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Topic: Mending a broken heart...
WonderWoman48 Joined Tue 01/27/15 Posts: 1560	Thu 02/26/15 10:01 AM
Trust no one. I agree with you Don't believe or trust annyone.

tealbreeze Joined Sun 02/08/15 Posts: 2279	Thu 02/26/15 10:14 AM
Trust no one. I agree with you Don't believe or trust annyone. I think we agree on a lot of things about creepers. high five

ALBYAK Joined Wed 01/27/10 Posts: 283	Thu 02/26/15 10:22 AM
Hi, I signed up here on mingle last January 2015 and unfortunately my first chat mate here was a "soldier" as what he claims he is. We chatted for more than 3 weeks straight everyday and talked on messenger too everyday. I fell in love with him because he is so sweet and very romantic. Any woman will surely fall in love with him for sure. With the photos he sent and the messages he sent thru email is so heart warming. Then 1 day, he asked me for help, If I can send him money because he said that his bank account was hacked and he cant get money from the bank until he settle it personally in Maryland. That rings a bell in my mind because I know that anyone who is in the service of the US Govt is given the priority whenever they are deployed and have problems especially if they are in need of food and assistance. I asked him how could that happen that you lacked foods and necessities in the camp? he said that he's been experiencing that since he arrived in Africa last July 2014. There, I started to re read all his emails and messages and saw some instances that his emails and his messages in messenger doesn't jive at all. I asked him more questions from our previous conversations and he failed to give me the answers he previously given to me. At that instant, I stop communicating with him. Right now I am recuperating with my heartache. Hoping that time will heal the wound I have right now. Hope that this story of mine will somehow enlighten the minds of those who are like me that gets easily swayed by sweet words and sweet tongue of those who are just here to trick women and even men for that matter. MAYBE I AM TOO MUCH A SKEPTIC BUT.........HAS ANYONE LOOKED AT HER PROFILE

luvmeforlife Joined Wed 11/06/13 Posts: 700	Thu 02/26/15 10:30 AM
lol if he was hacked the bank will take care of it. And if he is in the military they will take care of it. oh and btw when you are on deployment they feed you 3 meals a day still.

coolden Joined Sun 01/25/15 Posts: 31	Thu 02/26/15 08:41 PM
Hi, I signed up here on mingle last January 2015 and unfortunately my first chat mate here was a "soldier" as what he claims he is. We chatted for more than 3 weeks straight everyday and talked on messenger too everyday. I fell in love with him because he is so sweet and very romantic. Any woman will surely fall in love with him for sure. With the photos he sent and the messages he sent thru email is so heart warming. Then 1 day, he asked me for help, If I can send him money because he said that his bank account was hacked and he cant get money from the bank until he settle it personally in Maryland. That rings a bell in my mind because I know that anyone who is in the service of the US Govt is given the priority whenever they are deployed and have problems especially if they are in need of food and assistance. I asked him how could that happen that you lacked foods and necessities in the camp? he said that he's been experiencing that since he arrived in Africa last July 2014. There, I started to re read all his emails and messages and saw some instances that his emails and his messages in messenger doesn't jive at all. I asked him more questions from our previous conversations and he failed to give me the answers he previously given to me. At that instant, I stop communicating with him. Right now I am recuperating with my heartache. Hoping that time will heal the wound I have right now. Hope that this story of mine will somehow enlighten the minds of those who are like me that gets easily swayed by sweet words and sweet tongue of those who are just here to trick women and even men for that matter. MAYBE I AM TOO MUCH A SKEPTIC BUT.........HAS ANYONE LOOKED AT HER PROFILE why, what is wrong with my profile?

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Thu 02/26/15 08:46 PM
I check tons of profiles and it looks okay to me... Certainly not like the 75 year old scammer that approached me this morning..

coolden Joined Sun 01/25/15 Posts: 31	Thu 02/26/15 08:51 PM
I check tons of profiles and it looks okay to me... Certainly not like the 75 year old scammer that approached me this morning.. lol.. thanks yeah, anyone can say anything to someone as long as it doesnt hurt that certain person its ok to comment... Have a nice day

