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Topic: Is extramarital affair a sin?
urbanexchange Joined Sun 03/01/15 Posts: 172	Tue 04/07/15 04:14 PM
Monogamy aids in population control

CowboyGH Joined Mon 10/05/09 Posts: 13651	Tue 04/07/15 04:51 PM
Is extra-marital affair a sin? "Our" problem lies in the deeply regrettable fact that whatever be the issue, we tend to drag 'religion' into the limelight. As for example, this particular thread was conferred the title 'Is Extra-Marital Affair A Sin?' and Lo & Behold: "Christians, Muslims & Hindus" were immediately brought into limelight. Sometimes, I get confused as to what to think of myself first: "A Human Being" OR "A Hindu"? As for 'Manoj', I think that's a question you should be asking 'your own self' instead of 'others' around you. And if I appreciate what 'LadyWind7' had to say to you (which, incidentally I do), then I'd 'suggest' you to discuss this issue with your wife & if she feels (out of her own volition) that her husband (you) are free to go in for an extra-marital affair, then 'we' are NOT here to judge that as a SIN. I mean why should we? However, you should remember to be JUST & FAIR in 'that' deal. If she does allow you to enter such a relationship, then you should also have the 'courage' and 'heart' (more appropriately: "BALLS OF STEEL") to accept her extra-marital affair too. (You know what I mean) And just in case, you wish to keep such a relationship in the dark (i.e. in utter secrecy from your wife), then it would be reasonable for you to: (a) Ask yourself whether such an 'act' is a 'crime' or otherwise (instead of seeking public opinion) (b) Be mentally prepared to admit the fact that it could also have been your 'wife' in a clandestine extra-marital relationship. Good Luck To You! As for 'Manoj', I think that's a question you should be asking 'your own self' instead of 'others' around you. And if I appreciate what 'LadyWind7' had to say to you (which, incidentally I do), then I'd 'suggest' you to discuss this issue with your wife & if she feels (out of her own volition) that her husband (you) are free to go in for an extra-marital affair, then 'we' are NOT here to judge that as a SIN. I mean why should we? That really has no connection to that which is being discussed here. Doesn't matter if they agree it's "ok" to step out. And no "we" don't get to judge anything as a sin, God has told us what is sin already. And this would be in fact a sin. It would be adultery no matter if the two partners agree for it to happen. It may be "ok" between the two, but in a sanctified marriage by God it's not "ok".

teasel Joined Tue 12/30/14 Posts: 453	Tue 04/07/15 06:30 PM Edited by teasel on Tue 04/07/15 07:27 PM
830?.. that's way too much to remember.. I haven't even mastered the 10 commandments yet

devildog123 Joined Mon 09/08/14 Posts: 3902	Tue 04/07/15 07:16 PM
well at least Moses didn't have to chip all 830 into that stone.. he would have needed a crane to get it down from the mountain

SassyEuro Joined Wed 03/11/15 Posts: 1000	Tue 04/07/15 09:32 PM
well at least Moses didn't have to chip all 830 into that stone.. he would have needed a crane to get it down from the mountain * cough * We heard that

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Tue 04/07/15 09:38 PM
Yes

Deepudarkchocolate Joined Sat 02/21/15 Posts: 91	Tue 04/07/15 10:18 PM
yes it is a sin and der is nothing religious abt it.

longgydicky Joined Wed 10/16/13 Posts: 60	Tue 04/07/15 10:22 PM
sin

longgydicky Joined Wed 10/16/13 Posts: 60	Tue 04/07/15 10:26 PM
sin

longgydicky Joined Wed 10/16/13 Posts: 60	Tue 04/07/15 10:26 PM
sin

MadDog1974 Joined Mon 01/26/15 Posts: 5942	Tue 04/07/15 10:30 PM
If you're looking for justification to step out on your wife, consider this question. Are you ok with her stepping out?

Rennz61 Joined Sat 03/21/15 Posts: 4	Wed 04/08/15 04:36 AM
Is extramarital affair a sin? Is this a Christian forum? If you are a Bible believing Christian then you should know that is called adultery and yes it is a sin. I believe in calling a spade a spade

Milesoftheusa Joined Fri 10/27/06 Posts: 5122	Wed 04/08/15 04:54 AM
Is extra-marital affair a sin? "Our" problem lies in the deeply regrettable fact that whatever be the issue, we tend to drag 'religion' into the limelight. As for example, this particular thread was conferred the title 'Is Extra-Marital Affair A Sin?' and Lo & Behold: "Christians, Muslims & Hindus" were immediately brought into limelight. Sometimes, I get confused as to what to think of myself first: "A Human Being" OR "A Hindu"? As for 'Manoj', I think that's a question you should be asking 'your own self' instead of 'others' around you. And if I appreciate what 'LadyWind7' had to say to you (which, incidentally I do), then I'd 'suggest' you to discuss this issue with your wife & if she feels (out of her own volition) that her husband (you) are free to go in for an extra-marital affair, then 'we' are NOT here to judge that as a SIN. I mean why should we? However, you should remember to be JUST & FAIR in 'that' deal. If she does allow you to enter such a relationship, then you should also have the 'courage' and 'heart' (more appropriately: "BALLS OF STEEL") to accept her extra-marital affair too. (You know what I mean) And just in case, you wish to keep such a relationship in the dark (i.e. in utter secrecy from your wife), then it would be reasonable for you to: (a) Ask yourself whether such an 'act' is a 'crime' or otherwise (instead of seeking public opinion) (b) Be mentally prepared to admit the fact that it could also have been your 'wife' in a clandestine extra-marital relationship. Good Luck To You! As for 'Manoj', I think that's a question you should be asking 'your own self' instead of 'others' around you. And if I appreciate what 'LadyWind7' had to say to you (which, incidentally I do), then I'd 'suggest' you to discuss this issue with your wife & if she feels (out of her own volition) that her husband (you) are free to go in for an extra-marital affair, then 'we' are NOT here to judge that as a SIN. I mean why should we? That really has no connection to that which is being discussed here. Doesn't matter if they agree it's "ok" to step out. And no "we" don't get to judge anything as a sin, God has told us what is sin already. And this would be in fact a sin. It would be adultery no matter if the two partners agree for it to happen. It may be "ok" between the two, but in a sanctified marriage by God it's not "ok". I am so confused. I thought the OT was done away. over no good for us. haven't you watched Adam Sandlers " Little Nicki"? His brothers came to earth from Hell and one became a Priest. His congregation loved him. remember his famous words from the Pulpit? " Let The Sin Begin? The people loved him. He filled the church. I thought this was your NT Teachings?

