In my short experience in websites, some men like to play with women feelings and they want too keep our money once we are in a "relationship" (it hapened twice to me). Now I don�t know if trust or not to any that come to talk... How to know wich are they inentions because I�m the search of a real one!

Lol i can't believe some women actually give their money to their man and i can't believe how selfish and idiotic a man can be to even ask for that.
why should you give your money to your man For what, who , where why ? There should be certain boundaries



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hi. welcome to mingle.
trust doesn't come easy when someone has given us a reason to think otherwise.
by going to the opposite extreme of blaming all of a group for the actions of a couple, we deprive ourself from the opportunity to enjoy life. we let our fear dictate our actions.
learn to trust in yourself and your instincts.
you talk about a significant other taking over your finances. that's only if you allow it.
take time. meet people. take it slow.
a person who cares and respects you will give you the time you need to feel comfortable. even the guys from online who are decent guys.
wish you all the best.

there are still, even in today's world, women who are taught that they are supposed to be obedient and/or submissive to the predominance of a man.
to not be so makes the woman and her family a disgrace.
not an easy mindset to overcome if that's how you were raised.
just saying.

Thank you very much for your words Dreamerana. It�s a little difficult for me to meet someone having in my mind that the guy is probably planning to take advantage! This makes me to go slowly and more carefuly even!

P.S.: I never gave money because I discovered their intentions and finished the contact, but it makes my change the mood I am now (expecting)...

Hello dear, everything happens for something. Read in the forums how to be watchful. Never give up hope. Real love was waiting here for me. My husband and me are so happy! Be blessed!

You have money?

My late wife (who died in 2014) was from the eastern region of Per�, and she didn't have much money when I met her.

Thank you so mucho Wintersky! I wish to be lucky than you and find true love!

You can find someone real.....I have and we are forging ahead albeit as an LDR for now.....but trust your instincts and dont be afraid to ask us here for advice we see of plenty of scammers and know the signs and over time you will as well....cheers...and good luck...

I got here as quick as I could..
I heard somebody was giving away money... ..
Ohhh... you're not giving away money..
.. why can I never meet somebody that just wants to give away their money...to.meeeee..lol...
yes ..op... paying half the rent okay..
paying for half groceries okay..
.. putting gas in his car after giving you a ride is OK.......
paying their rent for them not okay..
buying their groceries for them not okay...
paying their insurance on their car not OK..... always say !.ask yourself this... if somebody is asking me for something.. would I myself ask them for the same thing... if the answer is No...
then you should say no to them as .well.. easy peasy.. ...

.. so how about you lend me 10 bucks now...ok..
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Thank you Mike, I can see now the same person in 2 differents profiles and datas. Maybe you can unsderstand me better.

I don't trust anybody...
I don't even trust myself..

..... I will always eat the last chocolate in the box of chocolates.....

.. I'm a monster..lol..