....and because most 'older' blokes are too comfy sitting in front of the computer and can't be arsed to get up and actually meet...

.. or are mainly looking for a 'maid' or a 'nurse'.

Last lunch date I went on the guy burst out crying while he was telling me since his ex left him he now has to do all his own cooking and washing . How embarrassing ..

Message good day , hw are you, can I be your friend

That is sad.

So true!

Hmmmm?

You can't end your story like that... What in the hell did you do after he broke down? I know this isn't really funny but geez... damn my curiosity...

Because.. they can.. and they even made a word for it " cougar".. which somehow seems to make it o.k.

Now on the other hand, if I guy does that he is still just considered... a dirty old man..

Lol.. double standards ;)

the youngest person need sex and or other thinks.

older man 99% wanted the best friend best partner other half or and wife.....

dont need to lie....
dont need to cheat...
just relax with new partner and always
help each together..i want to got my new life with new wife for my new angel ... this what I think.

Absolutes, like 'Always' always ASSUME...And assume makes an *** out of you and me. You know, I can't really say that I read messages from younger women before, r more enthusiastically than ones from women my age. But I certainly cannot say that I put them last, lol! Let's face it...It makes EVERYONE feel good to know that they are still attractive to younger daters...And there is nothing wrong with that! But remember... Neither of you will be getting any younger. Will a relationship with the primary focus on age difference still hold the thrill in say...Five years? From EITHER SIDE? Age difference is the LAST factor I wanna consider- it just isn't that important

I am 51yrs old and I would like to say I look for an older gentleman as I think its best to be an older mans darling than a young mans slave and I took my profile picture down not because I think I'm nice looking but I did have a lot of dirty men asking for more than just conversation. Beauty is in the eye off the beholder I was brought up to believe and although people say I am pretty I never believe them I am just a normal lady looking for a nice normal gentleman which I find it very hard to do. I am sorry to say but its not just you guys having trouble us lady have a problem here to lol. good luck in your search ever wish to chat to a normal lady feel free to contact me

I think its creepy when any older person dates a person that is way younger than them.

So do I . Mom always said " play with kids your own age".. and Mom was never wrong ;)

big smile :)

Question to the Woman?

Hi Everyone, Question to the Woman, dose the average to below
Average looking has any chances of Woman on these sites of getting a date? It seems not. As you can see by my picnic am a very average
Looking Man about a 5 from 1-10 of look’s, just wondering if I stand a chance. Or is it pretty much a lost cause. I come to the harsh
Realization that I get turned down either because of look’s or race
Or both. Have people become that shallow and don’t care at all
About what should really matter about a person, the one that
Last long after the look’s/body fades away with age and that’s
The person’s inner qualities. Thanks’ Dave

I get plenty of mail from younger and I try to be nice with a polite thanks/NO thanks then comes the lip, pleading, or do I know of a fix up. Do I look like Dear Abby; lol

Besides I raised my kids and trained them to raise their own. These younger guys need to do their own chores or be nicer to their own Momma if they need "help".


Give me peer age or I will pass

Dave; sadly most people in this world are shallow. I get turned down because of my looks and age. I just gave up trying and keep myself immersed in volunteer work and my hobbies.

I don't live any where near you!!

yeah i think you right