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Topic: Messed up
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Wed 04/01/15 01:46 PM
Just when things were going well in my life & i almost got healed of my past heartache, i was so stupid to start communicating with my ex on facebook & she said a thing or two that left me feeling pretty f**ked up.....
i don't know why some women don't see how much a man sacrificed just to be with them....& by sacrifice I mean giving up your entire life just to be with her....

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Wed 04/01/15 01:48 PM
And then she blocked me....laugh
Partly it could be my fault too coz i was hitting on her cousin at the same time but i'm single so did i do something wrong ?

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Wed 04/01/15 01:50 PM
I'm sorry about that, babe. :heart:

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Wed 04/01/15 01:54 PM

I'm sorry about that, babe. :heart:



flowerforyou smooched



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Wed 04/01/15 01:54 PM
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Wed 04/01/15 02:00 PM
hang in there dude,your young, go out with her cuz,, LOL

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Wed 04/01/15 02:14 PM

hang in there dude,your young, go out with her cuz,, LOL



Lol her cousin already got the Intel about me & ofcourse it was negative & false & accused me of being a player which i'm not .....women talk amongst each other....however not many women would be pleased to know their ex is chatting up their younger cousin & the cousin being attracted what

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Wed 04/01/15 03:42 PM

And then she blocked me....laugh
Partly it could be my fault too coz i was hitting on her cousin at the same time but i'm single so did i do something wrong ?

Well most of us have a Girl Code we go by and dating my cousin ex, is in that category...There have been some great men in that past I would have been all over like white on rice except a friend had called dibs first frustrated



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Wed 04/01/15 04:46 PM
I have been there before my friend and I have learned that some doors need to remain closed.

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Wed 04/01/15 07:26 PM


And then she blocked me....laugh
Partly it could be my fault too coz i was hitting on her cousin at the same time but i'm single so did i do something wrong ?

Well most of us have a Girl Code we go by and dating my cousin ex, is in that category...There have been some great men in that past I would have been all over like white on rice except a friend had called dibs first frustrated





Ditto... I know I have said no to a couple due to they had been with someone else and we were all friends... Just a no no for me...

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Wed 04/01/15 07:27 PM

And then she blocked me....laugh
Partly it could be my fault too coz i was hitting on her cousin at the same time but i'm single so did i do something wrong ?


Seriously, you don't see anything wrong with your statement???whoa

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Thu 04/02/15 05:21 AM


And then she blocked me....laugh
Partly it could be my fault too coz i was hitting on her cousin at the same time but i'm single so did i do something wrong ?


Seriously, you don't see anything wrong with your statement???whoa



Not really....if my ex does not want me then why is she bothered about who i date?
She said a lot of s h i t about me....false s h i t & her problem is that her cousin will actually see that i am a good loving & caring guy & i don't cheat or get upto any nonsense...other then that it will be a blow to her ego if her cousin &me hit it off

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Thu 04/02/15 05:27 AM
She even called me a pervert lmfao :laughing:

If im only sexually atrracted to 1 woman & 1 woman only, does that make me a pervert?

Yes i like sex but i don't try to get laid with any woman, i only seek 1 woman only to fulfill my every need so if being attracted to only 1 woman makes me a pervert then Yes i guess i am a pervert ohwell

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Thu 04/02/15 05:35 AM



And then she blocked me....laugh
Partly it could be my fault too coz i was hitting on her cousin at the same time but i'm single so did i do something wrong ?


Seriously, you don't see anything wrong with your statement???whoa



Not really....if my ex does not want me then why is she bothered about who i date?
She said a lot of s h i t about me....false s h i t & her problem is that her cousin will actually see that i am a good loving & caring guy & i don't cheat or get upto any nonsense...other then that it will be a blow to her ego if her cousin &me hit it off

How would you feel if she started dating or flirting with one of your mates?
Some things are just not done, a no-go area, even when you've split up, and particularly when both parties are still not completely over the breakup.

And be honest, why did you hitting on her cousin? Was it cause you really like that woman or was it to spite your ex?
You don't have to tell me, but at least be honest to yourself!
flowerforyou flowers

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Thu 04/02/15 05:38 AM

Just when things were going well in my life & i almost got healed of my past heartache, i was so stupid to start communicating with my ex on facebook & she said a thing or two that left me feeling pretty f**ked up.....
i don't know why some women don't see how much a man sacrificed just to be with them....& by sacrifice I mean giving up your entire life just to be with her....

