Topic: Coffee meeting
nolosecual's photo
Sun 03/13/16 02:36 PM
Who of you talk with a stranger in a coffee table.
What would be your subjects. That you never would say. With that expectations would accept a coffee of a someone who only you see his picture.

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Sun 03/13/16 02:55 PM
I've sat at a coffee table in a (big name café) and spotted an attractive man in line while I tapped on and hovered over my keyboard. What would I say to him if he came over to my table after spotting me, too? This is the question I've wondered about for years!

What would you talk about? I think I'd accept coffee from someone if I'd only seen his picture. It's something like what happened in person years ago!

nolosecual's photo
Sun 03/13/16 03:14 PM
I think what you say is true, but my experience tells me that there are times when the expectation overflows and makes us make mistakes. Thank you for coming to this cafe conversations.

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Sun 03/13/16 03:34 PM

I think what you say is true, but my experience tells me that there are times when the expectation overflows and makes us make mistakes. Thank you for coming to this cafe conversations.
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Sun 03/13/16 03:51 PM
not a coffee table but when i go out to the pub/bar/club on my own (which i like doing much), i always sit at the service desk part, where always people with no accompany sit
and i chat to strangers, talk about many things, buy each other drinks
i like it so much
talking to strangers is so relaxing.
once you leave the place that is finished. (i met my best friend at the bar like that though lol)