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American military not only does not need money for a nanny, but if their families are not taken care of, they will not deploy. Additionally, they will not contact you while they are deployed. Both of those are blatant signs of scams. It sounds like figured this out before being scammed, but for future reference, they will not be interested in women in parts of the world where we do not have permanent duty stations. They will never ask for money. If they tell you they are a Ranger, SEAL, sniper, Special Forces, or anything else that sounds elite, odds are they are not. If they can't tell you their rank or MOS, they are fake. Keep in mind, however, that some scammers do their homework, but the heart of the scam doesn't change. Never send money to anyone.
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Edited by
tealbreeze
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Fri 02/27/15 01:41 AM
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American military not only does not need money for a nanny, but if their families are not taken care of, they will not deploy. Additionally, they will not contact you while they are deployed. Both of those are blatant signs of scams. It sounds like figured this out before being scammed, but for future reference, they will not be interested in women in parts of the world where we do not have permanent duty stations. They will never ask for money. If they tell you they are a Ranger, SEAL, sniper, Special Forces, or anything else that sounds elite, odds are they are not. If they can't tell you their rank or MOS, they are fake. Keep in mind, however, that some scammers do their homework, but the heart of the scam doesn't change. Never send money to anyone. mmmm, no. Met a LOCAL from a dating site that was Navy seal AND Ranger AND Spec. Forces, Black Ops, one of only 6 men in our country. Verified documentation. It can happen. You are so pessimistic.  |
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Temper temper. I may start re-considering that kiss.
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Edited.
Kindly do not target other members negatively. soufie Site Moderator |
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Thanks for sharing your experience, Sorry you had a bad experience.  And your profile is fine Its ok. Atleast now, I know what the real deal in online dating is. Thank you also for being so nice. 
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Trust no one. I agree with you Don't believe or trust annyone.  yes, it is so true, I am not that easy trusting person but I just got carried away with his words. LOL... so damn foolish of me ... Thank you for all the great advises..  eh, me too. Shiot happens. Live and learn. Yes, a very good learning experience it is. Thank you
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Hi, I signed up here on mingle last January 2015 and unfortunately my first chat mate here was a "soldier" as what he claims he is. We chatted for more than 3 weeks straight everyday and talked on messenger too everyday. I fell in love with him because he is so sweet and very romantic. Any woman will surely fall in love with him for sure. With the photos he sent and the messages he sent thru email is so heart warming. Then 1 day, he asked me for help, If I can send him money because he said that his bank account was hacked and he cant get money from the bank until he settle it personally in Maryland. That rings a bell in my mind because I know that anyone who is in the service of the US Govt is given the priority whenever they are deployed and have problems especially if they are in need of food and assistance. I asked him how could that happen that you lacked foods and necessities in the camp? he said that he's been experiencing that since he arrived in Africa last July 2014. There, I started to re read all his emails and messages and saw some instances that his emails and his messages in messenger doesn't jive at all. I asked him more questions from our previous conversations and he failed to give me the answers he previously given to me. At that instant, I stop communicating with him. Right now I am recuperating with my heartache. Hoping that time will heal the wound I have right now. Hope that this story of mine will somehow enlighten the minds of those who are like me that gets easily swayed by sweet words and sweet tongue of those who are just here to trick women and even men for that matter. Sorry to hear that kabayan. I heared worst stories than yours... The scammers are not only militay men, they are engineers, self employed, contractors, some specifically says marine engineers. Be careful if they call you dear in first few meetings, they have new modus lately, to send flowers wherever you are and delivered by a limo. They like to target women with profiles "seeking marriage" cos they think they are vulnerable and desperate. Two of the scammers here was using a US General's photo. Thanks to google image ! Thank you for the update kabayan. Yeah I learned a lot from the experience. LOL.. And yes, thanks to googl image ...
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Another reason the good men catch the bad wrap. What an ***! Sooooo sorry for your experience. Make the rest of us look bad. Thank you. Its ok, I know for sure that not all here are scammers.. LOL... All we need is to prove that we are real and that we are not like them. Have a good day! 
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A real and independant man would never ask for money from a lady. Even if he is real, he is weak and cannot survive. So ladies never talk to weak men who cannot even make a few dollars to survive in this world how can he protect you in the future. Thanks for the insights.
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lol if he was hacked the bank will take care of it. And if he is in the military they will take care of it. oh and btw when you are on deployment they feed you 3 meals a day still. Yeah, so true. Thank You.
