Topic: Let me know what you think, be honest.
Tamunerd's photo
Mon 11/07/16 08:01 PM
I have thick skin and don't mind constructive criticism. I know I'm not perfect but would like to know what I can improve on in the short term.

Tamunerd's photo
Mon 11/07/16 09:47 PM
Thanks, we are almost through it. It took me a while to get over it and I'm looking to just meet people.

Bishal75's photo
Tue 11/08/16 02:18 AM
Hi,
Nice to see you, you are 100% wright.

mzrosie's photo
Tue 11/08/16 03:12 AM

I have thick skin and don't mind constructive criticism. I know I'm not perfect but would like to know what I can improve on in the short term.


ok, here goes...

Photos - you got two photos.. that's good as having more than one photos is
one way of proving that you are the one in the photo. Upload more photos if
you can.

Interests - delete all except reading and surfing the net. You must have
other interests like watching movies and tv, barbecuing (all guys love to
bbq), watching or playing sports etc.

About You - Everything is wrong.. very negative. We ask you to write something
about yourself and you say "Screw that!" Delete that.
Don't call your kids "little demons" as this might get misunderstood.
Don't focus on your problems like kids and bills and over-eating.

If you are too busy raising your kids and paying bills, then you don't
have time to date.

I noticed that Blondie mentioned you were separated and now it says you are
divorced... if that is true, congratulations. If not, don't start with a lie.

I hope this helps.

Welcome to Mingle2 :-)

Tamunerd's photo
Tue 11/08/16 06:33 AM
Thanks for the great constructive criticism. I am not good at holding back my inner sarcasm and in text that may be bad. As to the switch between separation to divorce. I opened this account a week ago. Under the full impression that it would not move quickly. As of tomorrow, I will be divorced.

no photo
Tue 11/08/16 08:13 AM

I have thick skin




Really? You must be a crocodile then laugh laugh laugh rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl pitchfork

no photo
Tue 11/08/16 08:43 AM


I have thick skin and don't mind constructive criticism. I know I'm not perfect but would like to know what I can improve on in the short term.


ok, here goes...

Photos - you got two photos.. that's good as having more than one photos is
one way of proving that you are the one in the photo. Upload more photos if
you can.

Interests - delete all except reading and surfing the net. You must have
other interests like watching movies and tv, barbecuing (all guys love to
bbq), watching or playing sports etc.

About You - Everything is wrong.. very negative. We ask you to write something
about yourself and you say "Screw that!" Delete that.
Don't call your kids "little demons" as this might get misunderstood.
Don't focus on your problems like kids and bills and over-eating.

If you are too busy raising your kids and paying bills, then you don't
have time to date.

I noticed that Blondie mentioned you were separated and now it says you are
divorced... if that is true, congratulations. If not, don't start with a lie.


I hope this helps.

Welcome to Mingle2 :-)


Ouch! I wasn't aware of this status change on his profile prior to commenting his intro.
Either that was a quickest divorce I have seen so far, or my comment on the topic he posted after a consulting on this one was made too soon.

Tamunerd's photo
Tue 11/08/16 01:03 PM
I have been In divorce proceedings since June. My wife had an affair on me for 3 months. After I found out she moved out. My children live with me 4/3/3/4 split. They still have a mother but I am primary custodian.
Yes, the final divorce proceedings were this morning! So I am officially divorced. I signed up for Mingle2 last week because my friends want me to. When I signed up I was separated but she reminded me of my status once I posted it. I updated and changed it then.
Now I would appreciate it if you did not arbitrarily make comments about the end of my marriage. While we did and do maintain a good co-parenting relationship. I have been through the worst 5 months of my life and I have just started to come back from the brink. My friends are all married and suggested I make some single friends.

Drops the mic...

no photo
Tue 11/08/16 01:54 PM

I have been In divorce proceedings since June. My wife had an affair on me for 3 months. After I found out she moved out. My children live with me 4/3/3/4 split. They still have a mother but I am primary custodian.
Yes, the final divorce proceedings were this morning! So I am officially divorced. I signed up for Mingle2 last week because my friends want me to. When I signed up I was separated but she reminded me of my status once I posted it. I updated and changed it then.
Now I would appreciate it if you did not arbitrarily make comments about the end of my marriage. While we did and do maintain a good co-parenting relationship. I have been through the worst 5 months of my life and I have just started to come back from the brink. My friends are all married and suggested I make some single friends.

Drops the mic...

congratulations...its going to be the start of happier possibilities :thumbsup:

no photo
Tue 11/08/16 02:11 PM
5 months isn't really that long. It might be good to have some alone time, and maybe do your own thing for a while.

Tamunerd's photo
Tue 11/08/16 02:32 PM
Thus, making friends!

no1phD's photo
Tue 11/08/16 03:33 PM
Well honestly right now I'm thinking..
Hmm.. does the United States have a new president yet...and now I'm thinking what am I going to make for dinner.. so hard to come up with dinner ideas day after day..
And now I'm honestly thinking... sure would love a cup of coffee..lol

Tamunerd's photo
Wed 11/09/16 08:49 PM
I know it issss hard to come up with new dinner ideas! I like to stick to what I'm good at, BBQ. Meat is tasty and side are easy. You could cook rice or even have a salad! I hope this helped with your problems when it comes to dinner plans. If not, I am sorry I disappointed you.

Tamunerd's photo
Wed 11/09/16 08:49 PM
Yeah it's super thick right around the tip...

Nanetlopez's photo
Fri 11/11/16 12:15 PM
laugh laugh oh, super secured. Congrats for another new beginning.