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When I was younger if it was just sex it did not matter much to me but at this point in my life I am looking for that true love romance. Sex is so much better when its with someone you love. When I was younger, I thought sex WAS love..  ...Six months later, I was on my way to becoming a mommy....That will grow you up real fast!...Now it's ONLY what Beach said, "Only with love involved, can sex be PASSIONATE... Morning fellas!! 
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Edited by
mysticalview21
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Sun 01/18/15 10:46 AM
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Okay, I'm back with another topic for your Brains.... Now lets say you live in a big city like New York, Philadelphia, los Angeles, Chicago, or even Miami, & you single rather you seeking dating, just friends, or relationship ,sexual encounters hell even marriage. Do people today want love anymore or is it about a casual sex. Don't get me wrong I like great sex, I like to date for the hopes to elevate to something more special but the politics of dating today seems far more " Play by Ear" or" Lets Have sex then we can talk about us being together". So what I want to know is "Is Love still factor today or casual sex is the new courting,( example we just have fun then we see if we compatible or if its not broken don't fix it mentality?". Give me your thoughts on this one ( oh Shot outs to all who living this topic....) op we now have this thing we call friends with benefits...and that is all they want is to meet up time to time maybe becouse their lives are very busy and they have the same partner and just have sex with them ... and i guess could have multiple partners ... and they mainly will tell you this...so you don't expect anything more ... so their both cool with this ... and OP as far as a love relationship you have to see them for sometime to know if you like them or even want to have sex with them ... least for me ... I have never been on a date where I have said... hey lets have sex lol becouse i did not feel that way about them ... and who is to say once you do have sex with each other that that will work out ... but my hope if I am really into them both mentally and physical will come together just fine ... but you have to at some point have a sexual relationship ... and take that chance ... least thats how I feel ... least the chance for it to work out or not ... an you have to have that in your mind to doesn't work does't work ... what else can you really do or say ... |
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  Only with love involved, can sex be PASSIONATE... I LOVE making PASSIONATE LOVE! |
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sex and love can work well together but each is valid and a source of great pleasure both physical and emotional. As woody allen adeptly stated sex with out love is a meaningless experience but as a meaningless experience its one of the greatest. As for what people want love, sex marriage, commitment these are best defined in context and with direct communication and honesty....
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you know i like your responses its to the point & true!
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Good Lord! Why do people overthink things when it comes to this topic? I have had great sex with me being in love. I have had great sex when it was just that....sex. Of course sex is awesome when it is done with passion, desire, lust and love....all combined. But that doesn't mean it is empty when all those things aren't there. Sex is one of the greatest things in the world and it sucks we have tabooed it so. Wanna bust nuts with FWB's and not have a committed relationship? Do it and be merry. Wanna have that relationship where it is intimacy with the one you love? Wait for it and do that. But for God's sake just allow people to do what they want.
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Only with love involved, can sex be PASSIONATE... I LOVE making PASSIONATE LOVE! Nice words. |
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Only with love involved, can sex be PASSIONATE... I LOVE making PASSIONATE LOVE! In a few words everything said
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Good Lord! Why do people overthink things when it comes to this topic? I have had great sex with me being in love. I have had great sex when it was just that....sex. Of course sex is awesome when it is done with passion, desire, lust and love....all combined. But that doesn't mean it is empty when all those things aren't there. Sex is one of the greatest things in the world and it sucks we have tabooed it so. Wanna bust nuts with FWB's and not have a committed relationship? Do it and be merry. Wanna have that relationship where it is intimacy with the one you love? Wait for it and do that. But for God's sake just allow people to do what they want. 
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Okay, I'm back with another topic for your Brains.... Now lets say you live in a big city like New York, Philadelphia, los Angeles, Chicago, or even Miami, & you single rather you seeking dating, just friends, or relationship ,sexual encounters hell even marriage. Do people today want love anymore or is it about a casual sex. Don't get me wrong I like great sex, I like to date for the hopes to elevate to something more special but the politics of dating today seems far more " Play by Ear" or" Lets Have sex then we can talk about us being together". So what I want to know is "Is Love still factor today or casual sex is the new courting,( example we just have fun then we see if we compatible or if its not broken don't fix it mentality?". Give me your thoughts on this one ( oh Shot outs to all who living this topic....) I think the problem today is that people overthink things. Example: Your OP was a little lengthy for me to read. lol   
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Age groups and social statis will both have difference in opinion on the two subjects. Having some people voice their opinion openingly to create a fair comprehension of the differences of these two subjects will not happen online. Therefore the results will be queue.
Your best data may possibly come from malls, doctor offices - etc., college's and universities, to encompass a vast population age range. Both are important in a relationship, but also depends on age. Now days' is the almighty dollar more important than either. |
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Only with love involved, can sex be PASSIONATE... I LOVE making PASSIONATE LOVE! I like |
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I suspect that some people are obsessed with sex because they use it as a drug. How positively true !! People use sex for lots of things - mostly to boost their ego. |
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Are you sure of that beautiful white?
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as fine as you are you can have both beautiful....
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Ahem ahem
Even I want the same :P |
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If I were to understand that "mammal" is a "super-set" and "human-being" is a "sub-set", then I'd prefer "love" to be the "super-set" and "sex" to be the "sub-set".. Life Becomes Beautiful in such case... :-)
However, if the opposite was "assumed" to be true..then I'd infer that "LOVE" has no existence..It's sheer/pure "LUST" for a physical body! :-) [Keep Smiling]
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