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Topic: Taking my time
ZenSoul79 Joined Thu 01/15/15 Posts: 343	Sat 01/17/15 07:44 AM
Just joined. Or should i say rejoined, heh. This was the year I said to myself that a lot of things will have to change. My views of myself as a person, my opinion of myself as a man, and as a potential mate to someone, someday. It feels good to finally figure out where I want to be headed in life, and it feels even more liberating to know that it doesnt have to be specific just yet, and that I'll figure it out as i go, crossing those bridges when I come to them, and taking them all in stride. I'm fairly intelligent, I like to take my time with relationships, especially people, because I used to be worse. As in so introverted, I'd refuse to talk to anyone who my poor instincts decided weren't worth my time. It turns out I was wrong more times than I was right. And yet I feel as if late last year something happened and i broke that cycle. I'm more open to possibilities, I feel braver, and I suppose thats the real reason why I'm here. Like everyone else, I seek a good honest connection with someone. Not saying it'll happen on this particular site for sure....but taking a chance on something is better than waiting around for nothing to happen. I'm sort of the everyman that can chat up anybody, but I'm also selective. It could be that no on reads this or is interested in someone like me, but that I write this and it inspires someone to write me or some other paramour they have. Either way, thanks for looking. I'm going to take my time. I'm going to write more people. and I'm gonna keep being the best me that I can. And hopefully someone will see it, and feel compelled to write to me. I'm remaining open and optimistic. Hopefully I'll meet a lady who matches my optimism. I'll be around.

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Sat 01/17/15 07:59 AM
welcome

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Sat 01/17/15 08:01 AM
Hai.....

Pansytilly Joined Mon 06/09/14 Posts: 11310	Sat 01/17/15 10:05 AM
Halo

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Sat 01/17/15 10:15 AM
Goodluck and welcome

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Sat 01/17/15 10:19 AM
welcome good luck on your search

tamitateo Joined Sun 12/21/14 Posts: 822	Sat 01/17/15 11:02 AM
welcome

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45325	Sat 01/17/15 11:16 AM
Just joined. Or should i say rejoined, heh. This was the year I said to myself that a lot of things will have to change. My views of myself as a person, my opinion of myself as a man, and as a potential mate to someone, someday. It feels good to finally figure out where I want to be headed in life, and it feels even more liberating to know that it doesnt have to be specific just yet, and that I'll figure it out as i go, crossing those bridges when I come to them, and taking them all in stride. I'm fairly intelligent, I like to take my time with relationships, especially people, because I used to be worse. As in so introverted, I'd refuse to talk to anyone who my poor instincts decided weren't worth my time. It turns out I was wrong more times than I was right. And yet I feel as if late last year something happened and i broke that cycle. I'm more open to possibilities, I feel braver, and I suppose thats the real reason why I'm here. Like everyone else, I seek a good honest connection with someone. Not saying it'll happen on this particular site for sure....but taking a chance on something is better than waiting around for nothing to happen. I'm sort of the everyman that can chat up anybody, but I'm also selective. It could be that no on reads this or is interested in someone like me, but that I write this and it inspires someone to write me or some other paramour they have. Either way, thanks for looking. I'm going to take my time. I'm going to write more people. and I'm gonna keep being the best me that I can. And hopefully someone will see it, and feel compelled to write to me. I'm remaining open and optimistic. Hopefully I'll meet a lady who matches my optimism. I'll be around. Welcome :-) (Who were you on here, before?)

Angeltripping17 Joined Fri 05/09/14 Posts: 267	Sat 01/17/15 11:21 AM
Brilliant ...it sounds like you are in a better place to be with someone. I wish you peace love and happiness always

ZenSoul79 Joined Thu 01/15/15 Posts: 343	Sat 01/17/15 08:07 PM
Thanks. I actually think my old profile is still up, i used to be called JRonin.

