Just spend more time with your little girl and taking care of her. You will quite naturally have some feelings for her mother. Don't spend your time with woman drama. you will continue this process with the next woman if your EX have not been resolved. TAKE TIME OUT FOR YOU!

Good advice Benita

You know you did the right thing. Stop feeling bad about it because if you do she still has you right were she wants you.

Hey Dirtdog...I think you did the right thing especially if you are somewhat involved or interested in someone else.. not to many guys would have done that.

She is the mom or your deseased child?..so sorry for that...maybe she needs help dealing with her loss and you are the only connection to her child? Physcholocal help..... maybe you can help her if you care to??

psychological...sorry..did I get it right this time?

hey there is a part missing here.

it takes time to boot up a laptop, get on line, and do some chatting, especially contact with who? your girlfriend? so how did she get her email address? a random choice in your contacts? you were where when this was going on? and how does she know your password to get on dude? and next question.
how does she type in skimpy clothes and heels.

these are questions inquiring computer nerds want to know.

Hey not all computer people are nerds I'm a computer science major and very smart and FAR FAR FAR from a nerd thankyou very much dang nerds always get all the computer glory you play with computers automatically a nerd Anyway you done good, that was the only thing you could do. Good job man and don't worry there is a girl out there for you ya just need to find her.

Ok duffy, to answer your question computer nerd, my computer was already on and laying on my bed. I was signed into my yahoo IM and she IM'ed the girl that was online with her pic next to her name. And, typing in skimpy clothes and heels? What kind of dumb question is that? I type naked often, you only need fingers for that. The other person involved in this scenario is also a mamber of JSH.

I think you are a very insensative priss. What makes you so inquiring to have dumb questions like that? Inquiring minds want to know!

Been there with an ex...and kicking her mixed up tail out was the best course of action. You open that door again or even a window and you are back in the same boat as before you broke it off with her. Painful, but necessary.

u did the right thing hun. sounds like quite the pre****ament, lol

Dogg,

Sucks when you move on, or think and feel that you have moved on, you see your Ex and you get those old feelings again. I know man. For me, it was hard when I was seperated from my Ex. We would go out on dates, trying to fix our marriage, and then at the end of the night taking her home was hard. I still loved her then. Ya know, in the way that you want to make it work. And even though I was tempted to want to make love to her, I just couldn't. See, in my mind, and also hers, we both knew that it wasn't going to work out. I dated that woman for six years, was married to her for nine, and it sucked like hell to finally admit that it was over and done with. Both of us had moved on.

I know your situation is different, but my point is this. If you had had sex with her, then you would have felt guilty about it. Moving on sucks. I know man. I had to do it while I watched my ex fall for another guy. But, as hard as it was, I maintained my composure and moved along. Not to pat you on the back or anything, but what you did was tough. Naked, hot looking woman in your bed wanting you. That is tough to turn down man. Bravo to you cause you did. She might have hated you for it, and yeah, you missed out on what would've been some good sex. But you stuck to your guns man. You did the honorable and right thing.