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American military not only does not need money for a nanny, but if their families are not taken care of, they will not deploy. Additionally, they will not contact you while they are deployed. Both of those are blatant signs of scams. It sounds like figured this out before being scammed, but for future reference, they will not be interested in women in parts of the world where we do not have permanent duty stations. They will never ask for money. If they tell you they are a Ranger, SEAL, sniper, Special Forces, or anything else that sounds elite, odds are they are not. If they can't tell you their rank or MOS, they are fake. Keep in mind, however, that some scammers do their homework, but the heart of the scam doesn't change. Never send money to anyone. Thank you for the information. Very much appreciated. That was really my fault and luckily I found it out sooner. It has been a real eye opener to me. Have a nice day ! |
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Edited by
WonderWoman48
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Fri 02/27/15 05:59 AM
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They steal pictures, generally of white, affluent looking males and sexy young females.
The male scammers pretend to be financially well off and usually widowed with children (to inspire a woman's compassion and empathy). Female scammers are usually young, sexy and needy. |
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I am not sure what s real on here. but I expect trolls, and think photo shop first. I tried to send you a message, did you receive ? Thanks I am new at this.
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Hi, I signed up here on mingle last January 2015 and unfortunately my first chat mate here was a "soldier" as what he claims he is. We chatted for more than 3 weeks straight everyday and talked on messenger too everyday. I fell in love with him because he is so sweet and very romantic. Any woman will surely fall in love with him for sure. With the photos he sent and the messages he sent thru email is so heart warming. Then 1 day, he asked me for help, If I can send him money because he said that his bank account was hacked and he cant get money from the bank until he settle it personally in Maryland. That rings a bell in my mind because I know that anyone who is in the service of the US Govt is given the priority whenever they are deployed and have problems especially if they are in need of food and assistance. I asked him how could that happen that you lacked foods and necessities in the camp? he said that he's been experiencing that since he arrived in Africa last July 2014. There, I started to re read all his emails and messages and saw some instances that his emails and his messages in messenger doesn't jive at all. I asked him more questions from our previous conversations and he failed to give me the answers he previously given to me. At that instant, I stop communicating with him. Right now I am recuperating with my heartache. Hoping that time will heal the wound I have right now. Hope that this story of mine will somehow enlighten the minds of those who are like me that gets easily swayed by sweet words and sweet tongue of those who are just here to trick women and even men for that matter. MAYBE I AM TOO MUCH A SKEPTIC BUT.........HAS ANYONE LOOKED AT HER PROFILE  why, what is wrong with my profile? Only one photo, opening line bad English, very light profile with not much in it, all your right and your choice but you do not have enough to make me think you are real. Do not even see anything that tells me where you are, but of course I am not a world traveler and a double named place tells me nothing. I am very skeptical as there are to many really good profiles to take a chance on one that short. Just me, I spend a lot of time on mine, and question when other people do not make what "I" think is a good effort. Now you have been putting a lot into this forum and that has change my mind quite a bit, and now figure you are probably real.....if that helps. When I fist posted this you only had a couple of posts on here. A good profile with lots of real picture and/or a good posting history is what brings someone to life to me. Good Luck! |
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Edited by
coolden
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Fri 02/27/15 08:11 PM
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Hi, I signed up here on mingle last January 2015 and unfortunately my first chat mate here was a "soldier" as what he claims he is. We chatted for more than 3 weeks straight everyday and talked on messenger too everyday. I fell in love with him because he is so sweet and very romantic. Any woman will surely fall in love with him for sure. With the photos he sent and the messages he sent thru email is so heart warming. Then 1 day, he asked me for help, If I can send him money because he said that his bank account was hacked and he cant get money from the bank until he settle it personally in Maryland. That rings a bell in my mind because I know that anyone who is in the service of the US Govt is given the priority whenever they are deployed and have problems especially if they are in need of food and assistance. I asked him how could that happen that you lacked foods and necessities in the camp? he said that he's been experiencing that since he arrived in Africa last July 2014. There, I started to re read all his emails and messages and saw some instances that his emails and his messages in messenger doesn't jive at all. I asked him more questions from our previous conversations and he failed to give me the answers he previously given to me. At that instant, I stop communicating with him. Right now I am recuperating with my heartache. Hoping that time will heal the wound I have right now. Hope that this story of mine will somehow enlighten the minds of those who are like me that gets easily swayed by sweet words and sweet tongue of those who are just here to trick women