ZenSoul79 Joined Thu 01/15/15 Posts: 343	Sat 01/17/15 08:10 PM
Just joined. Or should i say rejoined, heh. This was the year I said to myself that a lot of things will have to change. My views of myself as a person, my opinion of myself as a man, and as a potential mate to someone, someday. It feels good to finally figure out where I want to be headed in life, and it feels even more liberating to know that it doesnt have to be specific just yet, and that I'll figure it out as i go, crossing those bridges when I come to them, and taking them all in stride. I'm fairly intelligent, I like to take my time with relationships, especially people, because I used to be worse. As in so introverted, I'd refuse to talk to anyone who my poor instincts decided weren't worth my time. It turns out I was wrong more times than I was right. And yet I feel as if late last year something happened and i broke that cycle. I'm more open to possibilities, I feel braver, and I suppose thats the real reason why I'm here. Like everyone else, I seek a good honest connection with someone. Not saying it'll happen on this particular site for sure....but taking a chance on something is better than waiting around for nothing to happen. I'm sort of the everyman that can chat up anybody, but I'm also selective. It could be that no on reads this or is interested in someone like me, but that I write this and it inspires someone to write me or some other paramour they have. Either way, thanks for looking. I'm going to take my time. I'm going to write more people. and I'm gonna keep being the best me that I can. And hopefully someone will see it, and feel compelled to write to me. I'm remaining open and optimistic. Hopefully I'll meet a lady who matches my optimism. I'll be around. Welcome :-) (Who were you on here, before?) used to be called JRonin, I think. can't quite access that account, though, but as soon as I can i'm deleting it. People are probably gonna get confused cuz I no longer use that profile.

mckduf54 Joined Thu 01/01/15 Posts: 1	Sat 01/17/15 08:11 PM
Hi there, am new as well and working out how this social media site works :) Hope you're having fun!

elle_rose Joined Sat 07/26/14 Posts: 828	Sat 01/17/15 08:21 PM
welcome new guys !

girlie_tazmania Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 258	Sat 01/17/15 08:32 PM
Just joined. Or should i say rejoined, heh. This was the year I said to myself that a lot of things will have to change. My views of myself as a person, my opinion of myself as a man, and as a potential mate to someone, someday. It feels good to finally figure out where I want to be headed in life, and it feels even more liberating to know that it doesnt have to be specific just yet, and that I'll figure it out as i go, crossing those bridges when I come to them, and taking them all in stride. I'm fairly intelligent, I like to take my time with relationships, especially people, because I used to be worse. As in so introverted, I'd refuse to talk to anyone who my poor instincts decided weren't worth my time. It turns out I was wrong more times than I was right. And yet I feel as if late last year something happened and i broke that cycle. I'm more open to possibilities, I feel braver, and I suppose thats the real reason why I'm here. Like everyone else, I seek a good honest connection with someone. Not saying it'll happen on this particular site for sure....but taking a chance on something is better than waiting around for nothing to happen. I'm sort of the everyman that can chat up anybody, but I'm also selective. It could be that no on reads this or is interested in someone like me, but that I write this and it inspires someone to write me or some other paramour they have. Either way, thanks for looking. I'm going to take my time. I'm going to write more people. and I'm gonna keep being the best me that I can. And hopefully someone will see it, and feel compelled to write to me. I'm remaining open and optimistic. Hopefully I'll meet a lady who matches my optimism. I'll be around. Welcome :-) (Who were you on here, before?) used to be called JRonin, I think. can't quite access that account, though, but as soon as I can i'm deleting it. People are probably gonna get confused cuz I no longer use that profile. Welcome back to the mingle2. And hope you'll find what you are looking for this time. All best of luck for you.

ZenSoul79 Joined Thu 01/15/15 Posts: 343	Sun 01/18/15 12:04 AM
Just joined. Or should i say rejoined, heh. This was the year I said to myself that a lot of things will have to change. My views of myself as a person, my opinion of myself as a man, and as a potential mate to someone, someday. It feels good to finally figure out where I want to be headed in life, and it feels even more liberating to know that it doesnt have to be specific just yet, and that I'll figure it out as i go, crossing those bridges when I come to them, and taking them all in stride. I'm fairly intelligent, I like to take my time with relationships, especially people, because I used to be worse. As in so introverted, I'd refuse to talk to anyone who my poor instincts decided weren't worth my time. It turns out I was wrong more times than I was right. And yet I feel as if late last year something happened and i broke that cycle. I'm more open to possibilities, I feel braver, and I suppose thats the real reason why I'm here. Like everyone else, I seek a good honest connection with someone. Not saying it'll happen on this particular site for sure....but taking a chance on something is better than waiting around for nothing to happen. I'm sort of the everyman that can chat up anybody, but I'm also selective. It could be that no on reads this or is interested in someone like me, but that I write this and it inspires someone to write me or some other paramour they have. Either way, thanks for looking. I'm going to take my time. I'm going to write more people. and I'm gonna keep being the best me that I can. And hopefully someone will see it, and feel compelled to write to me. I'm remaining open and optimistic. Hopefully I'll meet a lady who matches my optimism. I'll be around. Welcome :-) (Who were you on here, before?) used to be called JRonin, I think. can't quite access that account, though, but as soon as I can i'm deleting it. People are probably gonna get confused cuz I no longer use that profile. Welcome back to the mingle2. And hope you'll find what you are looking for this time. All best of luck for you. Many thanks.