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| Topic: Always ask the lady her age...surprised me | |
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Actually I did not say that is bothered me for I don't care if someone ask me how old I'm.. I'm happy with my age and where I'm in life.. But it is not something you ask someone right off the bat... Many would take offense that guys actually think just because a women is getting older that gives him a 99% chance of a relationship.. That is far from the truth..... That theory makes it sound as if women are desperate to be in a relationship after a certain age..  Not sure how many women know about it and i wont give her the explanation for asking that question (Come on). It is just a theory which according to her works 99% time. No harm to try it right Humm if you think it works 99% of the time go ahead and prove us right..  I do not know of one woman that would get in a relationship only cause she is getting older... Count me in too, I am also trying it for the first time so hope I get lucky in making her interested. 
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Sorry this theory is far from the truth.. I don't mind if others ask me how old I'm. But when they do I sure don't think that I need to get in a relationship. Age has nothing to do whether I'm single or with someone.. It all has to do if there is a connection, not that they feel they are getting older and have to be with someone.. I would rather be by myself then just be with someone cause I'm getting older.. And honestly if you ask someone their age as soon as you meet them. Many will still take offense by that question right off the bat.. So your friend may feel that way but the majority of the women would laugh at that logic.  Interesting...so one lady says yes and one lady says no..lets see what others have to say Best of luck for your research....keep studying ladies. |
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I think this is silly actually...
When I was single... My age had no determination on whether I wanted a relationship or not. I am quite content to alone I don't need a man to ease the aging process... I am 55 and proud of it. So I have no problems when someone asks me my age... So OP get right on this new theory of yours and see how it works. Chances are if she is a confident, self reliant woman you will give her some comic relief. Best wishes in your endeavor. |
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that wouldn't work for me.
i think that is just a very personal idea your friend grew herself. like all other generalizations are, this one is a silly and wrong one too. |
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Interesting...so one lady says yes and one lady says no..lets see what others have to say Hmmmm....so other ladies are saying it silly.... 
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I remember when I was about 26 and I had just broken up with a fellow who I had been dating about 8 months..At that time I had angst of 'oh, I'll never find someone'... 'I am getting old'... 'my biological clock is ticking'...
My, oh so smart father, talked and assured me out of my sorrow.. But, at no time did I ever ponder the idea of just hooking up with someone/anyone because of ..... Your theory is flawed.. |
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Thank you Dr Smith, what a lovely date on the start of this new year. It worked wonders and she got very interested. Not sure it was the ambiance or the magic of words but it just made 2015 dates history for me. I need to try this magic once again to check the consistency of the theory but for now it is not a theory but a magic for me 
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Edited by
butribu
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Sat 01/09/16 09:44 AM
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Thank you Dr Smith, what a lovely date on the start of this new year. It worked wonders and she got very interested. Not sure it was the ambiance or the magic of words but it just made 2015 dates history for me. I need to try this magic once again to check the consistency of the theory but for now it is not a theory but a magic for me "It worked wonders and she got very interested." & "I need to try this magic once again" if it worked wonders, why will you try again? if it was that superb why do you not stick on to that relationship? |
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oh i saw the "about me" part now
dating. ok then.. |
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I was very surprised to hear about this trick told to me by a wonderful lady. We men are always told not to ask a lady her age but after talking to her, my logic got screwed. This is more of a physiological angled question and makes a woman think about different things. So this is how she explained me. When u ask this question to a lady nearing or above 30, she starts thinking that she is getting older and is alone which no one likes. She imagines time going faster and future starts flashing in front of her. At that point she wants a real relationship and that would increase any man`s chance to get into a relationship with her. So if the guy is decent and polite then he has 99% chances to get romantically involved with her. I was amazed with her reasoning and I may be trying this out myself on my next date. I was wondering about all those beautiful damsels having been born on the 29th of February. 
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Thank you Dr Smith, what a lovely date on the start of this new year. It worked wonders and she got very interested. Not sure it was the ambiance or the magic of words but it just made 2015 dates history for me. I need to try this magic once again to check the consistency of the theory but for now it is not a theory but a magic for me "It worked wonders and she got very interested." & "I need to try this magic once again" if it worked wonders, why will you try again? if it was that superb why do you not stick on to that relationship? Hi, there is no logic to date multiple women at the same time (except if u r a player) but it is no where written that we cant meet multiple people. Also no one can decide the future of a relationship just by an amazing date night that too when we are meeting for the first time. I guess there is nothing more to be said. |
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I was very surprised to hear about this trick told to me by a wonderful lady. We men are always told not to ask a lady her age but after talking to her, my logic got screwed. This is more of a physiological angled question and makes a woman think about different things. So this is how she explained me. When u ask this question to a lady nearing or above 30, she starts thinking that she is getting older and is alone which no one likes. She imagines time going faster and future starts flashing in front of her. At that point she wants a real relationship and that would increase any man`s chance to get into a relationship with her. So if the guy is decent and polite then he has 99% chances to get romantically involved with her. I was amazed with her reasoning and I may be trying this out myself on my next date. I was wondering about all those beautiful damsels having been born on the 29th of February. Nice one |
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Thank you Dr Smith, what a lovely date on the start of this new year. It worked wonders and she got very interested. Not sure it was the ambiance or the magic of words but it just made 2015 dates history for me. I need to try this magic once again to check the consistency of the theory but for now it is not a theory but a magic for me "It worked wonders and she got very interested." & "I need to try this magic once again" if it worked wonders, why will you try again? if it was that superb why do you not stick on to that relationship? Hi, there is no logic to date multiple women at the same time (except if u r a player) but it is no where written that we cant meet multiple people. Also no one can decide the future of a relationship just by an amazing date night that too when we are meeting for the first time. I guess there is nothing more to be said. sorry, i am trying to understand. what you say is: at the moment you are ( / going to be) meeting different ladies ok. but then later you will stop at one which you think is the best for you, right? |
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So this is how she explained me. When u ask this question to a lady nearing or above 30, she starts thinking that she is getting older and is alone which no one likes. She imagines time going faster and future starts flashing in front of her. At that point she wants a real relationship and that would increase any man`s chance to get into a relationship with her. So if the guy is decent and polite then he has 99% chances to get romantically involved with her.
 Where were you born ? Or where was that lady with NO self esteem born... Acting like it is 1950. You will not find an American woman your age... With this archaic mindset
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i used to think that, before/ after 30 syndrome existed only in the suburbs of my country lol. i am surprised.
i do not even make friends with such women, they will always have hesitations which will bring lack of self confidence, leading to jealousness to other women, hidden calculations and estimations in their minds, and always plans of course lol. an untrusthworthy profile in my mind, sorry.. keep away. |
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"There simply are no shortcuts to a happy ending and a healthy relationship." Sure there is...problem is, they are either illegal, immoral or married or live in a country far away....lol... |
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how can a countrywise distant relationship work? i cannot even manage the citywise ones..
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anyway i cannot manage the ones in my town either.
i must be the problem lol |
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I've never asked and won't ,guess I'm old school Nah. You just have a sense of self-preservation.   Okay.. Bella... And how often are there men in suits in your trunk?  
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