It does get harder to FIND a woman worth dating as I get older, it seems I get better with time but lot's of single women get worse. There must be something wrong with the single older women category that no man can fix.

(I'm just playing by a rule that someone else established. )

But you forgot the part where it makes no difference to a woman to be married or single, yet is makes a difference to men.

I didn't forget. I just didn't need it.

Yup. There's something wrong with us.



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Ya the older I get the harder the younger ones are.

Men of all ages are difficult to date unless dating means sex.

Meanwhile, back in this universe ...

As I 'see' it: 'Dating' has nothing to do with 'age'
'History' bears testimony to the fact that 'men' & 'women' of all ages, have been 'dating', all over the world. "55" year old man dating a "28" year old lady & vice-versa.

Everything is pre-written & pre-destined in life. 'Dating' is only a 'subset'. (Nothing to do with 'age'. "Trust Me" )

it is a little harder.. many men already married....I am set in my ways, like my routine... so do they

it takes more to make feel it's worth interrupting my hobbies/free time to date


kinda sad but refreshingly honest :)

um, yea it is because earlier into my dating yr's ( relationships) I learnt the thing's I don't want my standards are where they should be and I refuse to settle for less than I deserve I am very selective dating/relationship I guess it varies depending on the person what they've been through etc i'm 44 and it's way harder to date

Does saying no become easier? No.

what's harder is to choose a date as you get older..

No. Not totally. This dating site was just another way. But I still believe it can only work out for the better, if you both meet face to face. My last boyfriend lived in the same residential home as me. That would be the last place I expected to meet a man who wanted me. And I already had the added benefit of living with him. I thought it was a bit strange, how he kept giving me more attention than any other woman in the same room. I then suddenly understood why. At least I got a new year kiss from him, but he likes to play the field. So neat yet so far. Maybe I'll meet a gentleman, someday, but I highly doubt it.

Actually, I think the answer to this one is no.


I couldn't get anyone to go out with me when I was younger, and I can't seem to get a date now that I'm older. So, I'm thinking it is exactly the same.

That is a very insightful response . You just have to try and find the one person that can learn to trust you, as your trust for them grows. A person that is also looking for the same thing. Yes, it is hard, almost impossible , but so very worth it. At least, that is what I keep telling myself.

you would have to find someone who understands that your time is precious
and you only have so much of you to go around
you are a parent first and foremost always
and as a part of this, you must also work to put food in cupboards, pay bills.

you have high expectations of yourself as a human being
you expect nothing less from the person you are choosing to spend your time with and introduce into the lives of your children

I have no problems dating as I get older. I still got it and everybody wants me.

I just want to be married. Have someone there.

so I gathered from that proposal of marriage

best wishes in finding who it is you are looking for

yeah listen to what the old lady has to say..lmao..jk.. you are not...that old..

older than you junior