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to ask a woman why she stays in a less than satisfying marriage... well we all have our own justifications.. read all the "how to be a good little wife and mommy" books you can get your hands on ya read all the women's magazine articles on how to spice up married life ya do the date night ya try hobbies you can both do together ya try to be more patient, more understanding, more supportive, and affectionate.. trying to convince yourself that the more you give the more you will receive you put the needs of the family above your own needs.. ya put your own needs so far back on the burner you try to convince yourself .. you no longer have them you are a mom machine that those needs for love, affection, caring and consideration are for the weak you shoulder that load baby you put that head down and you keep on going year in and year out and ooooooo hell ya I have psycho analyzed myself more than once on that one  |
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to ask a woman why she stays in a less than satisfying marriage... well we all have our own justifications.. read all the "how to be a good little wife and mommy" books you can get your hands on ya read all the women's magazine articles on how to spice up married life ya do the date night ya try hobbies you can both do together ya try to be more patient, more understanding, more supportive, and affectionate.. trying to convince yourself that the more you give the more you will receive you put the needs of the family above your own needs.. ya put your own needs so far back on the burner you try to convince yourself .. you no longer have them you are a mom machine that those needs for love, affection, caring and consideration are for the weak you shoulder that load baby you put that head down and you keep on going year in and year out and ooooooo hell ya I have psycho analyzed myself more than once on that one OMG ! This makes me think of someone really close that is going through this.... and I do not recognize her at times...although both of her children want her to have her own fun...she isn't. I sometimes wonder if she still knows what could make her happy. Even on a day off with the kids on the beach she is not "present". |
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that formula...you know the one I mean
does NOT always work my good doctor.. if you want to rise to the top of your profession you learn more, do more, then anyone else if you want to be a good student you buckle down, study more, give more effort than anyone else " if you just work hard, then you will achieve success" does NOT always work in a marriage 
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Spoken like a true worker bee..lol..jk..
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I am ready for a truly great passionate love. I don't have kids. I find most guys have kids so that is one thing that gets in the way.
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a married woman in a loveless and sexless marriage wants casual sex?
HOW DARE SHE? What should you tell her? Well, if she's asking you, be honest.. you are either, yourself, looking to casual date,(or)-you are looking for your soul-mate  ; someone to spend the rest of your life with .. figure that one out first..those looking for casual sex have already determined what they want.. Why indeed do women/men stay in such a relationship? As Bob Dylan sings.. Things Have Changed.. I am going to suggest fear, complacency, dollars, upbringing/morals, religion..to name a few. Should we break free of marriage to persue our own pursuits? Absolutley. Look after yourself first so you can look after others.. Like in an aircraft - put the oxygen on yourself first, then the baby. A cliche comes to mind - Look after numero uno I have more to say, but I'm pondering.. |
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Thanks guys and girls for this thread. After reading all posts here I found the answer to the really bothering me question. I am convinced now that there is no need to keep the unhappy marriage for the sake of the child. Feels like a boulder off my shoulders. Nice
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a married woman in a loveless and sexless marriage wants casual sex? HOW DARE SHE? What should you tell her? Well, if she's asking you, be honest.. you are either, yourself, looking to casual date,(or)-you are looking for your soul-mate ; someone to spend the rest of your life with .. figure that one out first..those looking for casual sex have already determined what they want.. Why indeed do women/men stay in such a relationship? As Bob Dylan sings.. Things Have Changed.. I am going to suggest fear, complacency, dollars, upbringing/morals, religion..to name a few. Should we break free of marriage to persue our own pursuits? Absolutley. Look after yourself first so you can look after others.. Like in an aircraft - put the oxygen on yourself first, then the baby. A cliche comes to mind - Look after numero uno I have more to say, but I'm pondering.. |
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Edited by
no1phD
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Thu 11/12/15 09:03 PM
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Thanks guys and girls for this thread. After reading all posts here I found the answer to the really bothering me question. I am convinced now that there is no need to keep the unhappy marriage for the sake of the child. Feels like a boulder off my shoulders. Nice |
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I'm a Southern Comfort on the rocks kinda gal..so close.. |
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Edited by
no1phD
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Thu 11/12/15 10:13 PM
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I'm a Southern Comfort on the rocks kinda gal..so close.. |
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All that Sitka said. Kids feel it when parents don't love each other. Apart from that missing vibe, they also don't kiss, cuddle and touch each other anymore, you know, all the things ppl do when they love one another.
