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Personally, I never ask a woman her age, just to secure a date. But I play the guessing the age game. From experience, its always best to low ball the guess, women just like that and you will get the date you so badly want and then the other guessing games begin..Yup, most women are not as direct as the guys, when it comes to vital information...and yet its always the guys playing games...go figure...
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Hi, there is no logic to date multiple women at the same time (except if u r a player) but it is no where written that we cant meet multiple people. Also no one can decide the future of a relationship just by an amazing date night that too when we are meeting for the first time. I guess there is nothing more to be said. sorry, i am trying to understand. what you say is: at the moment you are ( / going to be) meeting different ladies ok. but then later you will stop at one which you think is the best for you, right? I am single and searching so yes I am seeing different ladies but the last one was kind of prefect. But yeah I am looking for the best. |
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Hi, there is no logic to date multiple women at the same time (except if u r a player) but it is no where written that we cant meet multiple people. Also no one can decide the future of a relationship just by an amazing date night that too when we are meeting for the first time. I guess there is nothing more to be said. sorry, i am trying to understand. what you say is: at the moment you are ( / going to be) meeting different ladies ok. but then later you will stop at one which you think is the best for you, right? I am single and searching so yes I am seeing different ladies but the last one was kind of prefect. But yeah I am looking for the best. okayyy. i hope the things go alright with that lady. i wish you good luck. |
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So this is how she explained me. When u ask this question to a lady nearing or above 30, she starts thinking that she is getting older and is alone which no one likes. She imagines time going faster and future starts flashing in front of her. At that point she wants a real relationship and that would increase any man`s chance to get into a relationship with her. So if the guy is decent and polite then he has 99% chances to get romantically involved with her.  Where were you born ? Or where was that lady with NO self esteem born... Acting like it is 1950. You will not find an American woman your age... With this archaic mindset These theories are not based on country missy but for your info I am in California and the lady I went on date is from LA. There are many weird physiological theories based on women which can make anyone judgmental. Based on this thread I am going to start another thread about an old theory which I executed in my college days successfully.Anyway I got success this time and if I go on another date then also I ll try this theory and see whether it was the theory or me 
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I'm not sure if this is true or not because I can't remember where I heard it.
But in Victorian England it was considered rude to ask a Lady her age because it was felt that the man was trying to discover if the Lady was still at child bearing age. Draw what you may from this piece of useless information. |
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Personally, I never ask a woman her age, just to secure a date. But I play the guessing the age game. From experience, its always best to low ball the guess, women just like that and you will get the date you so badly want and then the other guessing games begin..Yup, most women are not as direct as the guys, when it comes to vital information...and yet its always the guys playing games...go figure... Till last week I too was wired to that concept. Even in that date when she told her age, I immediately said "you must be using some magical portion because you still look 19 yrs old". But after that she became very interesting and things went from fine to great. Anyway as I told, the theory still needs to be verified and if I go on another date I can again test and see the results. I like to experiment and learn new things. |
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So this is how she explained me. When u ask this question to a lady nearing or above 30, she starts thinking that she is getting older and is alone which no one likes. She imagines time going faster and future starts flashing in front of her. At that point she wants a real relationship and that would increase any man`s chance to get into a relationship with her. So if the guy is decent and polite then he has 99% chances to get romantically involved with her. Where were you born ? Or where was that lady with NO self esteem born... Acting like it is 1950. You will not find an American woman your age... With this archaic mindset These theories are not based on country missy but for your info I am in California and the lady I went on date is from LA. There are many weird physiological theories based on women which can make anyone judgmental. Based on this thread I am going to start another thread about an old theory which I executed in my college days successfully.Anyway I got success this time and if I go on another date then also I ll try this theory and see whether it was the theory or me Could be a cultural or religious thing too. I have seen 25 year old women almost in panic that they are single. Usually it is not them or that their biological clock is ticking. From what I have seen it is their parents with an old world outlook that is nagging them... " When are you going to give me grandchildren... Blah blah blah... ". |
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I'm not sure if this is true or not because I can't remember where I heard it. But in Victorian England it was considered rude to ask a Lady her age because it was felt that the man was trying to discover if the Lady was still at child bearing age. Draw what you may from this piece of useless information. Believe me joe, this is true in any part of the world (as taught to me) but in this modern world people are trying new experiments and making new theories. I also learned a new one and tried, next month I am traveling to england let me see if I can try this theory there too. And hope for success. |