and even men for that matter. MAYBE I AM TOO MUCH A SKEPTIC BUT.........HAS ANYONE LOOKED AT HER PROFILE why, what is wrong with my profile? Only one photo, opening line bad English, very light profile with not much in it, all your right and your choice but you do not have enough to make me think you are real. Do not even see anything that tells me where you are, but of course I am not a world traveler and a double named place tells me nothing. I am very skeptical as there are to many really good profiles to take a chance on one that short. Just me, I spend a lot of time on mine, and question when other people do not make what "I" think is a good effort. Now you have been putting a lot into this forum and that has change my mind quite a bit, and now figure you are probably real.....if that helps. When I fist posted this you only had a couple of posts on here. A good profile with lots of real picture and/or a good posting history is what brings someone to life to me. Good Luck! For starter Sir, its your own opinion. If you find my profile not substantive enough then, I cant do anything about it. And it is my prerogative too on what to put on my profile because IT IS my profile. (With what I have experienced, If you really wanna know me more then I can provide you everything you need to know that I AM for real "IF and ONLY IF" you can prove to me that your are as real as you claim you are. 2. "opening line bad English" - if you find it bad English, then I don't know what is your standard for good English sir, and I am not born with English as my primary language spoken at home or at school. 3. My location is written there Sir, if you google it, for sure you will know where on earth I am right now 4. "A good profile with lots of real pictures" how can you tell if the "REAL" pictures you say is really real? Anyone and everyone can copy and saved images to their computers and post it wherever they like to post it. 5. And I dont know why it is a big deal for you Sir, if I am real or not? As what you have said, there are more substantive profile than mine. So why bother with my profile. LOL.. Hope you have a good day Sir. and Thank you for the time you spent in my profile. |
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When I see someone talking of scams and scammers, the first thing I do is view their profile!
Yours simple looked a little thin to be real and serious, I would not look any further with one so short. Some are serious and let people know what they want and some are short not giving much. It really does not mean anything, as we have nothing in common anyway. |
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Hi, I signed up here on mingle last January 2015 and unfortunately my first chat mate here was a "soldier" as what he claims he is. We chatted for more than 3 weeks straight everyday and talked on messenger too everyday. I fell in love with him because he is so sweet and very romantic. Any woman will surely fall in love with him for sure. With the photos he sent and the messages he sent thru email is so heart warming. Then 1 day, he asked me for help, If I can send him money because he said that his bank account was hacked and he cant get money from the bank until he settle it personally in Maryland. That rings a bell in my mind because I know that anyone who is in the service of the US Govt is given the priority whenever they are deployed and have problems especially if they are in need of food and assistance. I asked him how could that happen that you lacked foods and necessities in the camp? he said that he's been experiencing that since he arrived in Africa last July 2014. There, I started to re read all his emails and messages and saw some instances that his emails and his messages in messenger doesn't jive at all. I asked him more questions from our previous conversations and he failed to give me the answers he previously given to me. At that instant, I stop communicating with him. Right now I am recuperating with my heartache. Hoping that time will heal the wound I have right now. Hope that this story of mine will somehow enlighten the minds of those who are like me that gets easily swayed by sweet words and sweet tongue of those who are just here to trick women and even men for that matter. MAYBE I AM TOO MUCH A SKEPTIC BUT.........HAS ANYONE LOOKED AT HER PROFILE why, what is wrong with my profile? Only one photo, opening line bad English, very light profile with not much in it, all your right and your choice but you do not have enough to make me think you are real. Do not even see anything that tells me where you are, but of course I am not a world traveler and a double named place tells me nothing. I am very skeptical as there are to many really good profiles to take a chance on one that short. Just me, I spend a lot of time on mine, and question when other people do not make what "I" think is a good effort. Now you have been putting a lot into this forum and that has change my mind quite a bit, and now figure you are probably real.....if that helps. When I fist posted this you only had a couple of posts on here. A good profile with lots of real picture and/or a good posting history is what brings someone to life to me. Good Luck! Hiking doesn't have an "E" in it Albyak - just thought I'd let you know as I'm sure you don't want people to think your English is bad.... |
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When I see someone talking of scams and scammers, the first thing I do is view their profile! Yours simple looked a little thin to be real and serious, I would not look any further with one so short. Some are serious and let people know what they want and some are short not giving much. It really does not mean anything, as we have nothing in common anyway. That's a given Sir, my story is lacking in your opinion because as to what you already had said, "bad english", so what to expect from my story? lol And precisely Sir, we have really NOTHING in common. Anyways, thank you again Sir. |
