Topic: dating my boss?
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Sat 09/19/15 02:59 PM

You can't let other people define your self worth, you'll always be disappointed. Most people suck, just saying.laugh


Hehe, that was my mother

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Sat 09/19/15 07:46 PM
HEA

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Sat 09/19/15 07:56 PM
Hehe stop stalking this kittycat laugh

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Sat 09/19/15 07:57 PM



You're not plain or ugly.flowerforyou


Ty sweetie flowerforyou

Actually, I've always had an inferiority complex issue. I've never thought myself good enuf. I think i sell myself too short


If you think that you sell yourself too short, then try being a Melmacian.

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Sat 09/19/15 08:05 PM

Hehe stop stalking this kittycat laugh


huh I'm not stalking you, but you might want to keep an eye out for the celery whenever you are at the market.

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Sat 09/19/15 09:29 PM
bigsmile

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Sat 09/19/15 10:08 PM


I always feel, that if a married man (especially ) those with drop dead gorgeous wives have an interest towards plain, ugly me... then there must be something interesting about me. U know what i mean?


No that just means they're sleazy scumbags & as for you that means you're pretty much the same...

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Sat 09/19/15 10:12 PM


No that just means they're sleazy scumbags & as for you that means you're pretty much the same...


Romeo called me a scumbag bigsmile

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Sat 09/19/15 10:17 PM



No that just means they're sleazy scumbags & as for you that means you're pretty much the same...




Romeo called me a scumbag bigsmile


No i didn't...i was referring to the situation

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Sat 09/19/15 10:30 PM
I didn't take it as an insult Romeo

I admit, i am often not very wise in choosing my partner

It is one of my biggest flaw

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Sat 09/19/15 10:31 PM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Sat 09/19/15 10:34 PM

couple weeks ago I went back home and spent afternoon visiting with my brother..catching up on kids

tells me his daughter who is a single mom and 25 years old
was dating her boss for last couple months
nice guy, divorced and around 30 with one daughter

anyhow..she let's this guy sign his name on dotted line
for a car loan for her

so she is driving around this spiffy new car and dating her boss

lo and behold..he finds out she is texting and still talking to her ex
who is the baby daddy and then finds out she spent the night with this guy
and told him she was over at a friend's house


he fired her for being late to work and went to her house and took her car all in same day surprised



And this^^^ is how this kind of thing usually goes. Why stack the deck against yourself? Especially if you have a kid who will suffer your mistakes right along with you.

People can discount things as "Mom's advice" but more often than not Mom's advice has the adult child's best interest still in their reasons. Your pals will tell you what you want to hear, People who do risky stuff will tell you it is ok as a "learning experience" but hey how many times do you have to have your heart broken or loose your job to make it NOT worth choosing what is crossways from your own Best Interest.

Will you occasionally miss an opportunity for "love". I doubt it. If you are worth having a good person will work it out not to put you in the jack pot of having that kind of stress about your job.

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Sat 09/19/15 10:38 PM

This is a real bad taste of mine moe...

i am attracted to married men


Which says a lot about how you respect other people's, in particularly other women, and their children's, rights.

Sound's incredibly self centered.

Which should tell other's; even men how you roll.

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Sat 09/19/15 11:05 PM
Hehe I'm not very popular today am i?

Now I'm called self centred bigsmile


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Sun 09/20/15 05:45 AM

Life is worth taking risks! Years later from now what we don't want it s the pain of regret of not doing things or saying things that you ever wanted in your life. So follow your instincts.


I'm with u

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Sun 09/20/15 05:50 AM
Life is worth taking risks! Years later from now what we don't want it s the pain of regret of not doing things or saying things that you ever wanted in your life. So follow your instincts.

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Sun 09/20/15 06:54 PM
never a good idea to be involved romantically with your boss.. outcomes usually end up bad.
perhaps time to change jobs..

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Mon 09/21/15 05:04 PM
Are you planning to get into the gold digging business?

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Mon 09/21/15 05:29 PM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Mon 09/21/15 05:32 PM

Life is worth taking risks! Years later from now what we don't want it s the pain of regret of not doing things or saying things that you ever wanted in your life. So follow your instincts.


And at 25 you do not have a clue what you will regret when you look back over your life.

Seeking random intimate encounters, this Posters advertised behavior, it is likely that it will sooner or later be a chronic catastrophically expensive STD related health issue, and out of wed lock pregnancy, maybe later sterility or cancer. Which statistically that multiplies not only your chance of incarceration (for non-support and or domestic violence), poverty, drug use and alcoholism, and long standing family problems and un-employment but also for the partner(s), and child(ren). Note plurals because this kind of risky behavior on either side of the gender divide usually results in serial births.

Many of the same problems that go along with single mothers who compromise their own, and their child's future, by repeating poor relationship judgement. Which dating and being romantically involved with a boss is likely to lead to.

If these are not the kind of things a person is likely to regret I would think they are such a narcissist that a healthy person would run not walk away from that person.

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Tue 09/22/15 03:26 AM
I'm with mtommy on this.
A saying I have always remembered " don't screw the crew"
Is he married, what if it falls apart? Job security? Reputation etc etc.

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Tue 09/22/15 04:00 AM
MTommy....huh..thinks I am a guy grumble