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I'm not sure if this is true or not because I can't remember where I heard it. But in Victorian England it was considered rude to ask a Lady her age because it was felt that the man was trying to discover if the Lady was still at child bearing age. Draw what you may from this piece of useless information. I read that somewhere also. And considering most women only lived to about 40. It almost makes sense. Too many died from hard work & childbirth. Yikes! |
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Hi, there is no logic to date multiple women at the same time (except if u r a player) but it is no where written that we cant meet multiple people. Also no one can decide the future of a relationship just by an amazing date night that too when we are meeting for the first time. I guess there is nothing more to be said. sorry, i am trying to understand. what you say is: at the moment you are ( / going to be) meeting different ladies ok. but then later you will stop at one which you think is the best for you, right? I am single and searching so yes I am seeing different ladies but the last one was kind of prefect. But yeah I am looking for the best. okayyy. i hope the things go alright with that lady. i wish you good luck. I too hope so, today again I am going to meet her and see whether the last date meant something or not. Thanks for the luck, always needed and hope the same for your search |
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I'm not sure if this is true or not because I can't remember where I heard it. But in Victorian England it was considered rude to ask a Lady her age because it was felt that the man was trying to discover if the Lady was still at child bearing age. Draw what you may from this piece of useless information. I read that somewhere also. And considering most women only lived to about 40. It almost makes sense. Too many died from hard work & childbirth. Yikes! Really  ,most of women marry only around or after 30. Need to start "save women" campaign.
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Personally, I never ask a woman her age, just to secure a date. But I play the guessing the age game. From experience, its always best to low ball the guess, women just like that and you will get the date you so badly want and then the other guessing games begin..Yup, most women are not as direct as the guys, when it comes to vital information...and yet its always the guys playing games...go figure... Till last week I too was wired to that concept. Even in that date when she told her age, I immediately said "you must be using some magical portion because you still look 19 yrs old". But after that she became very interesting and things went from fine to great. Anyway as I told, the theory still needs to be verified and if I go on another date I can again test and see the results. I like to experiment and learn new things. Yup, test your theories till you find the right one...nothing wrong with that...but also let me know if you get slapped on the head...playfully off course...lmfao... |
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Till last week I too was wired to that concept. Even in that date when she told her age, I immediately said "you must be using some magical portion because you still look 19 yrs old". But after that she became very interesting and things went from fine to great. Anyway as I told, the theory still needs to be verified and if I go on another date I can again test and see the results. I like to experiment and learn new things. Yup, test your theories till you find the right one...nothing wrong with that...but also let me know if you get slapped on the head...playfully off course...lmfao... Thanks my friend but it seems like I may not be needing the services of the theory again  
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Hi, there is no logic to date multiple women at the same time (except if u r a player) but it is no where written that we cant meet multiple people. Also no one can decide the future of a relationship just by an amazing date night that too when we are meeting for the first time. I guess there is nothing more to be said. sorry, i am trying to understand. what you say is: at the moment you are ( / going to be) meeting different ladies ok. but then later you will stop at one which you think is the best for you, right? I am single and searching so yes I am seeing different ladies but the last one was kind of prefect. But yeah I am looking for the best. okayyy. i hope the things go alright with that lady. i wish you good luck. I too hope so, today again I am going to meet her and see whether the last date meant something or not. Thanks for the luck, always needed and hope the same for your search meeting her again!.. exciting. can't wait to hear good news :) |
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I too hope so, today again I am going to meet her and see whether the last date meant something or not. Thanks for the luck, always needed and hope the same for your search meeting her again!.. exciting. can't wait to hear good news :) Night was great. Went for eating crab but ended with dirty clothes and lot of smiles. Then went to her apartment for cleaning and rest is history  ..She is great
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I too hope so, today again I am going to meet her and see whether the last date meant something or not. Thanks for the luck, always needed and hope the same for your search meeting her again!.. exciting. can't wait to hear good news :) Night was great. Went for eating crab but ended with dirty clothes and lot of smiles. Then went to her apartment for cleaning and rest is history ..She is great waow :D fantastic :d sooo nice to hear that it wasn't perfect just by chance. sounds like you found your perfect match :D |
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Edited by
peggy122
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Mon 01/11/16 11:48 AM
