so i dont get it....why come to this site and then leave your profile blank? if your here dont you want people to see you and be interested? yeah a pic is important but so is a little background info too....just wondering if this is a concern for anyone else?

yea nikki i dont get that either i mean it dosent have to be that detailed but it can at least say hey or something or what they are looking for

i'm with you on that!

some are afraid to say things lol
but i so agree hun
why be on a site if your gonna tell something about yourself lol

I agree completely. pics are nice but maybe everyone does not have one avail...but, fo heck sakes..at least a little bit about yourself. Maybe the blank ones are so evil that they don't want to post anything?

i see alot of profiles with "I'll fill it in later" and that makes me wonder what kind of a guy he would be like in a relationship even...if your on the market and cant even take the time to give a little blurb? blah...its discouraging

yeh blank profile to me are fake profiles

I've got my profile u filled it.

can i kiss you?!
lol

i agree with you nikki i have came across those this week..

Yep! Been there and argued this over 5 pages before. Not one real pic and a weak profile.

The other sides arguement is leave them be and move on. I was tryin to push for everyone having at least one real pic and some decent info about themselves. They thought the person was coming out of their shell slowly.... I figure if they walk outside everyday and see people then the least they can do is open up a little here. I'm not even lookin' for a date. Just want to know who people are while I jump around.

Plus, maybe they are scammers if they don't put decent info. ???

Regards,

John

I think people do it because they are not sure what they are doing on this site so they hope that people will engage them in conversation and take it from there..Who knows..lol

I kind of think that folks do that because they are not sure whether or not they will actually become engaged in the site. I also think some men do it because they are jumping on for a night or two to IM ladies and see what they can shake up....and some folks just don't take it seriously.
I generally won't respond to anyone who emails if they have NO information on the profile. It doesn't have to be their life story.....but tell me SOMETHING so I can have an idea....

I think it is kinda pointless. Anyways hows everyone?

can i kiss you?!
lol



yes u can

kiss me?

Spammers scare me. (I sleep with a pillow under my gun.)

nice steel lol they are pretty scary tho :-P

I just ignore people that don't have profiles or pic.

Yea I do the samething you have too cause u never know whats out there either that or they are just sex starved and looking for that well ya u know the rest