Really sorry for you.. I truly am, but do want to add that the 'sacrificing' is a two-way street... Plus everyone is responsible for their own boundaries. Sometimes one gives up too much for his/her own good, but that doesn't mean the other knows that. The other simply accepts what you yourself willing offer. It's up to you to know your boundaries and stick to them, or not.

I do wish you feel a bit better soon, heartache is never fun to deal with, and you are a good guy!

flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Thu 04/02/15 12:31 PM


Just when things were going well in my life & i almost got healed of my past heartache, i was so stupid to start communicating with my ex on facebook & she said a thing or two that left me feeling pretty f**ked up.....
i don't know why some women don't see how much a man sacrificed just to be with them....& by sacrifice I mean giving up your entire life just to be with her....

Really sorry for you.. I truly am, but do want to add that the 'sacrificing' is a two-way street... Plus everyone is responsible for their own boundaries. Sometimes one gives up too much for his/her own good, but that doesn't mean the other knows that. The other simply accepts what you yourself willing offer. It's up to you to know your boundaries and stick to them, or not.

I do wish you feel a bit better soon, heartache is never fun to deal with, and you are a good guy!

flowerforyou flowerforyou


Thank you Crystal flowerforyou blushing

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Thu 04/02/15 12:36 PM




And then she blocked me....laugh
Partly it could be my fault too coz i was hitting on her cousin at the same time but i'm single so did i do something wrong ?


Seriously, you don't see anything wrong with your statement???whoa



Not really....if my ex does not want me then why is she bothered about who i date?
She said a lot of s h i t about me....false s h i t & her problem is that her cousin will actually see that i am a good loving & caring guy & i don't cheat or get upto any nonsense...other then that it will be a blow to her ego if her cousin &me hit it off

How would you feel if she started dating or flirting with one of your mates?
Some things are just not done, a no-go area, even when you've split up, and particularly when both parties are still not completely over the breakup.

And be honest, why did you hitting on her cousin? Was it cause you really like that woman or was it to spite your ex?
You don't have to tell me, but at least be honest to yourself!
flowerforyou flowers



I started talking to her cousin coz it made me feel closer to my ex in some way, at the time we were not talking & her cuz didn't know about me being involved with her cousin but when she did she thought i'm playing her ohwell sad

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Thu 04/02/15 12:38 PM
Anyway life goes on i don't even care lmao
im busy working all day drinks

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Thu 04/02/15 01:07 PM

Just when things were going well in my life & i almost got healed of my past heartache, i was so stupid to start communicating with my ex on facebook & she said a thing or two that left me feeling pretty f**ked up.....
i don't know why some women don't see how much a man sacrificed just to be with them....& by sacrifice I mean giving up your entire life just to be with her....
when I first saw the date of this post,then glimpse the second ,I thought it was an April fools joke lol,but I know what you mean,the whole chit Is a game to half of them,I guess we gata just love them and show the total jerk side,since they all about games and chit lol!ohwell drinker

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Thu 04/02/15 01:25 PM


Just when things were going well in my life & i almost got healed of my past heartache, i was so stupid to start communicating with my ex on facebook & she said a thing or two that left me feeling pretty f**ked up.....
i don't know why some women don't see how much a man sacrificed just to be with them....& by sacrifice I mean giving up your entire life just to be with her....
when I first saw the date of this post,then glimpse the second ,I thought it was an April fools joke lol,but I know what you mean,the whole chit Is a game to half of them,I guess we gata just love them and show the total jerk side,since they all about games and chit lol!ohwell drinker


You're 100% correct there my friend.
Yes it's all a game to many of them.....i've lived on the wildside & been a player, but it never brought me any joy....infact i was more miserable....
there's no better feeling then holding that 1 woman you love each night & looking into her eyes & telling her how much you love her & how much she means to you, & seeing her face every morning & when you get home.....& if you having a bad day all you have to do is look at your special one & it would all be cool ...
i believe maybe just maybe there should be good women out there

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