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| Topic: Silent Treatment/Shutting Down-Maturity or Immaturity? Good | |
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wat up with me and u rigth lil mama 
   You have got to be kidding? Guess he missed the topic, or overly exited?? Mr Cool cleshay 
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wat up with me and u rigth lil mama
You have got to be kidding? Guess he missed the topic, or overly exited?? Mr Cool cleshay
LOL, I am biting my tongue in saying what I really want to say but yeah; he is missing something. 
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wat up with me and u rigth lil mama
You have got to be kidding? Guess he missed the topic, or overly exited?? Mr Cool cleshay
LOL, I am biting my tongue in saying what I really want to say but yeah; he is missing something.
You did it navygirl he came on here flabergasted, tonguetied after your response! Screwed him up so bad he forgot to turn his hat backwards. Shows me you "still got it" mama 
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Edited by
Totage
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Wed 12/03/14 03:00 PM
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Silent treatment is a form of sanction that involves ignoring a paticular individual,neither speaking to that person nor responding to his or her words.We have someone around us (a partner,spouse,family members) who is fond of doing this or possibly we are the one that gives people the 'treatment'.personally,i think its wrong and even wickedness.I feel issues should be resolved ASAP,even if anyone should give the silent treatment....maximum of 5minutes to cool off and get your speech together.What do ya think? Does it help/affect a family/relationship? It makes things worse and I dont tolerate it in a relationship. I do give time and space, but we will work on our issues. |
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Aversion and avoidance, ruins one's full concentration, which is not imploded or in exile.
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wat up with me and u rigth lil mama
You have got to be kidding? Guess he missed the topic, or overly exited?? Mr Cool cleshay
LOL, I am biting my tongue in saying what I really want to say but yeah; he is missing something.
You did it navygirl he came on here flabergasted, tonguetied after your response! Screwed him up so bad he forgot to turn his hat backwards. Shows me you "still got it" mama
Aww; you still think this old gal has got it? 
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silent demands and spoken demands both destroy any good that is or was.
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I don't get why people do the silent thing...to me it's just more unfinished business with no point...but it drives me nuts when people do it...it's leaves ya with a constant hmmmmm
 
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Edited by
davidben1
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Wed 12/03/14 07:36 PM
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I don't get why people do the silent thing...to me it's just more unfinished business with no point...but it drives me nuts when people do it...it's leaves ya with a constant hmmmmm
smiles... that's why they do it, to create the demand in others that they speak! a way of creating silent "control". so the one who cares, has been controlled. |
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I don't get why people do the silent thing...to me it's just more unfinished business with no point...but it drives me nuts when people do it...it's leaves ya with a constant hmmmmm
smiles... that's why they do it, to create the demand in others that they speak! a way of creating silent "control". so the one who cares, has been controlled. 
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I don't get why people do the silent thing...to me it's just more unfinished business with no point...but it drives me nuts when people do it...it's leaves ya with a constant hmmmmm
smiles... that's why they do it, to create the demand in others that they speak! a way of creating silent "control". so the one who cares, has been controlled.
you can, once you know factually in reality that such only spells most one thing... these do not care one iota about one self. |
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I don't get why people do the silent thing...to me it's just more unfinished business with no point...but it drives me nuts when people do it...it's leaves ya with a constant hmmmmm
smiles... that's why they do it, to create the demand in others that they speak! a way of creating silent "control". so the one who cares, has been controlled.
you can, once you know factually in reality that such only spells most one thing... these do not care one iota about one self. |
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Edited by
davidben1
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Wed 12/03/14 08:54 PM
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I don't get why people do the silent thing...to me it's just more unfinished business with no point...but it drives me nuts when people do it...it's leaves ya with a constant hmmmmm
smiles... that's why they do it, to create the demand in others that they speak! a way of creating silent "control". so the one who cares, has been controlled.
you can, once you know factually in reality that such only spells most one thing... these do not care one iota about one self. why? be the question... if i show and do caring to Jeffery Dahmer.... what am I? humans create good by only showing love or caring to what SHOWS AND DOES CARING TO OTHERS. it's how we CREATE a better world FOR ALL. with our self. that is how we actually show true caring of them... for they do not accept nor admit that treating others poorly will hurt them self or others... so they NEED help, form those who CARE. about all. |
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I guess all in all....people who play out "the silent treatment "...for what ever reason probably wouldn't say anything you would want to hear...hmmm....I think I will silently think about that...lol...
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silently capitulating to the wise insight of another in silence.
smiles 
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wat up with me and u rigth lil mama
You have got to be kidding? Guess he missed the topic, or overly exited?? Mr Cool cleshay
LOL, I am biting my tongue in saying what I really want to say but yeah; he is missing something.
You did it navygirl he came on here flabergasted, tonguetied after your response! Screwed him up so bad he forgot to turn his hat backwards. Shows me you "still got it" mama
Aww; you still think this old gal has got it?
 Hell yes. you still have a Heart it may have some ice crystals around it but it can thaw! Damn i pick my friends good!!((YOU GOT IT))
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 This may sound stupid to most but here goes; When my Daughter went to bed there was always(a kiss goodnight and i love you)! I kissed my wife and said i love you before going to work! Question : Would the last thing said between each other if a tragedy were to happen (be nothing?) But again that's just me thinking of Today and guessing everyone else has a guarantee of tomorrow? Guess i forgot this is cyberspace and everyone lives forever as long as that keyboard and computer is there? If that one isn't good then (click) another key? Most of the reason a relationship doesn't work there is always (((((((((Cyberspace))))))))))) Who needs to try anymore?
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I don't get why people do the silent thing...to me it's just more unfinished business with no point...but it drives me nuts when people do it...it's leaves ya with a constant hmmmmm
smiles... that's why they do it, to create the demand in others that they speak! a way of creating silent "control". so the one who cares, has been controlled. That may be why some people do it. Other people do it for other reasons, like claiming space for themselves, to find peace. Silence can be a form of manipulation, but demanding that someone engage with you is coercive. |
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To me the silent treatment is when someone is too afraid to face the truth, if you can't speak your mind and be done with it than you are too much a coward to face me and I don't need that kind of person in my life!!
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To me the silent treatment is when someone is too afraid to face the truth, if you can't speak your mind and be done with it than you are too much a coward to face me and I don't need that kind of person in my life!! 
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