I noticed a topic of "where did all the good men go"; and I'd like to ask the same question for "where the good women went?"

I don't think I'm asking too much from my potential spouse when my preference is someone who doesn't drink, smoke or swear. A woman with integrity and balance, a nurturing disposition with compassion for others. A soft spoken woman who is able to remain calm in a not-so-calm situation with her confidence and unspoken reassurance. A woman who is not afraid to be vulnerable yet strong at the same time. A future mother who will help raise her children with morals and healthy boundaries. A woman who is able to speak her mind, yet knows when a kind and gentle word is needed to soothe a distressed child.

I'm on here looking for a woman who is all of the above and more. I am not into dating or a 'let's see where this will lead' type of meeting. I'm seriously looking for a wife and I've got a lot to offer that potential woman. I own my own home, I work a full-time job and have been raised by a strong mother who taught me how to be a good man to a good woman. I am close with my family, but not dominated by them. I love to have fun, but with respect and dignity for myself and for those around me. I have traditional values and know how to treat a proper lady as she should be.

Where have all the good women gone? Could you be one of them?

First off I am not the one.
Second, where all the good women, EVERYWHERE. It just depends on where you are looking and which of your must haves is negotiable.

Welcome :-)

Stop looking for your reflection and start looking for
the real thing.

She will come as a package of who she is already.
She will have standards that fit herself, not others.

Preferring she be perfect according to what YOU want
would probably make her less than perfect for herself.

Best work on yourself, stop looking in mirrors for
what you seek.

You may find hordes of women with new eyes.
To answer your question..they are everywhere.

Absolutely.....the good women are every where. You just gotta look in the right places.
" Marriage is not about finding the right person, its a matter of being the right person."(GBS?)
And "Love isn't love, till you give it away"....just saying..

The OP deactivated already.

^^ The profile pic looked that of a young guy. Maybe the OP, accidentally downloaded his kid's prom night pic. Maybe...

Like the song maybe they went to " Funky Town"

she took the path that led to the alter in the hopes that true love would prevail...


she took the path of least resistance
only to find that perhaps she should have
been more choosy



she took the path of enlightenment only to find she left the light on
and her electric bill was outrageous

she took the path to find her self and ended up going in a circle