Topic: What Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?
no1phD's photo
Tue 05/03/16 03:55 PM
Umm.. when a woman fakes an orgasm... I totally lose respect for her at that point... because damnit if I can't make you have an o. Then you really should admit it.. make me! dig deep ,try harder..lol.. don't sugar coat it..lol

peggy122's photo
Wed 05/04/16 04:50 AM


I have seen people who say they like or love someone, but they don't appear to respect them.

I have also seen people who say they don't like or love someone but they appear to respect them.




1.What's the difference between liking a person versus respecting a person?

2. What are some things that make you lose respect for a person?


LOVE and RESPECT are always together in human life. If you love someone;then;you respect that person .

If you decide to love someone;that's mean; he or she is an honest,sincere;gold heart and many more qualities you appreciate.I'm talking about sentimental love.

losing respect?...his or her personal qualities have failed

On the other hand; you can only feel respect for a person(boss,colleague,etc); no love is involved. But this; is another situation.





Actually jazz, i know people who love individuals who are not honest or noble. Maybe those peoole fell in love with the person's strength or their the moments when they are charming. Who knows.

But I do agree with you that love and respect should go together :)

Kathyzee's photo
Wed 05/04/16 05:11 AM

Umm.. when a woman fakes an orgasm... I totally lose respect for her at that point... because damnit if I can't make you have an o. Then you really should admit it.. make me! dig deep ,try harder..lol.. don't sugar coat it..lol
If you can't get it done the first time and that's caused you to "lost respect for her"..Why should she feel obligated to to give it another round??

TMommy's photo
Wed 05/04/16 05:12 AM

I have seen people who say they like or love someone, but they don't appear to respect them.

I have also seen people who say they don't like or love someone but they appear to respect them.




1.What's the difference between liking a person versus respecting a person?

2. What are some things that make you lose respect for a person?



ignorance, outright cruelty to another human being, chauvinism, bigotry

peggy122's photo
Wed 05/04/16 06:46 AM

The exact way each person defines the terms matters, of course.

My own peculiar set of experiences with "liking" and "respect" have given me a slightly different attitude about them.

I have run into too many people, for example, who straight up use the concept of 'respect,' as a selfish way to use and even abuse people.

What they do is, they declare some aspect of a target person, be it their own misbehavior, or even their ignorance/innocence, makes them someone they don't have to respect as an equal human being. Then they proceed to use the target for their own satisfactions, whether it's something straightforward as using them for selfish sexual pleasure, or injuring them physically for sadistic pleasure, or more subtly, using them politically as a sort of straw man, to make themselves feel self-righteous.

I STRONGLY dislike people who use their lack of respect for someone else in any of these ways, because I have found that none of them are themselves honorable in any aspect of their lives. You can count on people who do these things to abuse you, should it become beneficial to them, and they wont think anything of it.

Several people mentioned showing respect for a person in a particular position, such as an officer of a company. I would refer to this as showing respect for the office itself, for the structure of the institution. This is why I am thoroughly disgusted with people who treat politicians they disapprove of with overt disrespect and derision. I didn't like Nixon after he behaved so badly, but I would never refer to him with disparaging names while he was in office, because that would mean I was tearing down the fabric of the United States itself.

I've never known or seen anyone who indulged in name-calling of any kind, who were worthy of respect for their opinions. All of them were clearly worshiping themselves. Besides, there's an old saying that you can't throw mud without dipping yourself into it first.


Well from what you said Igor, I gather that you disrespect anyone who demonstrates disrespect for others , which I completely agree with

And people do target traits in people and use it as a justification for disrespecting them.

I would even go as far as saying that most types of prejudice adopt this type of reasoning and behaviour.

It is such an ugly part of humanity to observe and it seems to exist everywhere :(

peggy122's photo
Wed 05/04/16 06:49 AM

when someone lyes to you thats when you loose respect.


Most people have lying as one of the top offenses which evokes disrespect in us for another person. I agree!

peggy122's photo
Wed 05/04/16 06:57 AM

Playing games is a big turn off. Why not be honest instead?


Sadly game playing appears to be a staple in most 21st century dating,.Lots of ego and power issues are at the bottom of it .

And it is frustraiting to be sure !

peggy122's photo
Wed 05/04/16 07:06 AM

Umm.. when a woman fakes an orgasm... I totally lose respect for her at that point... because damnit if I can't make you have an o. Then you really should admit it.. make me! dig deep ,try harder..lol.. don't sugar coat it..lol


But then what will the woman have left in her arsenal to immasculate her unattentive mate ,if she tells him right away that he doesnt satisfy her.? laugh

peggy122's photo
Wed 05/04/16 07:15 AM


Umm.. when a woman fakes an orgasm... I totally lose respect for her at that point... because damnit if I can't make you have an o. Then you really should admit it.. make me! dig deep ,try harder..lol.. don't sugar coat it..lol
If you can't get it done the first time and that's caused you to "lost respect for her"..Why should she feel obligated to to give it another round??


Hey kathy!

I think he meant that he loses respect for her due to her dishonesy about having the orgasm.. He doesnt lose respect for her not having an orgasm. For this, the doc knows that he has only himself to blame ...laugh

peggy122's photo
Wed 05/04/16 07:18 AM


I have seen people who say they like or love someone, but they don't appear to respect them.

I have also seen people who say they don't like or love someone but they appear to respect them.




1.What's the difference between liking a person versus respecting a person?

2. What are some things that make you lose respect for a person?



ignorance, outright cruelty to another human being, chauvinism, bigotry


Sounds like you agree with Igor. Tmom.

You lose respect for people who demonstrate disrespect to others. I couldnt agree more :thumbsup:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 05/05/16 03:37 PM

Umm.. when a woman fakes an orgasm... I totally lose respect for her at that point... because damnit if I can't make you have an o. Then you really should admit it.. make me! dig deep ,try harder..lol.. don't sugar coat it..lol

At first this was hilarious, but it does make a lot of sense ...
If a guy could fake it, and would do that, I wouldn't be too chuffed either.

no1phD's photo
Thu 05/05/16 03:54 PM


Umm.. when a woman fakes an orgasm... I totally lose respect for her at that point... because damnit if I can't make you have an o. Then you really should admit it.. make me! dig deep ,try harder..lol.. don't sugar coat it..lol
If you can't get it done the first time and that's caused you to "lost respect for her"..Why should she feel obligated to to give it another round??
..well.. if I can't get her off the LaunchPad the first time.. so to speak..lol.. I would expect her to say so.. I'm not a selfish lover.. sometimes a little Direction a little guidance is required.. a little go team go..lol..
A little ohh.. that's nice !! but a little more to the left would be better..or
Right there right there..ohhh yes mmm yes right there don't stop what you're doing!! right there ..ohhh yes there , there.... keep doing what you're doing !don't stop!!!... is required..lol

Kathyzee's photo
Thu 05/05/16 04:16 PM



Umm.. when a woman fakes an orgasm... I totally lose respect for her at that point... because damnit if I can't make you have an o. Then you really should admit it.. make me! dig deep ,try harder..lol.. don't sugar coat it..lol
If you can't get it done the first time and that's caused you to "lost respect for her"..Why should she feel obligated to to give it another round??
..well.. if I can't get her off the LaunchPad the first time.. so to speak..lol.. I would expect her to say so.. I'm not a selfish lover.. sometimes a little Direction a little guidance is required.. a little go team go..lol..
A little ohh.. that's nice !! but a little more to the left would be better..or
Right there right there..ohhh yes mmm yes right there don't stop what you're doing!! right there ..ohhh yes there , there.... keep doing what you're doing !don't stop!!!... is required..lol
That sounds like a whole lot of "scripted waste".....lol..
Just better to go with the flow n let the moment do the talking:))

no1phD's photo
Thu 05/05/16 04:20 PM




Umm.. when a woman fakes an orgasm... I totally lose respect for her at that point... because damnit if I can't make you have an o. Then you really should admit it.. make me! dig deep ,try harder..lol.. don't sugar coat it..lol
If you can't get it done the first time and that's caused you to "lost respect for her"..Why should she feel obligated to to give it another round??
..well.. if I can't get her off the LaunchPad the first time.. so to speak..lol.. I would expect her to say so.. I'm not a selfish lover.. sometimes a little Direction a little guidance is required.. a little go team go..lol..
A little ohh.. that's nice !! but a little more to the left would be better..or
Right there right there..ohhh yes mmm yes right there don't stop what you're doing!! right there ..ohhh yes there , there.... keep doing what you're doing !don't stop!!!... is required..lol
That sounds like a whole lot of "scripted waste".....lol..
Just better to go with the flow n let the moment do the talking:))
.ohh.. so you're not much of a screamer then or are you..lol

no1phD's photo
Thu 05/05/16 04:20 PM
I get to know a little more about you ^^
with every post..lol

Kathyzee's photo
Thu 05/05/16 04:29 PM
I don't "Scream" n tell :))

no1phD's photo
Thu 05/05/16 04:30 PM

I don't "Scream" n tell :))
..ok. so that forces me to guess wildly then...umm..
How about moaning and groaning loudly..hmmm..lol..

Kathyzee's photo
Thu 05/05/16 04:34 PM
Yup, did that when I gav birth:)) Twice haha..:laughing:

SitkaRains's photo
Thu 05/05/16 04:44 PM

Yup, did that when I gav birth:)) Twice haha..:laughing:

Priceless.. flowerforyou rofl

mzrosie's photo
Thu 05/05/16 07:02 PM

Yup, did that when I gav birth:)) Twice haha..:laughing:



laugh Good one!
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