If your mate confessed to cheating the first week of your relationship, would you considered that cheating?

first week of casual dating

such as meeting for first date then hitting it off and having a second one same week?

or first week of being in a relationship together? as in exclusively seeing only each other and this is understood by both parties involved

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Seriously though,am thinking that you're wondering if this is ok,look at it like this,it's the early part,he may have been talking ECT with other people,cause you can't put all your eggs in one basket,can't blame a guy for that,(not an excuse),and second,he seem honest and respect you enough to to tell you,so I'll say that it's worth another try,good luck!

first week of relationship dating?

so the two of you are in a relationship and this guy cheats on you the first week???? would I consider that cheating?





ummmmm heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeelllllll yes I would!!

ugh of course I am worried cheating is never okay. I can respect the honesty but how can we have a trusting loving relationship if he is starting off on the wrong foot.

Sometimes in the earlier stages of dating,we have more than one people were "talking too",and like I said if he told you this without you finding out,that's to me that's still some form of respect,so you should also think about that.and keep guard up!

It may sound like a stupid question, but I really don't have a lot of experience dating. My friends think that its not a big deal and the first week of dating isn't really that serious. Especially when me and him suppose to be keeping the relationship lite and fun.

I only cheat at cards, that's all!!!

You gat a point too,I don't know how honest he was with you about the other party and what all he said ECT,but idk,him and this other person may have been through more than you and them,cause this had only been a week right?,Like I said,don't know the full story,but he never had to tell you,but he did,so, obviously,this man cares about you still!!

So you've been kinda hanging out with the guy for a week.
You want to keep things loose and casual.
He wants to keep things loose and casual.

At the same time he is "keeping things loose and casual" with a couple of other women.

No he's not cheating.

But one of you is very confused if they think they are in any kind of relationship.

I going be honest,at first I thought it was ,but it could be I big red flag,as well it could be a sign that he's a good guy ,cause keep in mind,we all sin and have to repent to god,so what is cheating in the early stage of the first week compared to that,one lesson here is keep your guard up !

Nah,
Consider it over.

what??? she just keeping it loose and casual ( with emphasis on loose)
with like one or two other guys

wants to keep her options open man

you not ok with that?

You mean the last week of the relationship ... right?

yea Im over it eventhough the relationship was suppose to be fun and loose I jus cant get over the betrayal. I was always honest about my hookup right after they happened, the fact that he waited a month is the part I jus cant get over.

Gnomie don't play dat.

See,I had feeling you weren't telling all,smt!

Wait stop the presses "you wanted to keep it fun an loose" where is the betrayal???? From the sounds of it you are the one that can't deal with it. IMO... If I am dating loose an casual then I am NOT unzipping these jeans..and if I did then it would no ones business but mine.. The same as really honestly what he did isn't yours either...

Maybe he didn't feel the need to announce it since again "You were casual" Neither party owes the other any disclosures...


In saying that, if I am exclusive there better not be any hooking up any type going on unless it is with me.. As it is with him...

just sayin I don't share with others well