Topic: NO sex before "I do"
Annierooroo's photo
Thu 09/15/16 01:59 PM
I think waiting is a very good idea. Sex is part of a marriage not all of it.
Forming a strong friendship relationship is what will get you through the tough times.

Yes with the ex I waited till after marriage.
I will do it it again to honour God.

CowboyGH's photo
Thu 09/15/16 04:01 PM

I think waiting is a very good idea. Sex is part of a marriage not all of it.
Forming a strong friendship relationship is what will get you through the tough times.

Yes with the ex I waited till after marriage.
I will do it it again to honour God.



God bless you Annieroorooo :)


I will do it it again to honour God.


Annierooroo's photo
Thu 09/15/16 06:43 PM
Thank you Cowboy.

I would not be where I am today without Him.

Banjiian's photo
Sat 09/17/16 08:57 PM
Wow not easy but I think it's in the mind just keep your self busy with the word and avoid places were you are just the two like in the bedroom

TriniLee's photo
Sun 09/18/16 12:19 AM
Edited by TriniLee on Sun 09/18/16 12:15 AM
Pre-Marital sex has become so fashionable now that waiting until Marriage seems odd to many. When indeed sex was made only for within the sanctity of Marriage...we have indeed strayed from what God instructed of us, smh...

Annierooroo's photo
Sun 09/18/16 12:24 AM
It's decision you choose to make.

There are ways to avoid it.

Ddrykowski's photo
Sat 09/24/16 10:35 PM
I for one intend to do just this in my next relationship, but I agree it's difficult; so both partiers have to be on board, but it would be so worth it!

mants3_kobby's photo
Sun 09/25/16 05:59 AM
Well I will always say I use my self as a living testimony. I've dated three ladies already of which my rule was no sex before marriage. But eventually friends of such girls I dated thought I couldn't errect that was why I imposed that rule.Well due to that I guess it's ruined all my relationships and I've made up my mind to remain single for some time till I come across the right one.God does mighty things in His own time

CowboyGH's photo
Sun 09/25/16 05:33 PM

Well I will always say I use my self as a living testimony. I've dated three ladies already of which my rule was no sex before marriage. But eventually friends of such girls I dated thought I couldn't errect that was why I imposed that rule.Well due to that I guess it's ruined all my relationships and I've made up my mind to remain single for some time till I come across the right one.God does mighty things in His own time


Amen, because the wait will "weed out" all the users and other foul characteristics of people. Will give you time too find a woman that wishes too wait as well :) Best of blessings my friend.

Tarmus's photo
Sun 09/25/16 09:14 PM
Edited by Tarmus on Sun 09/25/16 09:15 PM

rodgers040's photo
Sun 10/02/16 04:03 PM
of cos yes

Pineapplepen's photo
Mon 10/03/16 03:08 AM
I am willing to wai till marriage. I've never had sex before.
But to be honest it is a huge torture and very hard to live with

100RealqueenB's photo
Thu 10/06/16 06:33 PM
Well there are still committed Christian women! I'm one of them who says sex before marriage..... I prayed and ask God to take away my feelings until I find my husband.

omeedddd's photo
Wed 10/12/16 06:06 PM
sex is not good before marriage, because marriage is for love and understanding and sex is for fun pleasure, and beautiful thing will come out on it which is kids, i need marriage and kids with honest lady that truly love me and understand me

wiena134's photo
Tue 10/18/16 04:57 AM
I had this conversation bfore with my friend,he asked a question what if we wait after i do to hav sex but after married we dissapointed bcos it not worth let say the wife is mean has bad attitudes n there is a girl that not wait until i do to have sex but she is a good girl?in my country indonesian we use married as an excuse to hav sex after we taste it then no light on again then divorce mostly like that so his opion is true n real..for christian we believe that God created this earth n human so i said to my friend,"i believe that He is God n i also believe that there are many men out there who wait to have sex until we say i do,men that has good manner n also good in sex total packet as christian

thoughtfullistener's photo
Tue 10/18/16 08:53 PM
I am willing to wait! the problem i had with my marriage(i am divorced now). is even after i waited and got married i still waited. I am all for waiting for marriage. I will not be deceived again. waiting for a woman that loves GOD

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Tue 10/18/16 10:33 PM
uniquely amazing men :thumbsup:

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Tue 11/22/16 08:08 AM
Difficult to find, but I'm sure there are some out there.

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Tue 11/22/16 08:16 AM

How many of you make a pact to wait till you say "I do"? I'm separated and about to jump into the dating world and this is what I desire for my new relationship(s). Are there men out there actually willing to wait?


I am one of the few who is willing to wait. That is the way that I was brought up and I feel very strongly about it.

Good Luck flowerforyou

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Tue 11/22/16 06:23 PM


How many of you make a pact to wait till you say "I do"? I'm separated and about to jump into the dating world and this is what I desire for my new relationship(s). Are there men out there actually willing to wait?


I am one of the few who is willing to wait. That is the way that I was brought up and I feel very strongly about it.

Good Luck flowerforyou

i congratulate your parents for a job well done:thumbsup: