Why girl/boys choosing only at the outside looks (good looking)of the person that he/she wants??????

How do you know they are..unless
you are doing the same?

Outside looks are what are noticed first...but the inside looks soon come through so you know the total person

I agree with this 100%.After the persons soul is viewed everything else is second.

THEY ARE NOT.....CHOOSING IS ''NOT'' A CONSCIOUS CHOICE,,,ITS A EMOTIONAL CHOICE!!!!!

THATS WHY PEOPLE WILL PICK THERE OTHER THATS NOT REALY GOOD FOR THEM,AND EVEN DO BAD

THINGS TO THEM...SO THEN YA HEAR THE FAMOUS LAST WORDS ''BUT I LOVE HIM OR HER'' MOST PEOPLE

DO NOT EVEN KNOW THEY HAVE ''FAVORITE FEELINGS''......ITS THE FAVORITE FEELINGS AND UNCONSCIOUS

BELIFS ABOUT THEM SELVES AND OTHERS THAT KEEP THE GAMES GOING ON AND ON.....

This is not always true
chatting online you get to know a person from the inside I think if you love a person for the inside it lasts longer and is stronger looks can fade insides are evergreen x

Well ... when you wake up in the morning and turn around, you don't want to have the crap scared out of you ...

What makes this hilarious is it so true

Crystal ahahahaa

You figure me out.what was I'm saying.

First, because we are animals. Creatures. ALL creatures do this AT FIRST. And the generally suspected reason why, is that all creatures procreate, and evolutionary accidents, tend to make them choose indicators of the most health, when selecting baby-making partners.

Second, that's just the starting point. So when you say "ONLY" outside looks, is where you are making the mistake. It only starts there.

But I sympathize with you. At least half of us go through a stage where we are frustrated and angry, because we see people who we personally know are total scumbags, making headway with people we wish we could get a single smile from, and it's painful.

What you have to work your way through, is to get to realize that anyone who STAYS with the scumbags, isn't someone who you'd want in your life anyway.

I HAVE FRIEND WHO IS REALLY NOT VERY ATTRACTIVE,,,ON THE THE OTHER-HAND HE IS A BIG TEDDY BEAR WITH A GOLDEN HEART, HIS WIFE LOVES HIM.... ATTRACTION REALLY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER...

I heard this the other day ... now believe it or not ...
someone said if you look at someone long enough...
that you do not have a attraction for ...
you can physically become attracted to them ...

personally I don't know ...
most of the time they have to have something
beside physical appearance anyway ...
to me... and know not $...
they also said ...
so always look your best ...
ok I at that one ...

but if your hung up on appearance ...
then I agree with soufi...