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how do u find the perfect guy when you have two beautiful kids no one wants to date a single mom that has 2 children
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Change your scene such that all the guys are anti-family? Seems a little defeating to say "no one" wants to date a single mom. Seems slightly extreme? There's always guys out there who get the single mom and those of us who respect the single mom.
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i'd object to the word perfect..there isn't such a thing and all relationships take work...lots of it. just make sure its worth working for and not hurting you. as for the other, don't give up hope..some guys would still give you a chance. at least, i would give a women with children a chance.
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how about a guy that will love you and your kiddos. perfection is a myth.
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thats not true ..i lived with my gf for 14 years and she had 3 children there are some nice guys out there and eventually you will find one just hang in there and keep your hopes up,maybe say a prayer ..i have no doubt that it will not go unanswered take care,good luck..
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I understand what she is saying though. I am a single mom and it seems like guys usually lose interest as soon as they find out you have kids or they think it just means you are a slut.
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Try a guy that will accept you as a package
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ok im not looking for the "perfect" guy but i want a guy that will accept the fact that i have kids and when i tell ppl that they all seem to run away
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give it time you will find someone who will love you and your kids,i was on here for over 1 year and i found the man of my dreams on here, and you will too. best wishes and good luck.
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theres lottsa good men that also have kids, takes time to meet the right one.!!!!!
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if you figure that out tell me how to get a lady to date a guy with 5 kids from their ex
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lol well then that guy clearly isn't interested...but...you know..say to someone look get to know me, let's go on a few dates, then they can decide, no pressure. and just be yourself..whatever the hell that means. oh and i do get it, a lot of guys aren't looking for that responsability, plus..its hard to get into a relationship knowing that their partner will be first in their life and her children will be first in hers...
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sorry that you have experienced such behavior.
I always felt the single mom was a package deal. Being a single parent myself,perhaps the ladies tend to be more open minded. Maybe a change of environment where you meet people,I dont know. Good luck,there are many great people on this site. |
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I thik us single moms have an advantage...it makes us or should make us all the more picky...so we dotn settle for less and hopefully end up with a grat guy in the end!!
 HOPEFULLY!!
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hmmmmmmmmmmm.....Wouldn't the "PERFECT" guy want both you and your children....? Just something to chew on.
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cheers gams.!!!!!
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I do have to say that I respect the men who have their children or at least try and be a part of their childrens lives. It seems like more and more fathers are stepping up. As a fatherless child it is especially hard to trust. May be a little of my problem.
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If perfection were achieved then it would simply die for there would be nothing left to live for...wow...that was seemingly prophetic...lol. But anyway, I kinda get it though. It's pretty hard for myself, a single parent as well, to find a girl that is open to dating me...the right special person isn't always easy to find. Keep your head up and just make sure you take care of yourself and your babies first! :)
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TY, TY
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Agreed Hawaii
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