Topic: Changing things up
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Mon 06/01/15 07:41 PM


Actually a lot of women here also want my booty.


anybody else know what this chick's malfunction is. she seems REALLY TROUBLINGLY SELF CENTERED and kinda makes everything about herself.....????

Not to label but chick seems kinda.....I dunno, I'm loathe to finish this sentence.
anyway, whatever!


I would finish the sentence with "sizzlingly hot". smokin

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Mon 06/01/15 07:48 PM

Oh I see..hmmm a man that awaits a real conversation. well you could always hang out in here for awhile. you might be surprised. There is nothing wrong with knowing what you wantflowerforyou


Been hanging out here for a while, anyway. Better than getting "matched" with those I have little or no interest in romantically or otherwise.
(sigh) just......really, very tired of it all at the moment. I'm sure it'll get better but...right this second i wanna just take my heart, put it in a drawer and leave it there for a few days...
...til someone worthy hears it, opens the drawer and gives it back.
Maybe with a bit of her own heart, a bit at a time.
I'm patient, or I try to be.

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Mon 06/01/15 07:56 PM

My door is open wide .. Probably why my nipples are like icicles it's minus five degrees ..




surprised spock

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Mon 06/01/15 08:09 PM
Online dating is an interesting world to say the least..on one hand it opens up that pond you are fishing in and no longer are you limited to getting set up on blind dates by your friends or trying to strike up conversations in grocery store
In here you can speak to women from all over the United States and all over the globe but..with that increase in multitudes also comes an increase in number of responses that may not be what you are interested in or looking for so take a deep breath..try to be patienthappy

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Mon 06/01/15 08:10 PM
It's hot and cold in here...

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Mon 06/01/15 08:15 PM

Online dating is an interesting world to say the least..on one hand it opens up that pond you are fishing in and no longer are you limited to getting set up on blind dates by your friends or trying to strike up conversations in grocery store
In here you can speak to women from all over the United States and all over the globe but..with that increase in multitudes also comes an increase in number of responses that may not be what you are interested in or looking for so take a deep breath..try to be patienthappy


Fair points, all. And yeah, tomorrow is another day...that I can ignore those who are not for me! rofl

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Mon 06/01/15 08:29 PM

All the men want my booty here, including the OP. My heart just belongs to one man.


I wrote you ONE TIME. You didn't really say much of anything back.
And now you're all over the forums like a leech looking for me?
TBH, makes me a bit uncomfortable.
Like "wondering about your SANITY" uncomfortable.



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Mon 06/01/15 09:03 PM
You wrote me more than once. Sane? Muahahahaha

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Mon 06/01/15 09:04 PM
I wrote in this thread to you only. Where else am I leeching for you, pray tell?

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Mon 06/01/15 09:06 PM

All the men want my booty here, including the OP. My heart just belongs to one man.


There is a reason why all male Humans want your booty.
Dilbert explains.



Thankfully, I am a Melmacian. :tongue:

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Mon 06/01/15 09:09 PM


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Mon 06/01/15 09:27 PM

I wrote in this thread to you only. Where else am I leeching for you, pray tell?


Your thread posts number over 3,000.
Obsessive much? And you're kind of a troll, in my opinion.
so I'm ending this before it becomes a full on flame war and I have to be less than what counts for my levels of....civil.
so, Im gonna say this once, and only once:
GO.
AWAY.

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Mon 06/01/15 09:28 PM
Hmm, that's not the words you wrote in my inbox. :cry:

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Mon 06/01/15 09:30 PM
Have you noticed everyone else's post count? Way, way more. They must be REALLY obsessive.

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Mon 06/01/15 09:32 PM

Hmm, that's not the words you wrote in my inbox. :cry:


Correct. I see who you are pretty clearly. so do a lot of other people too, who shall remain nameless.
Look whatever your reason is for drawing attention to yourself, you need to get help for that, becauise it's jsut making you look extremely self-centered. I'd get you the number of a good therapist, but I think you're way past that point.
Get help. Soon.
Bye.

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Mon 06/01/15 09:33 PM
Goodnight everybody! waving

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Mon 06/01/15 09:42 PM
Gasp!!!! *looks in the mirror*

Am I self-centered? *looks in the mirror again*

Nah

smokin

Correct. I see who you are pretty clearly. so do a lot of other people too, who shall remain nameless.


You could have just stopped your sentence at "pretty". A lot of people, hey? Oh boy, you're popular!

Good night

P.S. I already told you, not interested in your number.

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Mon 06/01/15 09:48 PM
*takes a bow*

(In dulcet tone) This concludes Act 2, scene 2 of "As Mingle Turns". Stay tuned for the exciting continuation tomorrow, at approximately the same world time.

smokin

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Mon 06/01/15 10:29 PM

Gotta admit, I get frustrated at times. Been on mingle for a while now, and the search for someone to vibe with jsut doesnt get easier. Lots of woemn out there, just ... most of the ones on here are jsut not doing much for me at all. I guess that's on me, not them. It isn't their fault at all. I just have high standards, and...things aren't clicking....I dunno, cant really describe how I'm feeling.It's just been a lot of dissapointed sighs of "is this IT?"
So, I'm just going to look for friends. Less pressure, and I can jsut be who I am without feeling obligated to be "more" than that.
Those who dig me will dig me for whatever reasons.
And those who don't won't.
Not giving up completely, but I havent really met many people on here who I'm all that interested in romantically.
I'm at a place where I know exactly what I want, but... maybe this isn't the best time to go looking for it. It's a little discouraging, and I know eventually I'll bounce back.
But....it is what it is, I guess.
And don't worry, I'm sticking around!
See everybody in a few days. Need to unwind for a bit.
find my center again.
flowerforyou


i'mb may come off as a bit a jacka$$..(but from what i've heard that's really nothing new)...

but here it is....looking above...if you know EXACTLY what you want...then STOP WHINING and GO GET IT!..

Putting your heart 'in a drawer' and WAITING for the woman you WANT to find it...might as well play the lottery...your chances will be the same...it would take an EXTREME stroke of luck for the right women, to find it at the right time...

Do you know who catches those record-breaking breaking fish? the guys out there fishing day-in and day-out, not the guy who casts his line once, gets discouraged because the first one to bite his line is small, and he has to throw it back.

I hear people say they want meet a girl who plays volley-ball, so i ask...where are you looking to meet these girls? and when they answer ..."uhh online" i want to slap them in the side of the head....wouldn't it make more sense to go somewhere where people ACTUALLY playing volley-ball and meet them that way?...makes sense to me.

What are your 'conversational' interest? is it art?..go to a museum, speak with women there....is it books? go to a book-club meet them there...
cooking...go to a cooking class...

point is....probably not going to find what you want...if you don't go searching for it...very deliberately in-fact.

If you want to catch a salmon, probably shouldn't be fishing in the neighbors pond...that's only asking for one disappointment after another


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Mon 06/01/15 10:35 PM
Isaac, do you think I'm self-centered? indifferent