Kids aren't stupid. It does damage to them, because it gives them a totally wrong idea of what a relationship is and should be like. So how are they supposed to form healthy relationships themselves later in life? Basically you're lying to yourself, your kids and your partner. So you're setting the example for your kids that lying is the done thing. And then you expect them to respect you? You know, I think people use children as an excuse because they lack the baws to leave. I think those people would stay another 10 years even if they didn't have children, just because they're scared to be alone. Almost everyone fears being alone. Fear of being alone and fear of not enough money are stronger reasons than kids if you ask me. So even the story about having the kids' best interest at heart is a(nother) lie. I have no respect for people who do this sort of thing. I've come across plenty of men like that. My idea: "Grow a spine and some baws! And be a good chap now and FO!!" I don't want a man without a backbone. Period. I need a bloke who is able to make hard decisions in life, not some sissy. As for your question: What do I do with these women? Since you're in the same situation: You sexercise them. That's what you want, it's what they want. And swap after-sex-stories as to why neither of you are going to divorce. Then have some more sex.  If they need therapy, you charge a fee 
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As for your question: What do I do with these women? Since you're in the same situation: You sexercise them. That's what you want, it's what they want. And swap after-sex-stories as to why neither of you are going to divorce. Then have some more sex. If they need therapy, you charge a fee ha, ha,... what she said ^^^ |
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I'm a Southern Comfort on the rocks kinda gal..so close.. ok, well, that's just alcohol abuse... adding a pop to the southern comfort..its straight on ice for me! |
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As for your question: What do I do with these women? Since you're in the same situation: You sexercise them. That's what you want, it's what they want. And swap after-sex-stories as to why neither of you are going to divorce. Then have some more sex. If they need therapy, you charge a fee ha, ha,... what she said ^^^ |
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Edited by
SparklingCrystal 💖💎
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Fri 11/13/15 10:28 AM
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As for your question: What do I do with these women? Since you're in the same situation: You sexercise them. That's what you want, it's what they want. And swap after-sex-stories as to why neither of you are going to divorce. Then have some more sex. If they need therapy, you charge a fee ha, ha,... what she said ^^^ Nice to see we bring out ..up .. out the best of you ... I'm game! Only thing is ... I cannot swap after-sex stories about why I don't wanna divorce, cos I am truly single ... and Rusty prolly bail out before the sexercises as she has a man ... Ain't life a biot(h ... WAIT A MINUTE!!! Someone mention Southern Comfort?!! OH YEAH BABY, I'm definitely in!!! 
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As for your question: What do I do with these women? Since you're in the same situation: You sexercise them. That's what you want, it's what they want. And swap after-sex-stories as to why neither of you are going to divorce. Then have some more sex. If they need therapy, you chharge a fee ha, ha,... what she said ^^^ Nice to see we bring out ..up .. out the best of you ... I'm game! Only thing is ... I cannot swap after-sex stories about why I don't wanna divorce, cos I am truly single ... and Rusty prolly bail out before the sexercises as she has a man ... Ain't life a biot(h ... WAIT A MINUTE!!! Someone mention Southern Comfort?!! OH YEAH BABY, I'm definitely in!!! 
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Hai
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As for your question: What do I do with these women? Since you're in the same situation: You sexercise them. That's what you want, it's what they want. And swap after-sex-stories as to why neither of you are going to divorce. Then have some more sex. If they need therapy, you chharge a fee ha, ha,... what she said ^^^ Nice to see we bring out ..up .. out the best of you ... I'm game! Only thing is ... I cannot swap after-sex stories about why I don't wanna divorce, cos I am truly single ... and Rusty prolly bail out before the sexercises as she has a man ... Ain't life a biot(h ... WAIT A MINUTE!!! Someone mention Southern Comfort?!! OH YEAH BABY, I'm definitely in!!! A girl's gotta kill the time till you have recovered for round two 
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As for your question: What do I do with these women? Since you're in the same situation: You sexercise them. That's what you want, it's what they want. And swap after-sex-stories as to why neither of you are going to divorce. Then have some more sex. If they need therapy, you chharge a fee ha, ha,... what she said ^^^ Nice to see we bring out ..up .. out the best of you ... I'm game! Only thing is ... I cannot swap after-sex stories about why I don't wanna divorce, cos I am truly single ... and Rusty prolly bail out before the sexercises as she has a man ... Ain't life a biot(h ... WAIT A MINUTE!!! Someone mention Southern Comfort?!! OH YEAH BABY, I'm definitely in!!! A girl's gotta kill the time till you have recovered for round two |
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