ADAMLEGASPI Joined Thu 02/26/15 Posts: 3	Thu 02/26/15 08:55 PM
hai

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Thu 02/26/15 08:56 PM
Have you ever seen catfish ? , you did that to yourself . Next time think instead of reacting so quickly over Internet words when you've never seen the person I wasnt blaming anyone for what I've been through. I am just sharing my experience to serve as a lesson to everyone. I am entitled to express my feeling here. Not be insulted for that matter. Thank You for being nice... Well said! Wow! I'm sorry to heard that... My experience was similar as yours, but in my case He was going to deposit the money in my bank account. So now when they're start asking for my phone #, email address or yahoo msg. I block and report them simple as that. I learned my own lesson and try not to accept all friend request unless I c them often in the forums... good luck These scammers are not to be trifled with they have nothing better to do than sit around in large numbers and devise how they will seduce and fool us...men and women alike this is what they do for a living, they are very cunning and clever and many streetwise folk have been fooled and will continue to be fooled by their trickery... We need to protect our fellow minglers from this threat...not lay blame...

ADAMLEGASPI Joined Thu 02/26/15 Posts: 3	Thu 02/26/15 08:57 PM
hai

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48926	Thu 02/26/15 08:57 PM
Hi, I signed up here on mingle last January 2015 and unfortunately my first chat mate here was a "soldier" as what he claims he is. We chatted for more than 3 weeks straight everyday and talked on messenger too everyday. I fell in love with him because he is so sweet and very romantic. Any woman will surely fall in love with him for sure. With the photos he sent and the messages he sent thru email is so heart warming. Then 1 day, he asked me for help, If I can send him money because he said that his bank account was hacked and he cant get money from the bank until he settle it personally in Maryland. That rings a bell in my mind because I know that anyone who is in the service of the US Govt is given the priority whenever they are deployed and have problems especially if they are in need of food and assistance. I asked him how could that happen that you lacked foods and necessities in the camp? he said that he's been experiencing that since he arrived in Africa last July 2014. There, I started to re read all his emails and messages and saw some instances that his emails and his messages in messenger doesn't jive at all. I asked him more questions from our previous conversations and he failed to give me the answers he previously given to me. At that instant, I stop communicating with him. Right now I am recuperating with my heartache. Hoping that time will heal the wound I have right now. Hope that this story of mine will somehow enlighten the minds of those who are like me that gets easily swayed by sweet words and sweet tongue of those who are just here to trick women and even men for that matter. MAYBE I AM TOO MUCH A SKEPTIC BUT.........HAS ANYONE LOOKED AT HER PROFILE The only thing wrong with coolden's profile is that she lives too far away from me.

ADAMLEGASPI Joined Thu 02/26/15 Posts: 3	Thu 02/26/15 09:04 PM
hai

coolden Joined Sun 01/25/15 Posts: 31	Thu 02/26/15 09:12 PM
Have you ever seen catfish ? , you did that to yourself . Next time think instead of reacting so quickly over Internet words when you've never seen the person I wasnt blaming anyone for what I've been through. I am just sharing my experience to serve as a lesson to everyone. I am entitled to express my feeling here. Not be insulted for that matter. Thank You for being nice... Well said! Wow! I'm sorry to heard that... My experience was similar as yours, but in my case He was going to deposit the money in my bank account. So now when they're start asking for my phone #, email address or yahoo msg. I block and report them simple as that. I learned my own lesson and try not to accept all friend request unless I c them often in the forums... good luck These scammers are not to be trifled with they have nothing better to do than sit around in large numbers and devise how they will seduce and fool us...men and women alike this is what they do for a living, they are very cunning and clever and many streetwise folk have been fooled and will continue to be fooled by their trickery... We need to protect our fellow minglers from this threat...not lay blame... Absolutely, for me, being tricked and scammed, it is the least thing to do to help someone who could be their future victim. And sharing what Ive been through s not easy because I does makes me look like a fool for falling in their bait. I am thankful that there are still people here that are true and genuine enough to understand me. I couldn't thank you enough for that.

