Topic: time to pay up..
no1phD's photo
Fri 11/14/14 11:01 PM
.. safe bet there's not going to be a second date... sometimes I'm just too naive for my own good..lmao

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Fri 11/14/14 11:02 PM
the man grabs to pay to "be the man", cuss he wants the sex more than she does, in all cases.

if she pays, then the man that grabbed the check, don't deserve the sex, nor any consideration, period.


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Sat 11/15/14 02:07 AM

I wouldn't really be worried about whose going to pay....but rather focused on getting to know the person....:angel:

Romeo .. Oh Romeo .. you're a breath of fresh air!
flowerforyou

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Sat 11/15/14 02:41 AM

I think they can go have a coffee and if the chemistry was there for theem both the man will want to not only buy her a coffee but take her out to do whatever she wants..like somewhere with live music and drinks somewhere romantic...then send here flowers the next day. That is a good way to date.


And he should make sure she get's home safely.

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Sat 11/15/14 02:45 AM
I think they can go have a coffee and if the chemistry was there for theem both the man will want to not only buy her a coffee but take her out to do whatever she wants..like somewhere with live music and drinks somewhere romantic...then send here flowers the next day. That is a good way to date.

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Sat 11/15/14 06:13 AM
I called Gloria Steinem and this is what SHE said...Nationwide the wage gap between men and women still stands at about 75%...For every dollar men are paid, women receive $.75....So on "meet and greets", the only fair way to handle the tab is to let the man pay all of his share and 25% of the woman's...Same goes for the tip...:tongue:


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Sat 11/15/14 07:08 AM

I called Gloria Steinem and this is what SHE said...Nationwide the wage gap between men and women still stands at about 75%...For every dollar men are paid, women receive $.75....So on "meet and greets", the only fair way to handle the tab is to let the man pay all of his share and 25% of the woman's...Same goes for the tip...:tongue:



Best have a calculator on you then ... very romantic ohwell
Wouldn't work for me .. too much of a fuss. If it's that difficult, I'll just pay my own and be done with it .. doubt there'd be a 2nd meeting/date though ..
If the bill is high, fair enough, but for maybe 2 cups of coffee or glasses of wine??

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Sat 11/15/14 07:17 AM

I called Gloria Steinem and this is what SHE said...Nationwide the wage gap between men and women still stands at about 75%...For every dollar men are paid, women receive $.75....So on "meet and greets", the only fair way to handle the tab is to let the man pay all of his share and 25% of the woman's...Same goes for the tip...:tongue:




They use the shortcut math and figure we will pay the other 25% for favors obligated. :tongue:

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Sat 11/15/14 07:17 AM
My thoughts are....If you're really having to put this much thought into the whole process. Perhaps you shouldn't be trying to meet people in the 1st place. scared

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Sat 11/15/14 07:18 AM

When I pay for a date .. I sure as hell better be getting laid .. Haha .. Cheeky grin



that's what i tell the women when i take them on a date.sadly that is the moment the date ends ohwell

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Sat 11/15/14 07:19 AM


I called Gloria Steinem and this is what SHE said...Nationwide the wage gap between men and women still stands at about 75%...For every dollar men are paid, women receive $.75....So on "meet and greets", the only fair way to handle the tab is to let the man pay all of his share and 25% of the woman's...Same goes for the tip...:tongue:




They use the shortcut math and figure we will pay the other 25% for favors obligated. :tongue:


laugh Gloria warned me that would probably happen!!:tongue:

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Sat 11/15/14 07:22 AM

My thoughts are....If you're really having to put this much thought into the whole process. Perhaps you shouldn't be trying to meet people in the 1st place. scared


:thumbsup: I'm with you Scoobs.............Wait!................... I've been thinking about this chit for two days now!!noway .....*Hangs head in shame*

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Sat 11/15/14 07:22 AM



I called Gloria Steinem and this is what SHE said...Nationwide the wage gap between men and women still stands at about 75%...For every dollar men are paid, women receive $.75....So on "meet and greets", the only fair way to handle the tab is to let the man pay all of his share and 25% of the woman's...Same goes for the tip...:tongue:




They use the shortcut math and figure we will pay the other 25% for favors obligated. :tongue:


laugh Gloria warned me that would probably happen!!:tongue:


She's a smart cookie. bigsmile

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Sat 11/15/14 07:24 AM




I called Gloria Steinem and this is what SHE said...Nationwide the wage gap between men and women still stands at about 75%...For every dollar men are paid, women receive $.75....So on "meet and greets", the only fair way to handle the tab is to let the man pay all of his share and 25% of the woman's...Same goes for the tip...:tongue:




They use the shortcut math and figure we will pay the other 25% for favors obligated. :tongue:


laugh Gloria warned me that would probably happen!!:tongue:


She's a smart cookie. bigsmile


Pretty too!:wink:

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Sat 11/15/14 07:25 AM


I called Gloria Steinem and this is what SHE said...Nationwide the wage gap between men and women still stands at about 75%...For every dollar men are paid, women receive $.75....So on "meet and greets", the only fair way to handle the tab is to let the man pay all of his share and 25% of the woman's...Same goes for the tip...:tongue:



Best have a calculator on you then ... very romantic ohwell
Wouldn't work for me .. too much of a fuss. If it's that difficult, I'll just pay my own and be done with it .. doubt there'd be a 2nd meeting/date though ..
If the bill is high, fair enough, but for maybe 2 cups of coffee or glasses of wine??


I thought "Meet and Greets were business meetings!:tongue:

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Sat 11/15/14 07:26 AM


My thoughts are....If you're really having to put this much thought into the whole process. Perhaps you shouldn't be trying to meet people in the 1st place. scared


:thumbsup: I'm with you Scoobs.............Wait!................... I've been thinking about this chit for two days now!!noway .....*Hangs head in shame*
laugh
Something's can really get over thought evidently...tongue2

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Sat 11/15/14 07:31 AM
eh, I just think if I really lust after his bod, he's going to be eating my pancakes, eggs n bacon in my kitchen the next morning regardless of where the money went. blushing

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Sat 11/15/14 07:35 AM

eh, I just think if I really lust after his bod, he's going to be eating my pancakes, eggs n bacon in my kitchen the next morning regardless of where the money went. blushing


love




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Sat 11/15/14 07:36 AM


eh, I just think if I really lust after his bod, he's going to be eating my pancakes, eggs n bacon in my kitchen the next morning regardless of where the money went. blushing


love





...then there's that sex with breakfast on the table. laugh drinker

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Sat 11/15/14 07:43 AM



eh, I just think if I really lust after his bod, he's going to be eating my pancakes, eggs n bacon in my kitchen the next morning regardless of where the money went. blushing


love





...then there's that sex with breakfast on the table. laugh drinker


I'm 100% sure you and Rock know what you're doing!...You are incredibly blessed to have found each other Ann...I know you already know this, but I just wanted to say it out loud...LDR are very hard and the ones that work are special, like a flawless diamond or a perfect pearlsmitten ...I wish you both a lifetime of love and happiness...:heart: drinker