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I was very surprised to hear about this trick told to me by a wonderful lady. We men are always told not to ask a lady her age but after talking to her, my logic got screwed. This is more of a physiological angled question and makes a woman think about different things. So this is how she explained me. When u ask this question to a lady nearing or above 30, she starts thinking that she is getting older and is alone which no one likes. She imagines time going faster and future starts flashing in front of her. At that point she wants a real relationship and that would increase any man`s chance to get into a relationship with her. So if the guy is decent and polite then he has 99% chances to get romantically involved with her. I was amazed with her reasoning and I may be trying this out myself on my next date. The issue of age really does provoke insecurity in a lot of women particularly when they have never been married and dont have kids by the age of 30 . And although many of those women dont get desperate enough to jump into relationships with total losers, a lot of them unconsciously settle for way less than they actually desire. I have a 32 year old friend for example who is now in a relationship with a guy who treats her well and whom she treats well in return but who she does not love even after 2 years of dating. Yet she was determined to marry him if he proposed to her because she is panicked about her biological clock and consoles herself with the thought of him being a potentially great dad. My point is that because many women are so sensitive about the implications of being a certain age while still being single /childless, maybe you could announce your age to the woman you are interested in and if she doesnt take that opportunity to announce hers back to you, maybe you could try pursuing it further in the following conversation or date. If she still doesnt reveal it to you , her evasiveness about her age might be a red flag of insecurity. If the theory you are testing is true and a woman is panicked enough about her age to jump into a relationship with you, do you really want to be the guy that this woman settles for? That might be a tolerable situation in the short term but I have another friend who is still with the guy who didnt meet her requirements in the beginning, and 16 years and 4 kids later, she has admitted to me many times that the romantic void she felt in the beginning has actually worsened with age. She is now 40. |
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The issue of age really does provoke insecurity in a lot of women particularly when they have never been married and dont have kids by the age of 30 . And although many of those women dont get desperate enough to jump into relationships with total losers, a lot of them unconsciously settle for way less than they actually desire. I have a 32 year old friend for example who is now in a relationship with a guy who treats her well and whom she treats well in return but who she does not love even after 2 years of dating. Yet she was determined to marry him if he proposed to her because she is panicked about her biological clock and consoles herself with the thought of him being a potentially great dad. My point is that because many women are so sensitive about the implications of being a certain age while still being single /childless, maybe you could announce your age to the woman you are interested in and if she doesnt take that opportunity to announce hers back to you, maybe you could try pursuing it further in the following conversation or date. If she still doesnt reveal it to you , her evasiveness about her age might be a red flag of insecurity. If the theory you are testing is true and a woman is panicked enough about her age to jump into a relationship with you, do you really want to be the guy that this woman settles for? That might be a tolerable situation in the short term but I have another friend who is still with the guy who didnt meet her requirements in the beginning, and 16 years and 4 kids later, she has admitted to me many times that the romantic void she felt in the beginning has actually worsened with age. She is now 40. Nice long examples peggy but as I had explained, this is not a move to make a gal fall in love with you or marry u. It is just a way to make her interested in you so she overlooks the flaws in you and you have a better chance with her. After that it depends on the people, for a romantic guy who cares it is a sure thing and happy ever after but for a guy who is just looking for a relationship it is well less chances to get happiness ever after and for a woman it is a matter of settling or getting interested. It is a two way street and things need to work both sides. 
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I too hope so, today again I am going to meet her and see whether the last date meant something or not. Thanks for the luck, always needed and hope the same for your search meeting her again!.. exciting. can't wait to hear good news :) Night was great. Went for eating crab but ended with dirty clothes and lot of smiles. Then went to her apartment for cleaning and rest is history ..She is great waow :D fantastic :d sooo nice to hear that it wasn't perfect just by chance. sounds like you found your perfect match :D 2016 is the year of love I guess 
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Now for anyone who wants to try this here are some helpful pointers which I tried :-
1. Make sure you have never met her before. Preferred blind dates. 2. Please dont straight away ask her age, but do small talks like asking her past relationship, talking about kids and slowly build it then slip the question. 3. Be polite and nice to a lady always. 4. This works for people who want relationship and not for just fun because it will really hurt someone if you are looking for fun. 5. Talk about life after 5 years with her. Show her the vision because she is interested and wants a happy life with you now. 6. Now talking about babies will depend on women to women and how far have you interested her. Make right decision guys. Be happy |
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