.. when I sent you that picture of myself.. I thought it was just for you..lol

Marriage,
is intended to be a lifetime commitment/investment.
Much like buying a home.

Its all about compatibility.

On a personal note...
I will not commit, unless I know, and feel,
that she and I are close enough to 100% compatible,
to make things work out and last.

dont think i have ever sex to my girl friend, hold on i dont even have a girl friend,,git back whit ya on this one,,

I thought that pic looked familiar.

Well I don't buy a car with out test driving it..
Why would I marry someone with test driving him first..

just don't kick mah tires, please.

Truer words, have never been spoken.

Edited for making it personal.

soufie
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Of course I have never been married

hey is right

hey is right

what is sex? oh what a hell, what is marriage any way LOL

What do you want your relationship to be based on?
Just asking the question.

i do not marry so ...
by definition all sex is before marriage.

and i think that they liked it so far...?

I think it depends a lot on the personal values of the people involved. If you have cultural taboos about it I would expect it would do damage to the relationship but most people do have sex at some level before marriage. I think if people are very near marriage and actively courting publicly promised to each other the level gets a lot more lenient. I do not think premarital sex is required to have a very good perspective as to what your potential partner will find acceptable and pleasurable. Honesty would see essential since compatible sexual contact would be essential in most healthy marriages so hopefully people are communicating about it and come to conclusions before it would be and issue. I think it has to be mutual consent. Personally anyone who tells me I have to prove I am going to be acceptable to them by some certain act then they are not the person for me weather it is sex or some other form of proof. If someone demands premarital celibacy the would be as offensive to me as forcing consent.

West- Lot's of sex before but no more sex after marriage.
East- no sex before, but after marriage lot's of sex.
West- Shower is a must before sex.
East Shower is a must after sex.

Cultural differences.

Are you sure you're an American? All you do is diss your country, men, or the west in general??

I'm not dissing any country. There are cultural differences between the East and the West.