People really lie on their profiles? Ok that might sound stupid, but I have never lied! I am trying to find true love here. AND yes, there a few people who I want to get to know and then theres the ones I "really" want to get to know, if you get what I mean. I would never approach a guy and ask him out. I have done it, and I got laughed at by the whole bar, almost. It sucked, bad.

Neither have I but it was just a point. I mean, can you really ever believe everything on a person's profile? Probably not a great idea.

I'm tired of making the contacts. So when r guys going to stop thinking it's owed to them and start being gentlemen again? You know, make the first contact, initiate conversation, open doors, show up for more than 1 date...

Hey, I do MY part (Or am I lying, no I really do). It's only my experience that many women don't like to meet men half way. Like "rescue me, make me happy" instead of being an active part in a real relationship.


OK ladies, Let the hate mail flow.

Notice I said "many" not "all".

Love ya.

To clarify though. I think a man SOULD take care of his woman. That's what keeps the love flowing.

That's "SHOULD". I can't type.

blessings flow from this woman to those who give

I'll give.

I dont think its hard for a woman to approach a man, I have done it, and I am sure many women have all the time, if a woman does not approach you normally that means she is not attracted to you..I mean I will not approach someone I dont find attractive, I am not speaking for all women I am just saying, just because a man is attracted to someone it does not mean that someone is attracted to them, besides women dont walk around looking for sexy attractive men all the time, we have other things on our mind, like kids, shopping, work, Paying our bills, when we should get the laundry done, what needs to be done around the house, our friends problems, our problems.. we have tunnel vision sometimes and its nice for a man to stop us sometimes.