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Topic: NO sex before "I do"
Maybee13 Joined Tue 01/10/17 Posts: 12	Thu 01/12/17 12:59 AM
I do agree! Remain celibate before the wed.

kaylaelle Joined Thu 01/12/17 Posts: 2	Thu 01/12/17 05:44 PM
Why is it such a rare thing to find a young Christian man who believes in this?

CowboyGH Joined Mon 10/05/09 Posts: 13651	Thu 01/12/17 06:07 PM
Why is it such a rare thing to find a young Christian man who believes in this? Unfortunately I can say the same thing bout the opposite gender :(. Would make it so much more lovely, and much more of "making love" rather then just another night of "sex". It's rare in general, because of the fallen world we live in. Everyone wants sex, only problem is they want it "now". And not willing to wait for the "appropriate" time :(

WVStrong Joined Sun 02/12/17 Posts: 2	Sun 02/12/17 05:46 PM Edited by WVStrong on Sun 02/12/17 05:47 PM


WVStrong Joined Sun 02/12/17 Posts: 2	Sun 02/12/17 05:48 PM
A lot of marriages have broken due to sexual incompatibility. I'm not an advocate of sex before marriage but you've got to enter into marriages with both eyes open. no mushy mushy stuff no more That's not true... when two people fall in love and full commitment, marriage vows spoken from lips and heart and to our Father... then there is no such thing as sexual incompatibility; because the genuine Groom to Bride love is there and nothing should put a damper on their holy union, in any way shape or form... unless one of both are not truly committed to Christ... but if they weren't committed the they wouldn't have taken such great care to wait until their honeymoon... that takes commitment and genuine love for our Lord and for the future spouse; which is awesome, beautiful.

Fruitpunch01 Joined Sat 01/28/17 Posts: 19	Sat 03/04/17 12:26 PM
Why is it such a rare thing to find a young Christian man who believes in this? It's not just the young I think it's a individuals who they are and what they stand for

logansrun228 Joined Sat 03/04/17 Posts: 6	Wed 03/08/17 11:37 AM
we're out there if the gal is truly worth it always thought about this

RyanH1984 Joined Sat 03/11/17 Posts: 1	Sat 03/11/17 02:01 PM
I'm 32 and a Christian. I never had sex (shocker) and if i waited this long, i can wait til the "i do". I never had any luck finding a Christian woman near me. I keep praying to God that he gives me the woman of my dreams..

Mountaineer21 Joined Mon 07/18/11 Posts: 5	Sat 03/18/17 08:23 AM
Really happy to see that a thread like this even exists!

BingFerraris Joined Wed 03/08/17 Posts: 3	Thu 03/23/17 12:19 AM
Hi everyone! in women side, we can wait but in men side I'm doubting them. and I'm waiting to see a man can hold his desire until the day. :)

Godsfriend10 Joined Sat 06/13/15 Posts: 679	Fri 03/24/17 01:12 PM
I'm 32 and a Christian. I never had sex (shocker) and if i waited this long, i can wait til the "i do". I never had any luck finding a Christian woman near me. I keep praying to God that he gives me the woman of my dreams.. That's great I believe that God is just preserving you for a great woman.

Godsfriend10 Joined Sat 06/13/15 Posts: 679	Fri 03/24/17 01:18 PM
Why is it such a rare thing to find a young Christian man who believes in this? Unfortunately I can say the same thing bout the opposite gender :(. Would make it so much more lovely, and much more of "making love" rather then just another night of "sex". It's rare in general, because of the fallen world we live in. Everyone wants sex, only problem is they want it "now". And not willing to wait for the "appropriate" time :( Yep...

johngaliano Joined Tue 01/17/17 Posts: 4	Sun 04/02/17 12:33 AM
im not perfect but i can make you happy

MarcsGsport Joined Sat 04/01/17 Posts: 3	Wed 04/05/17 03:46 PM
These people are hard to find. I'm glad there are people here who believe the same way I do. With the moral decline of the world in general I find dating very difficult because when I bring that subject up usually I met with indifference and the date goes downhill from there. So I'm wondering are there any women in Arizona that believe this way anymore?

tootall1234 Joined Tue 03/28/17 Posts: 1	Mon 04/10/17 12:35 PM
I'm experienced from a previous marriage but I have absolutely no problem waiting until I'm married with a future partner.

sharon1125 Joined Tue 04/11/17 Posts: 3	Tue 04/11/17 09:20 PM
there is. the man who send from above. just continue praying

Robin_Noble Joined Tue 04/04/17 Posts: 18	Wed 04/19/17 04:00 PM
I think Im the one that you are talking about until she (my ex) have gone to the other boy (not a guy)

miniechan Joined Mon 03/28/16 Posts: 2	Sun 04/23/17 08:00 PM
reading your comment reminds me of my boyfriend, he had sex before with his ex wife and ex girlfriends, but i always tell him no sex before married, and he said he can respect my decision and can wait

appleparfait Joined Fri 04/28/17 Posts: 21	Tue 05/02/17 07:11 PM
Waiting for marriage is a personal choice. I don't think sex is as important as it may seem. However, it is difficult to convince someone if they don't have that mindset.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Wed 05/03/17 07:48 AM
Good stance for abstinence . I was married before and we didnt have sex before we got married . It wasnt easy but it was well worth it. You realize after the fact that it wasnt so bad, abstaining. Dont give in, that is one area that you dont want guilt or regret in. If youre separated , that means STILL married. God would call it adultry . He will give you the strength to endure and overcome . Abide in Me, Jesus said, without me, you can do nothing. God might call it adultery to get remarried at all. Those are religious debates for other threads,,,