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Topic: Is it harder to date as you get older.
no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sun 05/03/15 03:46 PM
Lol.. I don't know if I would actually .. . brag about that..lol.. .. but like a fine wine I guess..

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Sun 05/03/15 03:48 PM Edited by TMommy on Sun 05/03/15 03:48 PM
naaa my age doesn't bother me not the kind of woman that lies about it

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Sun 05/03/15 04:15 PM
Lol.. I don't know if I would actually .. . brag about that..lol.. .. but like a fine wine I guess.. Like a fine sweet cherry wine... I tell it like it is.

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10645	Sun 05/03/15 06:35 PM
It's harder to date guys that I am interested in. Most guys that ask me out are about 65-70 years old. I don't want that. At the same time, most think that I am a lot younger than I am. So these are the same guys hitting on me when they think I am around 30 years old.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sun 05/03/15 07:12 PM
hard to tell from this angle..^^^^..lol

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Sun 05/03/15 08:42 PM


Stickchick Joined Sun 06/01/14 Posts: 1	Wed 05/06/15 04:07 AM
Messi tim you seem to stick your oar in on a lot of comments ...your not particularily a nice person ...if you cant say anything nice you should keep your mouth shut !!!!!

SassyEuro2 Joined Wed 04/29/15 Posts: 11102	Thu 05/07/15 02:15 AM


ItravelAlberta Joined Sun 04/26/15 Posts: 13	Thu 05/07/15 04:02 AM
Yes, there are many challenges to a successful relationship as we get older. However, I would also challenge the notion that we bring baggage. That is a choice. Personally, I believe that I am a better person for having the taken the time to consider my life and own up to my flaws. I'm 'unperfect'. I am also willing to make compromises and accept a woman in my life for the beauty of her total self including the flaws. This is richness to be regarded and cherished. I also realize that I am unique in my views. I have faith I will find a woman capable of accepting me for who I am as much as I am capable of accepting her for who she is. I know I am worthy. I disagree with everyone and only agree in part with dadcat. First of all we are talking about people not objects or cars. Age is relevant depending on the lowest end between the two. I'm 44 and sure, what guy doesn't want a 20somerhing? The only problem with that is I do t really want conversations about what she said about her 3rd past ex or her latest app, no offence ladies, if I were a gal it would've been what he said. It's not believing my own bs that helps me. I've heard it said that the goal isn't so much to have my needs met but for me to meet her needs. The development and growth and nurturing and caring for the other person should come first for the relationship to flourish otherwise each person is viewing it through a lens of selfishness. Where's that going to go? Finally, I don't know about you, but the last thing I want to see happen is get involved with someone with a viewpoint that doesn't include kids as a possible and probable outcome, even if it means adoption. How do you grow and mature without kids in the equation? Everyone is all, dude you need to grow up. My question? I agree. I'm immature, but how exactly do I do that in a vacuum. You see, none of these issues really have anything to do with meeting the right person as they do with being the right kind of person. Single, couple, married or with or without kids. As for me, I'm not there.

tenderman90 Joined Sun 03/22/15 Posts: 2	Mon 07/06/15 02:47 PM
i dont think , i saw your profile you are very attractive and beautiful ....

tenderman90 Joined Sun 03/22/15 Posts: 2	Mon 07/06/15 02:48 PM
That is a very insightful response . You just have to try and find the one person that can learn to trust you, as your trust for them grows. A person that is also looking for the same thing. Yes, it is hard, almost impossible , but so very worth it. At least, that is what I keep telling myself. i dont think , i saw your profile you are very attractive and beautiful

Friendly_Woman Joined Mon 04/27/15 Posts: 728	Sun 07/19/15 11:56 AM
It isn't harder in my case. It's just that I like to wait a bit of a while before dating again. I have to have time to grieve for the last ex.

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Sun 07/19/15 12:23 PM
I thought about this and came up with maybe I need to lower my expectation of what I want Mmmmm? I thought I had How low must one go? Lol

prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Wed 07/22/15 05:56 AM
I thought about this and came up with maybe I need to lower my expectation of what I want Mmmmm? I thought I had How low must one go? Lol Hmmm...in my opinion...one should leave attempting for companion right from the moment which triggered the thought that we are LOWERING our expectations....