SassyEuro Joined Wed 03/11/15 Posts: 1000	Wed 04/08/15 05:12 AM
Is extramarital affair a sin? SIN - noun An immoral act considered to be a transgression against divine law. Synonyms - Wrong Wrong doing Transgression Crime Offense Misdemeanor Misdeed Scandal Disgrace Verb- #1 Commit a sin Transgress Misbehave Tresspass Verb-#2 Commit a sin Offend against God, a person ,or principle Antonyms- Virture

uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Wed 04/08/15 05:13 AM
Is extramarital affair a sin? Ask your wife,she has the best answer for you

Kaustuv1 Joined Thu 03/27/14 Posts: 4365	Wed 04/08/15 05:16 AM
I read your posts, 'MightyMoe' & 'CowBoy' & thank you for the same (i.e. providing me with your insights).

SassyEuro Joined Wed 03/11/15 Posts: 1000	Wed 04/08/15 05:22 AM
The OP in Hindu in India. English is NOT his first language. He has only made one post. He has admitted nothing He may just have wanted a definition or to join in on forums. SMDH.

CowboyGH Joined Mon 10/05/09 Posts: 13651	Wed 04/08/15 05:29 AM
Is extra-marital affair a sin? "Our" problem lies in the deeply regrettable fact that whatever be the issue, we tend to drag 'religion' into the limelight. As for example, this particular thread was conferred the title 'Is Extra-Marital Affair A Sin?' and Lo & Behold: "Christians, Muslims & Hindus" were immediately brought into limelight. Sometimes, I get confused as to what to think of myself first: "A Human Being" OR "A Hindu"? As for 'Manoj', I think that's a question you should be asking 'your own self' instead of 'others' around you. And if I appreciate what 'LadyWind7' had to say to you (which, incidentally I do), then I'd 'suggest' you to discuss this issue with your wife & if she feels (out of her own volition) that her husband (you) are free to go in for an extra-marital affair, then 'we' are NOT here to judge that as a SIN. I mean why should we? However, you should remember to be JUST & FAIR in 'that' deal. If she does allow you to enter such a relationship, then you should also have the 'courage' and 'heart' (more appropriately: "BALLS OF STEEL") to accept her extra-marital affair too. (You know what I mean) And just in case, you wish to keep such a relationship in the dark (i.e. in utter secrecy from your wife), then it would be reasonable for you to: (a) Ask yourself whether such an 'act' is a 'crime' or otherwise (instead of seeking public opinion) (b) Be mentally prepared to admit the fact that it could also have been your 'wife' in a clandestine extra-marital relationship. Good Luck To You! As for 'Manoj', I think that's a question you should be asking 'your own self' instead of 'others' around you. And if I appreciate what 'LadyWind7' had to say to you (which, incidentally I do), then I'd 'suggest' you to discuss this issue with your wife & if she feels (out of her own volition) that her husband (you) are free to go in for an extra-marital affair, then 'we' are NOT here to judge that as a SIN. I mean why should we? That really has no connection to that which is being discussed here. Doesn't matter if they agree it's "ok" to step out. And no "we" don't get to judge anything as a sin, God has told us what is sin already. And this would be in fact a sin. It would be adultery no matter if the two partners agree for it to happen. It may be "ok" between the two, but in a sanctified marriage by God it's not "ok". I am so confused. I thought the OT was done away. over no good for us. haven't you watched Adam Sandlers " Little Nicki"? His brothers came to earth from Hell and one became a Priest. His congregation loved him. remember his famous words from the Pulpit? " Let The Sin Begin? The people loved him. He filled the church. I thought this was your NT Teachings? I am so confused. I thought the OT was done away. over no good for us. It is done away with, nobody mentioned anything about the OT, not in the latter posts of the thread anyways. remember his famous words from the Pulpit? " Let The Sin Begin? The people loved him. He filled the church. I thought this was your NT Teachings? Please do elaborate.

SheikOfLaBroquerie Joined Thu 01/31/13 Posts: 1973	Wed 04/08/15 04:00 PM
Is extramarital affair a sin? Any frivolous sexual affair, whether extramarital or single, is a sin.

SheikOfLaBroquerie Joined Thu 01/31/13 Posts: 1973	Wed 04/08/15 04:02 PM
Frivolous Sex... Is a Sin !