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Topic: Is it possible for a single man to fall inlove with a widowe
Ris23looking4love Joined Sat 02/11/17 Posts: 9	Wed 02/15/17 01:47 AM
Can a single man accept a woman with excess baggage?

Mike6615 Joined Sun 09/18/16 Posts: 1503	Wed 02/15/17 10:38 AM
Only if she pays the airline's excess baggage fee.

Robxbox73 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 5302	Wed 02/15/17 10:50 AM Edited by Robxbox73 on Wed 02/15/17 10:54 AM
I've dated enough widows to know they are very set in their ways. Unfortunately they are all looking for a copy of their lost love... Hope you will do well.

Tom4Uhere Joined Sat 12/17/16 Posts: 16240	Wed 02/15/17 11:12 AM
Can a single man accept a woman with excess baggage? YES Can is a question of ability. Would I want to be involved with a woman with excess baggage? NO I don't want stress or excessive drama in my life. I have no need of it nor do I want it. There are men that thrive on drama and stress. It is possible you may find who you seek but just understand that most men do not. Good Luck

shivraj795 Joined Wed 02/15/17 Posts: 1	Wed 02/15/17 11:18 AM
yes

luciferjack Joined Wed 02/15/17 Posts: 1	Wed 02/15/17 11:33 AM
What is your age

Tom4Uhere Joined Sat 12/17/16 Posts: 16240	Wed 02/15/17 11:40 AM
I've dated enough widows to know they are very set in their ways. Unfortunately they are all looking for a copy of their lost love... Hope you will do well. I have had similar experiences. In many ways being widowed and being divorced are similar. > A relationship has ended > There is an empty spot > Life changing event Those are pretty common. When seeking someone else it is important to understand a few things. > I may look like him but I am me and will only ever be me > I may not like the things that he liked > I may not react the way he did > Of those times there are similarities, the reasons for those similarities will be different than his We all found things we loved about the people that have left our lives. We search for people that demonstrate those same qualities. When we find that person, do we see that person as who they are or who you knew. Is it fair to your new love for you to only acknowledge the certain aspects that resemble your missing spouse? Is it fair to you? My advice is to find someone that is nothing like your dead husband. See them as they are and build a new relationship with that person. Not better, different. It is not a dishonor and your memories will still be cherished. The two of you can set aside a day or time to honor him if that is what you need. For the rest of the time, live in the moment with the one you choose.

shy3331 Joined Sun 01/11/15 Posts: 1	Wed 02/15/17 11:55 AM
Yes I would if she's willing to relocate

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Wed 02/15/17 11:58 AM
Can a single man accept a woman with excess baggage? I think it depends on the baggage weighing more heavy than being widowed Good luck and best wishes

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45324	Wed 02/15/17 12:26 PM
Can a single man accept a woman with excess baggage? Hmmm, you mean like a chimpanzee?

Robxbox73 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 5302	Wed 02/15/17 12:29 PM
Can a single man accept a woman with excess baggage? Hmmm, you mean like a chimpanzee? OK, but is that the face biting off variety or the non biting type... ouch my face!!!

Mike6615 Joined Sun 09/18/16 Posts: 1503	Wed 02/15/17 12:42 PM
Can a single man accept a woman with excess baggage? Hmmm, you mean like a chimpanzee? OK, but is that the face biting off variety or the non biting type... ouch my face!!! Correct on that...even "Tarzan" Ron Ely got bitten by a chimp.

SteveBaldwin Joined Wed 02/15/17 Posts: 2	Wed 02/15/17 02:45 PM
yes off-course

Integrityis1st Joined Sun 07/24/16 Posts: 9956	Wed 02/15/17 07:32 PM
Can a single man accept a woman with excess baggage? YES Can is a question of ability. Would I want to be involved with a woman with excess baggage? NO I don't want stress or excessive drama in my life. I have no need of it nor do I want it. There are men that thrive on drama and stress. It is possible you may find who you seek but just understand that most men do not. Good Luck Never worked out for me, so I have to agree.

Funzy65 Joined Wed 01/04/17 Posts: 807	Wed 02/15/17 08:19 PM Edited by Funzy65 on Wed 02/15/17 08:21 PM
Nay...Not in my books . NEW YOU or RETURN TO SENDER No luggages or excess baggage, just bring yourself only, fresh and reborn Important !..Have a return home ticket with ya, just in case you can't handle the heat & pressure. That's just in case we start the Martial arts training on the Drunken Monkey style or the Southern Monk's fist Shaolin style. SERIOUSLY NOW. Living in/with the past carries lots of weight and has lots of unwanted bagages. ONLY, WHEN & IF YOU ARE READY, Start fresh and new, and leave the past behind.

Ris23looking4love Joined Sat 02/11/17 Posts: 9	Wed 02/15/17 08:29 PM
it is not about the financial aspect tho.

Ris23looking4love Joined Sat 02/11/17 Posts: 9	Wed 02/15/17 08:31 PM
im sorry to hear that. so there's still chance that a guy would fall for a woman with kids already?

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48913	Wed 02/15/17 08:31 PM
Can a single man accept a woman with excess baggage? Only if there are wheels on that baggage.

Ris23looking4love Joined Sat 02/11/17 Posts: 9	Wed 02/15/17 08:32 PM


Ris23looking4love Joined Sat 02/11/17 Posts: 9	Wed 02/15/17 08:33 PM
if that's true. wow!, you're a good man. I salute you!