Topic: What'll you do when your EX...
kc0003's photo
Sun 01/11/15 09:32 AM
Edited by kc0003 on Sun 01/11/15 09:36 AM
op, i'll tell you what you want to hear.

hit it and quit it.........................again!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 01/11/15 09:49 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Sun 01/11/15 09:50 AM


If you'd want to work things out, and I gather you don't really see much in this, doing so via sex is the worst thing you can do!
And if you'd do that, it wouldn't be really fair, cos for you it clearly would only be about great sex, while she'd be thinking you are working on getting back together again. So you'd be using her.

Like others said; sex means totally different things to men & women. For women it's usually an emotional connection, for men not necessarily so.


Generalizing a bit on that last sentence Crystal?:tongue: flowerforyou

Oh come on, Beach! You're not having a sore-ego-day, are you? Cos it's nothing to do with egos or gender-bashing.
Don't tell me you never had sex with a woman, and for you it being just sex, and after that she thought it was more? Seriously, don't tell me, lol.

And like KLC pointed out: "Not necessarily so".
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Sun 01/11/15 09:58 AM



If you'd want to work things out, and I gather you don't really see much in this, doing so via sex is the worst thing you can do!
And if you'd do that, it wouldn't be really fair, cos for you it clearly would only be about great sex, while she'd be thinking you are working on getting back together again. So you'd be using her.

Like others said; sex means totally different things to men & women. For women it's usually an emotional connection, for men not necessarily so.


Generalizing a bit on that last sentence Crystal?:tongue: flowerforyou

Oh come on, Beach! You're not having a sore-ego-day, are you? Cos it's nothing to do with egos or gender-bashing.
Don't tell me you never had sex with a woman, and for you it being just sex, and after that she thought it was more? Seriously, don't tell me, lol.

And like KLC pointed out: "Not necessarily so".
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I'm glad I said "may" be doing it wronglaugh ...Granted, I haven't had sex with many men,:angel: but every one of them swore they were emotionally connected before we did "it"...:tongue:

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 01/11/15 10:00 AM
Yes blushing I've bopped the ex just for the rocks.

Found out she was doing the same.

I felt so cheap, used and objectified.....like a piece of meat.

love It was SO HOT!

navygirl's photo
Sun 01/11/15 10:02 AM

finally realize, and admit they F up by letting you go?
Do you give her/him a second chance?
Or tell them to keep it moving?

Got a call from my ex-wife last night, who I haven't spoken to in almost a year. She went on and on about how much she's missed me, and how she realizes how badly she messed up. Lots of memory lane shte .

Long story short, she wants to hook up sexually, and see where it goes (her words).

Personally I don't hold out much hope of Us ever getting back together; however, sex with her is inticing.
Your thoughts????



It depends on how you feel. Me, I would never give the person a second chance. Logically; if you couldn't work out your problems the first time around; you probably won't be able to work it out once you hit the next hurdle. However; that is just how I personally feel about it. JMO

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Sun 01/11/15 10:19 AM

Yes blushing I've bopped the ex just for the rocks.

Found out she was doing the same.

I felt so cheap, used and objectified.....like a piece of meat.

love It was SO HOT!


hey meatball....nice to know the sauce was good too...lol

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Sun 01/11/15 10:21 AM

If they're an ex, they're gonna stay an ex.
I don't recycle trash.


OK lemme think about this for just one moment...who is the trash? If you have an ex that means you are an ex too?

Does that make both of you recycable? lollaugh

HoneyFly's photo
Sun 01/11/15 10:43 AM
I recycle magazines ;)

davidben1's photo
Sun 01/11/15 10:50 AM
if ya wanna, then do.

if ya don't, then don't.

either way, your most want, and her most want, will win out anyways.

to deem either way a "mistake", is follish.

for if in life, one is always asking others which way to turn left or right, it shall never gain it's own instincts nor confidence to not need others to prop one self up with a cane.

and right and left are both equal turns.

once one makes all it's own decisions, with no input, one will be surprised just how accurate one will become...

for it is only in taking others advice, that leads naturally to the instinct to blame them, when the outcome for one self was not a good one.

when one makes ALL it's own decisions, it will blame ALL on it self, and very very quickly, become wiser than a serpent.

for when one ask it self, how "am i", i am, creating all that is occurring.

clarity of precise mind cannot fail nor avoid these.

smiles&peace


Awatersign's photo
Sun 01/11/15 11:18 AM

If they're an ex, they're gonna stay an ex.
I don't recycle trash.
deeeemnsurprised ,oh,I will use that line when the time is right lol,that's cold but also hilarious!:laughing:

green_vinz's photo
Sun 01/11/15 11:28 AM
In life making a right choice is difficult if you don't eliminate all the possible worst results.. Ignore all the unnecessary advice. Just focus on what your problem really is.... don't make life so complicated, .. I know you can do the right ONE.
-A good choice, even though it is not the best, but it's still a GOOD_CHOICE!

#be+positive..........

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 01/11/15 04:21 PM
I just like to Fv<k!

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Sun 01/11/15 04:28 PM
obviously beach isn;t going for subtlewhat

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Sun 01/11/15 04:28 PM



If they're an ex, they're gonna stay an ex.
I don't recycle trash.


OK lemme think about this for just one moment...who is the trash? If you have an ex that means you are an ex too?

Does that make both of you recycable? lollaugh
maybe they are two separate life choices. I wouldnt go back to an ex. I recycle tho. If its not for the earths sake, then for the sheer volume of trash I would have in the ol bin.

My father doesnt recycle. :shrug:


I would talk to an ex....maybe

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 01/11/15 04:29 PM

obviously beach isn;t going for subtlewhat


laugh flowerforyou

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Sun 01/11/15 04:39 PM


obviously beach isn;t going for subtlewhat


laugh flowerforyou


waving

Kindlightheart's photo
Sun 01/11/15 04:41 PM
Guess playing with the ex has its pro's...but all in all unless ya wanna try to make it work it seems kinda pointless...ok..ya might get your rocks off..but ya might miss an opportunity with someone new cause why move forward if ya leave the car parked in the old garage..:wink: flowerforyou

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 01/11/15 04:41 PM
Muah Sweet! waving

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Sun 01/11/15 04:46 PM

Muah Sweet! waving


where is that in your picture? and I hope that "muah" was a gig ole kiss muahbigsmile

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Sun 01/11/15 11:47 PM

Guess playing with the ex has its pro's...but all in all unless ya wanna try to make it work it seems kinda pointless...ok..ya might get your rocks off..but ya might miss an opportunity with someone new cause why move forward if ya leave the car parked in the old garage..:wink: flowerforyou


Best answer !!!