coolden Joined Sun 01/25/15 Posts: 31	Thu 02/26/15 09:14 PM
Hi, I signed up here on mingle last January 2015 and unfortunately my first chat mate here was a "soldier" as what he claims he is. We chatted for more than 3 weeks straight everyday and talked on messenger too everyday. I fell in love with him because he is so sweet and very romantic. Any woman will surely fall in love with him for sure. With the photos he sent and the messages he sent thru email is so heart warming. Then 1 day, he asked me for help, If I can send him money because he said that his bank account was hacked and he cant get money from the bank until he settle it personally in Maryland. That rings a bell in my mind because I know that anyone who is in the service of the US Govt is given the priority whenever they are deployed and have problems especially if they are in need of food and assistance. I asked him how could that happen that you lacked foods and necessities in the camp? he said that he's been experiencing that since he arrived in Africa last July 2014. There, I started to re read all his emails and messages and saw some instances that his emails and his messages in messenger doesn't jive at all. I asked him more questions from our previous conversations and he failed to give me the answers he previously given to me. At that instant, I stop communicating with him. Right now I am recuperating with my heartache. Hoping that time will heal the wound I have right now. Hope that this story of mine will somehow enlighten the minds of those who are like me that gets easily swayed by sweet words and sweet tongue of those who are just here to trick women and even men for that matter. MAYBE I AM TOO MUCH A SKEPTIC BUT.........HAS ANYONE LOOKED AT HER PROFILE The only thing wrong with coolden's profile is that she lives too far away from me. lol.. that, I could'nt do anything about.

coolden Joined Sun 01/25/15 Posts: 31	Thu 02/26/15 09:17 PM
Trust no one. I agree with you Don't believe or trust annyone. yes, it is so true, I am not that easy trusting person but I just got carried away with his words. LOL... so damn foolish of me ... Thank you for all the great advises..

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Thu 02/26/15 10:59 PM Edited by debbie1980 on Thu 02/26/15 11:03 PM
Thanks for sharing your experience, Sorry you had a bad experience. And your profile is fine

tealbreeze Joined Sun 02/08/15 Posts: 2279	Thu 02/26/15 11:01 PM
Trust no one. I agree with you Don't believe or trust annyone. yes, it is so true, I am not that easy trusting person but I just got carried away with his words. LOL... so damn foolish of me ... Thank you for all the great advises.. eh, me too. Shiot happens. Live and learn.

elle_rose Joined Sat 07/26/14 Posts: 828	Thu 02/26/15 11:14 PM
Hi, I signed up here on mingle last January 2015 and unfortunately my first chat mate here was a "soldier" as what he claims he is. We chatted for more than 3 weeks straight everyday and talked on messenger too everyday. I fell in love with him because he is so sweet and very romantic. Any woman will surely fall in love with him for sure. With the photos he sent and the messages he sent thru email is so heart warming. Then 1 day, he asked me for help, If I can send him money because he said that his bank account was hacked and he cant get money from the bank until he settle it personally in Maryland. That rings a bell in my mind because I know that anyone who is in the service of the US Govt is given the priority whenever they are deployed and have problems especially if they are in need of food and assistance. I asked him how could that happen that you lacked foods and necessities in the camp? he said that he's been experiencing that since he arrived in Africa last July 2014. There, I started to re read all his emails and messages and saw some instances that his emails and his messages in messenger doesn't jive at all. I asked him more questions from our previous conversations and he failed to give me the answers he previously given to me. At that instant, I stop communicating with him. Right now I am recuperating with my heartache. Hoping that time will heal the wound I have right now. Hope that this story of mine will somehow enlighten the minds of those who are like me that gets easily swayed by sweet words and sweet tongue of those who are just here to trick women and even men for that matter. Sorry to hear that kabayan. I heared worst stories than yours... The scammers are not only militay men, they are engineers, self employed, contractors, some specifically says marine engineers. Be careful if they call you dear in first few meetings, they have new modus lately, to send flowers wherever you are and delivered by a limo. They like to target women with profiles "seeking marriage" cos they think they are vulnerable and desperate. Two of the scammers here was using a US General's photo. Thanks to google image !

heart_stealing_man Joined Thu 02/26/15 Posts: 1	Fri 02/27/15 12:40 AM
Another reason the good men catch the bad wrap. What an ***! Sooooo sorry for your experience. Make the rest of us look bad.

ajubazai Joined Sun 08/17/14 Posts: 42	Fri 02/27/15 01:00 AM
A real and independant man would never ask for money from a lady. Even if he is real, he is weak and cannot survive. So ladies never talk to weak men who cannot even make a few dollars to survive in this world how can he protect you in the future.