What are you willing to bring to a relationship?

As caamken pointed outin another thread, its easy to make a list of what you require in a mate. The question is what do you have to offer to that person that will show him/her that you would make a good mate, and be willing to work on to make a good relationship?

Anyone brave enough to answer this.

2 loveable cats and a dvd player????

my kids..omg nevermind that will scare them away

really it is not what you are going to bring in monetery or even physically but emotionally what are you bring into a relationship to get the best out of your partner and yourself

Honesty, respect, communication, trust and lots of love!

I should have made that clearer

What about you makes you the right one to bring out the best in your partner?

Are you willing to accept the ups and downs of their personality?


Are you willing to give of yourself emotionally?

I have a very tender heart, and am a person willing to do whatever I can to make the person I'm with as happy as humanly possible. I love unconditionally and always keep my promises. Once I love someone, no matter how the relationship ends up, they've made a friend for life that will always help them when they need it.

And on the flip side I'm a bit of a neat freak, nag once in a while (only about things that are important and need done), I procrastiate about alot of things. I am very girly, love my makeup, clothes, shoes... but that only falls on MY shoulders. Even with that, I don't do much girlie stuff often. My favorite band is one that most people don't like.... haha, well, they do just when they realize that the kick ass music they are listening to is Hanson they get a bit concerned about their sanity.

Hi Snuggles ,

Well, I'm either brave enough or stupid enough to try

I bring, first of all, a willingness and desire to be in a relationship, and bring 100% commitment to it.

I bring an attitude--an attitude of "I'm going to do whatever it takes to make this relationship work".

I bring effort--Putting the effort out to make the woman I'm in a relationship with feel special. The effort to treat her great. To pay attention to her. To do the little things like hold doors open for her. The effort to listen to her when things are going wrong for her. The effort to share the good--and bad-- times.

Most of all, I bring unconditional love into a relationship.

I asked earlier,am I brave or stupid? You decide.

I agree with caamken. If you break up, it's going to be about incompatibility, not necessarily money or physical intimacy.

fun and meaningful distraction from the rest of the goo

loyalty

Im not sure if its my responsibility to be able to bring out the best in anyone.......they are who they are.......


accepting ups and downs????? depends......what are those ups and downs???? If they need meds to make them not violent then NO.....


Emotionally, If Im in the relationship, then I am giving myself emotionally......

Posting to this is brave not stupid, it is allowing others to see what you have to offer, there is no right answer or wrong. this is about what you as a person has to offer.


So keep on posting, and maybe this will work in a way that I didnt expect. It will bring to the eyes of a reader someone who is offering what they wish in their lives. A person who desires the same as them

Truth
Honesty
Willingness to share anything and everything
Heart and soul
Love
Devotion
Care
Body and mind
A good sense of humour
Seriousness
Belief
Trust
Faith
Seriousness
Humility
Protectiveness
Emotion
Satisfaction
Joy

My everything and my all...
My being...

And they had better do the same!

Love..unconditional
Honesty
Warmth
Compassion
Intense passion
Intelligence
Insanity..the good kind
Understanding
Poetry
Kindness
A sense of mystery
My soul

here ya go gonna give it H*^^;

gypsy No one said anything about changing a person just bring out more. Making them stronger in times of weakness.


What I bring to the right person;

an undying love that there life will have more value to me than my own

a friendship that is unsurpassed

a shoulder in times of need and support under any situation

the go to person never judging just support and help

a feeling that she raises the sun in the morning

a sense of belonging

never using there weakness has a tool against them but the opposite strengthening them through me to make it a strength

supose there is much more to list but these are the keys i bring

Ok, I dont get this "Unconditional love" business...we all have put conditions on our love or we wouldnt be in the situation we are now!!!!

I love you......but I hate you

I love you......but you wouldn't do what I wanted

I love you.......but

got me on that there is one condition I will leave on and only that

yes......honesty is a ***** eh???