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Topic: living life without love!!
steesh85 Joined Fri 07/04/14 Posts: 2	Thu 09/25/14 08:25 AM
Why is it when your in love! Then something goes wrong your whole life changes. Finding love again is hard !

sparkyae5 Joined Thu 03/28/13 Posts: 1595	Thu 09/25/14 08:38 AM
Why is it when your in love! Then something goes wrong your whole life changes. Finding love again is hard ! [/quote ''ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE'' ( NOT A CONSCIOUS ONE ) ITS A EMOTIONAL CHOICE WHEN WE GET IN TOUCH WITH OUR FEELINGS AND DISCOVER OUR PART THAT'S WHEN WE GROW---''THE MOST IMPORTANT RELATIONSHIP YOU WILL EVER HAVE IS THE ONE WITH YOURSELF'' GOOD LUCK- I HOPE YOU FIND THE LOVE YOU WANT---

Datwasntme Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 9701	Thu 09/25/14 01:14 PM
because when you fall out of love , it feels like you loose a piece of you , but with luck you find some one that can fix that best wishes on your hunt

falantino Joined Tue 09/02/14 Posts: 323	Thu 09/25/14 01:52 PM
Why is it when your in love! Then something goes wrong your whole life changes. Finding love again is hard ! yes agree i know that is so hard i had 3 relationships before and they all go in a complex way , i wish you good luck this time :)

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Thu 09/25/14 01:55 PM
.. I don't think I have ever fell out of love with someone...lol.. if I love you I will love you forever... our lifes may go down different paths... I might even come to dislike you.. .. but a part of me will always love you.. well okay !!!... maybe just maybe. if they stop giving me sex.. . I might stop loving them...hmmm.. ..noooo.. not even that would do it..

stan_147 Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 3440	Thu 09/25/14 01:58 PM
OK. And now, Annie Lennox.

valtheponytail35 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 264	Thu 09/25/14 02:01 PM
That's just life, man. Relationships have the beginning and the end just like flowers in the vase. Technically you could keep the dead flowers in the vase for years. they dry and wither ofc... but something remains of them, maybe even till the end of your life. Or, you can go and get the fresh flowers when the old ones are withered, so that you always have pretty flowers in the room without long dry periods in between. Or you may not even wait till they wither all the way and look for new flowers sooner. It's just your own choices really (and luck).

mrld_ii Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 1410	Thu 09/25/14 02:06 PM
Why would one allow themselves to NOT have love in their life, just because they're not currently in a romantic relationship with someone else?!?

valtheponytail35 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 264	Thu 09/25/14 03:18 PM
Maybe its harder to get a real date in these days. Btw if you'd have to advise your son (imaginary or real) how to get a first date, what would you say? What kinda practical instructions would you have for a youngster, who has no clue how to get started?

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Thu 09/25/14 04:12 PM
I can only speak for me,been in,well what I thought was love,got hurt a few times cause my whole heart was in it and much less of head in it, but now it's less heart and more head,let experience be your teacher!!

Tomcj1952 Joined Sun 01/05/14 Posts: 3	Thu 09/25/14 04:24 PM
I think we tend to look for things from a previous relationship that made us comfortable. We fail to realize each person is their own...

stan_147 Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 3440	Thu 09/25/14 04:25 PM
[Dionysus: Bringer Of Love] 'I bring love to give you solace In the darkness of the night In the Heart's eternal light You need only trust your feelings Only love can steer you right I bring laughter, I bring music I bring joy and I bring tears I will soothe your primal fears Throw off those chains of reason And your prison disappears'

michele63 Joined Sun 02/12/12 Posts: 3405	Fri 09/26/14 07:02 AM
No one should live without. Sometimes it right under your nose, second time in my life it slapped me in the face.