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Topic: Red flags versus Green flags
PacificStar48's photo
Tue 06/02/15 05:55 PM
Pick one of each that you have experienced in dating and explain if necessary what made you think that.

Dodo_David's photo
Tue 06/02/15 06:00 PM
Dating? When I read the title of this thread, I thought it was about a sporting event.

TMommy's photo
Tue 06/02/15 06:43 PM
Green flag: drives nice car.
Red flag: its stolen

TMommy's photo
Tue 06/02/15 06:47 PM
Green flag: really nice hair
Red flag: it is a rug

TMommy's photo
Tue 06/02/15 06:48 PM
Green flag: movie star teeth
Red flag: that he sets in glass to soak at night

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Tue 06/02/15 06:50 PM
Red flag - mentions his mother.
*Oh hell no... No mama's boys*

Green Flag- my children are all on their own.
* Care taking is over , financial freedom & possible successful parenting *


TMommy's photo
Tue 06/02/15 06:52 PM
Green flag: says he has live in help
Red flag: turns out to be his wife

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Tue 06/02/15 06:55 PM
Red Flag- talks about his ex.
* Bitter or obsessed or still attached*

Green Flag- He can read spock

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Tue 06/02/15 07:01 PM
Red Flag - Asks if you have a sister or a girlfriend for his friend
* whoa tag team bromance *

Green Flag- He can name 3 scientist that are still alive bigsmile think

TMommy's photo
Tue 06/02/15 07:04 PM
Green flag: says he has created masterpieces of architecture with his own mind and two hands
Red flag: turns out he meant with Legos

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Tue 06/02/15 07:09 PM
Red Flag - Rude to the waiter or waitress. * next he may ask for ketsup * scared

Green Flag - He knows a place setting
& which fork to use :heart: drinker

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 06/02/15 07:11 PM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Tue 06/02/15 07:13 PM
Green flag; Family man

Red Flag ; didn't pay child-support for most of those years and his kids have all been locked up at least once.

Sorry I don't date women but if I was a guy these would give me pause; especially for a non custodial Mom

GodFirstNotReligion's photo
Tue 06/02/15 07:23 PM
Edited by GodFirstNotReligion on Tue 06/02/15 07:27 PM
Interesting question, I'��ll bite. I'll start with red flags so I end on a positive note. Generally speaking some of my red flags are related to ethics of character, the things I mentioned in my profile. Lack of honesty is the number one red flag for me. It'��s one of the easiest to spot. By use of the Socratic Method I can ask a question I already know the answer to followed by other questions which lead to truth or revelation of information. This will expose and make clear a person's level of dishonesty and deceit, sometimes without them even knowing how much they showed their true colours. On a positive note green flags for me are things that are opposite to red flag items. Such as, a person's willingness to share information without me having to ask about it. A major green flag item for me is when someone shows use of the golden rule. E.g. If you want me to make a big sacrifice for you, how about considering first making a major sacrifice for me. (do unto others as you want done to you).

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Tue 06/02/15 07:24 PM
Red Flag - Thinks Spanish is an official 2nd language in the USA
* ask him how many states there are, laugh... & run * grumble

Green Flag - Says ' You are a republic aren't you? ' blushing

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Tue 06/02/15 07:38 PM

Interesting question, I'��ll bite. I'll start with red flags so I end on a positive note. Generally speaking some of my red flags are related to ethics of character, the things I mentioned in my profile. Lack of honesty is the number one red flag for me. It'��s one of the easiest to spot. By use of the Socratic Method I can ask a question I already know the answer to followed by other questions which lead to truth or revelation of information. This will expose and make clear a person's level of dishonesty and deceit, sometimes without them even knowing how much they showed their true colours. On a positive note green flags for me are things that are opposite to red flag items. Such as, a person's willingness to share information without me having to ask about it. A major green flag item for me is when someone shows use of the golden rule. E.g. If you want me to make a big sacrifice for you, how about considering first making a major sacrifice for me. (do unto others as you want done to you).


I like your green flag - " willingness to share information without you having to ask "

If people ask a lot of questions & don't offer information voluntarily... RUN
If they tell you too much to soon
HIDE


SuzQ66's photo
Tue 06/02/15 07:45 PM
Green flag-introduces you to his friend
red flag-gives his friend your # to call you for a hook-up

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Tue 06/02/15 07:46 PM
Edited by Pansytilly on Tue 06/02/15 07:48 PM
Oh, i like this thread...

Green flag - the girls like looking at him blushing

Red flag - he likes looking at the guys tears

SitkaRains's photo
Tue 06/02/15 08:20 PM
Green flag.... He can hold a conversation..

Red flag..... He asks my bra size before we have met..

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Tue 06/02/15 08:34 PM
Red flag...He starts every sentence with "I"...

Green flag...He asks for my opinion...and actually listens when I give it...

msharmony's photo
Tue 06/02/15 08:42 PM
Red Flag: wanted to look at rings after three dates
Red Flag: wanted to experiment with choke play during intimacy( at least he asked first, right?)

Red Flag: constantly talked about how wonderful he was
Red Flag: asked me to hide when a female came knocking on his door,,,lol


,,,lol,,, yeah , too much experience with red flags

Green Flag: always pulled out chairs, opened doors, gave me his jacket

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