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Pick one of each that you have experienced in dating and explain if necessary what made you think that.
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Dating? When I read the title of this thread, I thought it was about a sporting event.
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Green flag: drives nice car.
Red flag: its stolen |
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Green flag: really nice hair
Red flag: it is a rug |
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Green flag: movie star teeth
Red flag: that he sets in glass to soak at night |
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Red flag - mentions his mother.
*Oh hell no... No mama's boys* Green Flag- my children are all on their own. * Care taking is over , financial freedom & possible successful parenting * |
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Green flag: says he has live in help
Red flag: turns out to be his wife |
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Red Flag- talks about his ex.
* Bitter or obsessed or still attached* Green Flag- He can read 
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Red Flag - Asks if you have a sister or a girlfriend for his friend
*  tag team bromance *
Green Flag- He can name 3 scientist that are still alive  
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Green flag: says he has created masterpieces of architecture with his own mind and two hands
Red flag: turns out he meant with Legos |
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Red Flag - Rude to the waiter or waitress. * next he may ask for ketsup *
Green Flag - He knows a place setting & which fork to use  
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Edited by
PacificStar48
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Tue 06/02/15 07:13 PM
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Green flag; Family man
Red Flag ; didn't pay child-support for most of those years and his kids have all been locked up at least once. Sorry I don't date women but if I was a guy these would give me pause; especially for a non custodial Mom |
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Edited by
GodFirstNotReligion
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Tue 06/02/15 07:27 PM
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Interesting question, I'��ll bite. I'll start with red flags so I end on a positive note. Generally speaking some of my red flags are related to ethics of character, the things I mentioned in my profile. Lack of honesty is the number one red flag for me. It'��s one of the easiest to spot. By use of the Socratic Method I can ask a question I already know the answer to followed by other questions which lead to truth or revelation of information. This will expose and make clear a person's level of dishonesty and deceit, sometimes without them even knowing how much they showed their true colours. On a positive note green flags for me are things that are opposite to red flag items. Such as, a person's willingness to share information without me having to ask about it. A major green flag item for me is when someone shows use of the golden rule. E.g. If you want me to make a big sacrifice for you, how about considering first making a major sacrifice for me. (do unto others as you want done to you).
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Red Flag - Thinks Spanish is an official 2nd language in the USA
* ask him how many states there are, laugh... & run * 
Green Flag - Says ' You are a republic aren't you? ' 
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Interesting question, I'��ll bite. I'll start with red flags so I end on a positive note. Generally speaking some of my red flags are related to ethics of character, the things I mentioned in my profile. Lack of honesty is the number one red flag for me. It'��s one of the easiest to spot. By use of the Socratic Method I can ask a question I already know the answer to followed by other questions which lead to truth or revelation of information. This will expose and make clear a person's level of dishonesty and deceit, sometimes without them even knowing how much they showed their true colours. On a positive note green flags for me are things that are opposite to red flag items. Such as, a person's willingness to share information without me having to ask about it. A major green flag item for me is when someone shows use of the golden rule. E.g. If you want me to make a big sacrifice for you, how about considering first making a major sacrifice for me. (do unto others as you want done to you). I like your green flag - " willingness to share information without you having to ask " If people ask a lot of questions & don't offer information voluntarily... RUN If they tell you too much to soon HIDE |
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Green flag-introduces you to his friend
red flag-gives his friend your # to call you for a hook-up |
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Edited by
Pansytilly
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Tue 06/02/15 07:48 PM
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Oh, i like this thread...
Green flag - the girls like looking at him
Red flag - he likes looking at the guys 
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Green flag.... He can hold a conversation..
Red flag..... He asks my bra size before we have met.. |
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Red flag...He starts every sentence with "I"...
Green flag...He asks for my opinion...and actually listens when I give it... |
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Red Flag: wanted to look at rings after three dates
Red Flag: wanted to experiment with choke play during intimacy( at least he asked first, right?) Red Flag: constantly talked about how wonderful he was Red Flag: asked me to hide when a female came knocking on his door,,,lol ,,,lol,,, yeah , too much experience with red flags Green Flag: always pulled out chairs, opened doors, gave me his jacket |
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