for mommie.

I agree boys are more jealous than girls but just talk with him, even
though he is 11 he just looking out for mom

Hell no...when I thru my cheatin'EX's ass out my door,,,
not a jealous man a this point in my life...and currently,,,
am not committed to a "RELATIONSHIP"...so?
BUT please do not confuse me on this,
If I had a mate,and "cubs",I would guard them vigorusly,,,
and to th end,,,because even tho I would be a trusting mate,
I know how some men are,they would screw his best friend's
wife if he thought he could get away with it...
but I would not allow this,friends are just that,until sex is
involved,and IF th "friend"took advantage of her,he die's...
in some states,this is called "Crime of Passion",,,but....
I would have to risk doing time for that,,,then.....M.

Morena, its seems that when a woman is raising her kids on her own. That
the kids girls & boys but have found out more so the boys. Are
protective of the mother they have had your attention all this time and
are not ready to share you with anyone else. For most they have realized
they are the man of the house now and they want it to remain safe and
don't want someone coming in and taking your attention away from them.
Or hurting you again it is there way of showing you how much they love
you. So if you date someone you have to introduce them slowly and do
things that would appeal to your son in order for that guy to win your
son as a buddy instead of him being an intruder to your home. For kids
are a package deal in a relantionship. If a man is not willing to take
the time becoming friends with your son before spendind alot of time
with you then he is not a man and your son will always see him as a
intruder instead of someone that makes mom happy.

Most of the time jealousy stems from insecurity...
most people won't admit that. But its the fear of losing the one you
love to another, or not getting enough attention from the one you
love...whether it's a sibling, parent, or better half...
The best thing to do is again: communication...Talk...Love and show
Love...if you can't say it, then show it in the things you do...

Amen.Sister..WILL

well...if a woman finds me for a mate, and she already has some "cubs"
trailin' with her,is good too,for if SHE chose me,
then she chose th one who would provide th shelters and sceurity that
she was looking for,for her cubs and herself as a pkg. deal...and would
then be for me to follow up,,,
out of th Love and RESPECT of her choice,and to foresake all
intruders,not to be confused with jealousy,,,but to defend,,,
with all tooth and nails,and die for, if needs be....M.

I find the ones who accuse the other of cheating are the cheaters. My
ex was jealous of me. She accused me several times of cheating yet I
never did. She sure did though.

thanks,
he reminds me so much the way his father was,
my late husban was very jealous, he used to call me
at all times just to know what I was doing, and where I was,
jelosy, can destroy marriages and make life unconfortable
I stayed with my husban becaused I loved him very much
love made a big difference,
when you realy love someone, nothing gets in between, and I gess he
learned to trust me.

Your son may see things totaly different then you...your involved with
someone, so your focus in totaly on him...your son on the other hand
see's it from a side few....he may be seeing something you've
overlooked...or have been blinded to.
Talk to him....and as you hear what he say's...ya might want to read
between the lines? per say?

got it

nope. i dont get like that.

May be you onto something Morena for everytime I'm with my 6 years old
he wouldn't any male or felmale do jack of me long as he's around it's
so cute how he want to take of me soon in few years he'll be carrying me
LOL

Yes...boys hate men dating their mom....I,ve had that issue before...and
it comes down to putting that little *&%#$@**&%$# in check...man to
boy...!

ONTARIO YOURE TOO KIND...I HAVE A SON WHOSE 22 AND HES VERY PROTECTIVE
OF MOM! HELL ALWAYS BE BECAUSE OF THE RELATIONSHIP WE SHARE..THE MOTHER
SON BOND! AS FOR CHOOSING A MAN OVER MY SON..NO WAY BUT HE IS OLD ENOUGH
TO UNDERSTAND I HAVE RAISED HIM AND I WILL LIVE MY LIFE NOW! BESIDES I
AM A STRONG ENOUGH WOMAN THAT I WOULDNT LET A MAN COME BEFORE MY SON!!!I
WILL LOVE AGAIN SOMEDAY AND I THINK ITS IMPORTANT FOR THE TWO OF THEM TO
GET ALONG...BOND! HIS DAD IS A DEAD BEAT SO ITS BEEN HE AND I ALL HIS
LIFE! WE HAVE MADE THAT PACT TO PROTECT ONE ANOTHER....

Sorry...I don,t deal with smartass kids...! I tell the chick that when
ever its going to be a problem....so its hers to deal with...!

yeah im jelous for as much as ive had my heart broken im suppose to be
this way

whats up houstons finest back hell yeah,my girl act like she wants to
hide me from the rest of the world

but I think my minds playing with me cause i find myself questioning
what she is doing sometime