Topic: So fed up of "hey sexy" or pictures of phallic instruments
BenevolentDespotism's photo
Tue 11/24/15 02:12 PM
I'm a well educated, kind and generous soul who works within the arts and studies within the psychotherapy arena and so much of my time is spent in helping others emotionally. In what respect if any.... Do I give the impression that I wish to have a one night stand, give oral sex or view or wrinkled penis?
It's sad because I don't claim to want "a good time", "a laff" or anything other than some time with a caring intellectual.

I've proffered myself here leaving myself open and vulnerable to criticism so I can only hop you will all be kind yet constructive if needs be.
Maybe you are witness to something I am just not seeing.

I thank you kindly for your time and effort in reading this

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Tue 11/24/15 02:25 PM

I'm a well educated, kind and generous soul who works within the arts and studies within the psychotherapy arena and so much of my time is spent in helping others emotionally. In what respect if any.... Do I give the impression that I wish to have a one night stand, give oral sex or view or wrinkled penis?
It's sad because I don't claim to want "a good time", "a laff" or anything other than some time with a caring intellectual.

I've proffered myself here leaving myself open and vulnerable to criticism so I can only hop you will all be kind yet constructive if needs be.
Maybe you are witness to something I am just not seeing.

I thank you kindly for your time and effort in reading this


you promised not to tell anyone about my penis... thanks for nothing!!!

soufiehere's photo
Tue 11/24/15 02:58 PM
Cute profile, lots of great pics :-)

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Tue 11/24/15 05:26 PM
Great photos and very good blurb. The only negative from my point of view is someone referring to themself as a god or goddess. Maybe it's just me, but that goes beyond healthy egotism.

Otherwise, you seem like you'd be a great person to know.

Annierooroo's photo
Tue 11/24/15 05:46 PM

I'm a well educated, kind and generous soul who works within the arts and studies within the psychotherapy arena and so much of my time is spent in helping others emotionally. In what respect if any.... Do I give the impression that I wish to have a one night stand, give oral sex or view or wrinkled penis?
It's sad because I don't claim to want "a good time", "a laff" or anything other than some time with a caring intellectual.

I've proffered myself here leaving myself open and vulnerable to criticism so I can only hop you will all be kind yet constructive if needs be.
Maybe you are witness to something I am just not seeing.

I thank you kindly for your time and effort in reading this


In your activities you have whipping people's butts
They may think of it a sexual thing

Good on you for achieving what you have.

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Wed 11/25/15 06:02 PM
Personally, I think that (overall) it's a pretty great profile! :thumbsup:

I noticed that you used the term 'misogynist', & I immediately wondered if you may have perhaps meant 'misandrist' - but perhaps not... You seem as though you'd be a fun person to get to know, & a couple of your photos show eyes that a guy could just _fall_ into... (You're a bit fortunate in that regard!)

And finally...

So, Thankyou One And All..... For Your Time And (I'm Sure) Effort In Perusing My Profile. You've Been Great, And I've Been me!


Great ending line! winking

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Wed 11/25/15 06:06 PM
Edited by TBone5280 on Wed 11/25/15 06:07 PM
In your activities you have whipping people's butts
They may think of it a sexual thing

Annie, DON'T YOU DARE tell no1phd that it isn't a sexual thing - he'll be crushed!! surprised laugh tongue2

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 11/25/15 07:39 PM

I'm a well educated, kind and generous soul who works within the arts and studies within the psychotherapy arena and so much of my time is spent in helping others emotionally. In what respect if any.... Do I give the impression that I wish to have a one night stand, give oral sex or view or wrinkled penis?
It's sad because I don't claim to want "a good time", "a laff" or anything other than some time with a caring intellectual.

I've proffered myself here leaving myself open and vulnerable to criticism so I can only hop you will all be kind yet constructive if needs be.
Maybe you are witness to something I am just not seeing.

I thank you kindly for your time and effort in reading this


Sorry to say a persons education, or soul, or desire to help others is not what your profile projects and I suspect you know it. If one reads through your text and certainly if they look at your photos you have hit so many of the stereotypical suggestive sex-pot icons I would be surprised if you did not get such offensive and disrespectful responses. It almost comes off as some kind of class project for a psychology student rather than a legit profile.

Maybe people pick up on that and are taking the opportunity to play along with the persona.

That said it STILL JUST DOES NOT JUSTIFY you being disrespected by crude or rude remarks and vulgar mail.

And I think it requires not only a rethink of how you have promoted yourself but the effort it takes to challenge that kind of mail not by whining and (maybe you already did) rebuffing such advances as a strong self respecting woman but also reporting and blocking that kind of contact for all of the community. It is not just disrespecting women but makes the men on the site look bad by association.

soufiehere's photo
Wed 11/25/15 08:13 PM

So fed up of "hey sexy" or pictures of phallic instruments

Sigh.
Okay, send all the oversexed stuff to me.
I will..deal with it.

What I do for humanity.

mightymoe's photo
Wed 11/25/15 08:26 PM

Hello miss benevolent waving your write up made me smile.. Very well done .. Your photos .. To be honest they seem rather theatrical .. False eyelashes .. Wigs ??? Sorry but that is what stands our to me .. Of course .. I could be completely wrong .. And if so .. My humble apologies . flowers welcome to mingle . As for the phallic images .. Mingle is pretty tame :laughing: :angel:


i was wondering why a "woman" would call "herself" Mysoginistic....

mikey5360's photo
Wed 11/25/15 11:37 PM
Edited by mikey5360 on Wed 11/25/15 11:56 PM

Looking for my New Darling .. mail me Now

Ummm...look down...he is under your...ummmm chest...:wink:

hahahaha...doesn't have the same effect after the poster was deleted....hehehe

BenevolentDespotism's photo
Sat 11/28/15 07:17 PM


So fed up of "hey sexy" or pictures of phallic instruments

Sigh.
Okay, send all the oversexed stuff to me.
I will..deal with it.

What I do for humanity.

Jaan Doh 's photo
Sat 11/28/15 07:36 PM


So fed up of "hey sexy" or pictures of phallic instruments

Sigh.
Okay, send all the oversexed stuff to me.
I will..deal with it.

What I do for humanity.


Yep send most of it to Soufie,
and if there is any oversexed stuff from ladies send it to me
:laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

On as serious note...
Welcome to Mingle and good luck in finding what you seek

smile2 waving waving