honestly now..could it really be possible for you guys to be friends only with women you are attracted to?

honestly now..could it really be possible for you guys to be friends only with women you are attracted to?

.could it really be possible for you guys to be friends only with women you are attracted to?

you guys are saying a girl who knows youre attracted to her would just accept that your advances are friendly?

could it really be possible for you guys to be friends only with women you are attracted to?

It would be possible but annoying.

You like purses?
On a bright sunny perfect day go to a Louis Vuitton store with $100,000 in your pocket, find the most attractive handbag you've ever seen.
Then have the store owner say "You can't come into the store without offending me. And you can't buy it. You can only look at it through the window...and you have to occasionally clean the window. When things are good, I'll bring it closer to the window. When things are bad, or just because I feel like it, I'll hide it from view. And you have to come every day and put in the same effort. No going to enjoy the bright sunny day. Otherwise I'll know you aren't serious. You will never have that purse, but you can look at it from a distance."

Could it really be possible for you to be a viewer only with something you want and are capable of having except for a seemingly arbitrary decision made by someone else, with their own relationship rules, boundaries, and definitions they impose on you?

That's part of why men and women can't really be friends.

Most everything in life anymore (at least in the U.S.) is set up so you don't have to deny yourself and you can't be denied anything.

The other part is natural biology and human nature.


If the culture was still structured around celebrating boundaries and social facades, denying nature and keeping things to yourself, then men would find a reward in living up to a more "ideal" self.

As it is what's celebrated, therefore incentivized, more often is "being real," and, "being yourself," and, "being honest," and, "don't keep it bottled up," along with the aforementioned "you want it? Go get it. Can't afford it? Use credit. They won't sell or give it to you? Sue them for discrimination, they're the ones doing something wrong. You don't have to accept less than what you want, they have no right to label or judge you."


That's the other side of the coin.
Women shouldn't really trust friendly behavior.
When a human being is being motivated by sex hormones it changes their behavior towards the more gregarious and pleasing. i.e. friendly.

Only oblivious, stupid, self centered, and/or relationship lazy women can ever be assured a guy is being friendly for platonic reasons.
If a guy is friendly towards a woman (no matter the guy. Father, brother, neighbor, boss, employee, cousin, retarded dude on the corner), there is no guarantee it isn't motivated by sexual desire, which will naturally motivate attempts at progress, advances. Some small, some great.

You may get a general idea if you form a very close relationship with the person, enough to get to "really" or "truly" know them.
Of course that will naturally influence and be a part of any other relationship so that other relationships are completely affected by anything in your "friend" relationship.
Not to mention you are ultimately building a romantic relationship, you're just backing into it and making things 10x more difficult as you rationalize it.

And most only pay lip service to that idea, of wanting to and willing to put in the effort, at getting close enough to "really" know what is truly motivating another person at any given time.
Lots of people want shortcuts so they can take complex relationships as easy and for granted.


Other than that:

Could it really be possible for you women to be booty calls only with men you aren't attracted to?
Pretty much the same question.

honestly now..could it really be possible for you guys to be friends only with women you are attracted to?

honestly now..could it really be possible for you guys to be friends only with women you are attracted to?

I would try seduction...if that fails, I would enjoy the friendship.

you guys are saying a girl who knows youre attracted to her would just accept that your advances are friendly? or you just wont let her know of the attraction???