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Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Tue 08/23/16 07:33 AM
Do you think people are clickish on here? In life do we just click with some people and not others?

realcarebear Joined Sat 12/07/13 Posts: 6876	Tue 08/23/16 07:39 AM
Yep

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Tue 08/23/16 07:39 AM
Do you think people are clickish on here? In life do we just click with some people and not others? I am not sure about the proverbial cliques, I think it is more that we tend to gravitate to people we have things in common with. Whether age, belief's, how long we have been on the site, life experiences etc... On here I have a wide range of friends that I chat with privately, I have a wide range that I play on the game threads with and then others on other forums kind of like real life. Do I think that it can be yes... I tend to shy away from cliques and the clique mentality. I prefer to float

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Tue 08/23/16 07:43 AM
Do you think people are clickish on here? In life do we just click with some people and not others? I am not sure about the proverbial cliques, I think it is more that we tend to gravitate to people we have things in common with. Whether age, belief's, how long we have been on the site, life experiences etc... On here I have a wide range of friends that I chat with privately, I have a wide range that I play on the game threads with and then others on other forums kind of like real life. Do I think that it can be yes... I tend to shy away from cliques and the clique mentality. I prefer to float I agree with you. Especially the gravitate part. I think we pull towards people we have commonalities with. I don't like to exclude people at all. There maybe people I do not like by how they portray themselves, but I try to walk a fine line with it or ignore it.

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Tue 08/23/16 07:44 AM
Yep Do you ever feel excluded? If so, why?

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Tue 08/23/16 07:47 AM
^^^^^ See another reason why I like you.. We both have that in common.. There are some I dont' really care for their online persona and since I dont' have a clue what they are "really" like in real life I don't trash or think badly of them. I tend to shy away. Also if there is someone out here that is driving me bat shyt crazy I have to take a look at me and wonder who pist in my cheerios that morning. To have a complete stranger affect me so much.

topherj37 Joined Fri 07/15/11 Posts: 38773	Tue 08/23/16 07:48 AM
Do you think people are clickish on here? In life do we just click with some people and not others? I say yes to both your questions. I'm always interested in chatting with people, but it's rare that people respond when I reach out. There are a few I've been able to connect with. I think we all have those that we gravitate towards.

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Tue 08/23/16 07:50 AM
Do you think people are clickish on here? In life do we just click with some people and not others? I say yes to both your questions. I'm always interested in chatting with people, but it's rare that people respond when I reach out. There are a few I've been able to connect with. I think we all have those that we gravitate towards. Thank you for your input topher.

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Tue 08/23/16 07:50 AM
yep think it was worse when I joined

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Tue 08/23/16 07:51 AM
^^^^^ See another reason why I like you.. We both have that in common.. There are some I dont' really care for their online persona and since I dont' have a clue what they are "really" like in real life I don't trash or think badly of them. I tend to shy away. Also if there is someone out here that is driving me bat shyt crazy I have to take a look at me and wonder who pist in my cheerios that morning. To have a complete stranger affect me so much. I like you to rains wanna go on a date? Just kidding lol. But yeah some days I am not in the best of moods and take things based on how I feel sometimes. Its always great to take a look at one self too.

realcarebear Joined Sat 12/07/13 Posts: 6876	Tue 08/23/16 07:52 AM Edited by realcarebear on Tue 08/23/16 07:53 AM
Yep Do you ever feel excluded? If so, why? I've never felt like I've been purposely excluded. I'm good with myself I just let things happen. If I click with someone cool if not its cool. I don't like everyone. I don't expect everyone to like me.

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Tue 08/23/16 07:53 AM
yep think it was worse when I joined Hi Tmommy I love you. I remember back in the just say hi forum. Yeah it took them a bit to warm up to new people back then. I think it was more to get a feel for the newcomers as we do have to be careful when online.

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Tue 08/23/16 07:54 AM
Yep Do you ever feel excluded? If so, why? I've never felt like I've been purposely excluded. I'm good with myself I just let things happen. If I click with someone cool if not its cool. I don't like everyone. I don't expect everyone to like me. Great view RCB

topherj37 Joined Fri 07/15/11 Posts: 38773	Tue 08/23/16 07:55 AM
Do you think people are clickish on here? In life do we just click with some people and not others? I say yes to both your questions. I'm always interested in chatting with people, but it's rare that people respond when I reach out. There are a few I've been able to connect with. I think we all have those that we gravitate towards. Thank you for your input topher. You're welcome, Sea. I learned a long time ago that I'm not one of the "cool" kids, and I have no desire to be.

lu_rosemary Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 9123	Tue 08/23/16 08:01 AM
yep think it was worse when I joined You are loved by me, Trish!

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Tue 08/23/16 08:08 AM
yep think it was worse when I joined You are loved by me, Trish! You are so sweet Lu, how could anyone not love you.

lu_rosemary Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 9123	Tue 08/23/16 08:11 AM
yep think it was worse when I joined You are loved by me, Trish! You are so sweet Lu, how could anyone not love you. And you are very kind and sweet to everyone! God Bless you always.

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Tue 08/23/16 08:12 AM
yep think it was worse when I joined You are loved by me, Trish! hahaha..thanks my friend, just being honest

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48912	Tue 08/23/16 10:58 AM
Do you think people are clickish on here? In life do we just click with some people and not others? I keep clicking the buttons on my computer mouse. Does that count?

ciretom Joined Wed 06/18/14 Posts: 4953	Tue 08/23/16 11:06 AM
Do you think people are clickish on here? People are cliquish everywhere. People inherently seek out to join or form groups, try to grow and expand groups, vie for dominance or secure position in the group, use their groups to fulfill selfish purpose. That's just human nature. In life do we just click with some people and not others? "Click" shortcuts a huge ongoing process. Might as well ask "In life do some people just have kids and others don't?"