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Hi, I signed up here on mingle last January 2015 and unfortunately my first chat mate here was a "soldier" as what he claims he is. We chatted for more than 3 weeks straight everyday and talked on messenger too everyday. I fell in love with him because he is so sweet and very romantic. Any woman will surely fall in love with him for sure. With the photos he sent and the messages he sent thru email is so heart warming. Then 1 day, he asked me for help, If I can send him money because he said that his bank account was hacked and he cant get money from the bank until he settle it personally in Maryland. That rings a bell in my mind because I know that anyone who is in the service of the US Govt is given the priority whenever they are deployed and have problems especially if they are in need of food and assistance. I asked him how could that happen that you lacked foods and necessities in the camp? he said that he's been experiencing that since he arrived in Africa last July 2014. There, I started to re read all his emails and messages and saw some instances that his emails and his messages in messenger doesn't jive at all. I asked him more questions from our previous conversations and he failed to give me the answers he previously given to me. At that instant, I stop communicating with him. Right now I am recuperating with my heartache. Hoping that time will heal the wound I have right now. Hope that this story of mine will somehow enlighten the minds of those who are like me that gets easily swayed by sweet words and sweet tongue of those who are just here to trick women and even men for that matter. MAYBE I AM TOO MUCH A SKEPTIC BUT.........HAS ANYONE LOOKED AT HER PROFILE why, what is wrong with my profile? Only one photo, opening line bad English, very light profile with not much in it, all your right and your choice but you do not have enough to make me think you are real. Do not even see anything that tells me where you are, but of course I am not a world traveler and a double named place tells me nothing. I am very skeptical as there are to many really good profiles to take a chance on one that short. Just me, I spend a lot of time on mine, and question when other people do not make what "I" think is a good effort. Now you have been putting a lot into this forum and that has change my mind quite a bit, and now figure you are probably real.....if that helps. When I fist posted this you only had a couple of posts on here. A good profile with lots of real picture and/or a good posting history is what brings someone to life to me. Good Luck! Hiking doesn't have an "E" in it Albyak - just thought I'd let you know as I'm sure you don't want people to think your English is bad.... I believe you put more words in that short sentence chastising me than you put in your whole profile, and you do not even bother to put pictures up!
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Hi, I signed up here on mingle last January 2015 and unfortunately my first chat mate here was a "soldier" as what he claims he is. We chatted for more than 3 weeks straight everyday and talked on messenger too everyday. I fell in love with him because he is so sweet and very romantic. Any woman will surely fall in love with him for sure. With the photos he sent and the messages he sent thru email is so heart warming. Then 1 day, he asked me for help, If I can send him money because he said that his bank account was hacked and he cant get money from the bank until he settle it personally in Maryland. That rings a bell in my mind because I know that anyone who is in the service of the US Govt is given the priority whenever they are deployed and have problems especially if they are in need of food and assistance. I asked him how could that happen that you lacked foods and necessities in the camp? he said that he's been experiencing that since he arrived in Africa last July 2014. There, I started to re read all his emails and messages and saw some instances that his emails and his messages in messenger doesn't jive at all. I asked him more questions from our previous conversations and he failed to give me the answers he previously given to me. At that instant, I stop communicating with him. Right now I am recuperating with my heartache. Hoping that time will heal the wound I have right now. Hope that this story of mine will somehow enlighten the minds of those who are like me that gets easily swayed by sweet words and sweet tongue of those who are just here to trick women and even men for that matter. MAYBE I AM TOO MUCH A SKEPTIC BUT.........HAS ANYONE LOOKED AT HER PROFILE why, what is wrong with my profile? Only one photo, opening line bad English, very light profile with not much in it, all your right and your choice but you do not have enough to make me think you are real. Do not even see anything that tells me where you are, but of course I am not a world traveler and a double named place tells me nothing. I am very skeptical as there are to many really good profiles to take a chance on one that short. Just me, I spend a lot of time on mine, and question when other people do not make what "I" think is a good effort. Now you have been putting a lot into this forum and that has change my mind quite a bit, and now figure you are probably real.....if that helps. When I fist posted this you only had a couple of posts on here. A good profile with lots of real picture and/or a good posting history is what brings someone to life to me. Good Luck! Hiking doesn't have an "E" in it Albyak - just thought I'd let you know as I'm sure you don't want people to think your English is bad.... I believe you put more words in that short sentence chastising me than you put in your whole profile, and you do not even bother to put pictures up! I wasn't chastising you - just some friendly advice. There's no need to be so defensive. My profile is short and sweet. I'll get to know people by reading the forums. I have a genuine reason for not putting my picture up. I think the whole picture thing is over-rated anyway. |
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