Topic: marriage
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Sun 03/05/17 05:22 PM
When a child never grew up with his mother does it affect the child later on when he is fully grown?

sybariticguy's photo
Sun 03/05/17 05:30 PM
Sorry too complex a question without much more information Seek a psychologist for a helpful answer. A little knowledge here can be very harmful so check your sources carefully...

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Sun 03/05/17 05:56 PM

When a child never grew up with his mother does it affect the child later on when he is fully grown?


Of course. A kid needs both a Mother and a Father to grow,,, not exactly news

Can it be done by one or the other.. yes.. is it the same.. no

navygirl's photo
Sun 03/05/17 10:59 PM
I grew up with both parents and yes it affected me to the point of never being able to be in a relationship very long. They were terrible parents and made marriage look like hell.

Twintidbits24's photo
Sat 03/25/17 12:22 PM
It does affect much but if the person who reared up that child did a good job of instilling just enough discipline, truthfuless and faith in God then he'll grow up a Good Man....

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Sat 03/25/17 12:32 PM
one can have both parents and still it can be dysfunctional.. Having one or the other or both parents, and how the child develops contains many factors..

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Sat 03/25/17 03:29 PM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Sat 03/25/17 03:56 PM
I believe having lost what I thought was my entire family for the Years across my childhood that it had a profound effect.
I never stopped looking and was repeatedly emotionally beaten uP by every life stage that was missed.
It did not help that I spent most of those years living under the threat that I was a whisper child that would most likely never pass in either culture and being denied any human value in the home. And all nurturing even though I had the physical trappings of basic necessities most of the time.
I learned to mimic social bonds of other families but not a lot of comfort or satisfaction in that when you know it is just a public face that had no real foundation behind closed doors.
Fortunately I was able to thrive in a public school and go on to develop an identity and pass for what was and still is by majority the ruling class. And I probably actually had closet friends because of it.
The most harmful or noticeable fact or impact is saying that is difficult to attain my full trust is the ultimate understatement. And I can spot that in others from a mile away. A plus becauseany who can't trustake others miserable for it by also being in Trudy worthy because they think it does not exist in han relation ships. Lucky for me I have come accross a few.

But it has driven to be fierce up loyal and family centered. If you are my family, friend, client I will do well above the standard to help you sustain and thrive; even at great personal cost. Not site how fair that is but I take pride in going the extra mile for the deserving and vunerable. Does make me pretty hard to take advantage of. I tend to chew up and spit out people who mistake my kindness for weakness.
Something that is also carried through in. My faith. And other values. I don't like bullies on any level.
While I was reunited later with my Mother ( and much later Father) to say that security (unquestioning sense of being someone's child) that existed before never completely returned. In my birth parent's (family) defense I think they tried it was just too many Years.
Do I think it harms children most decidedly I do. Because the absence of either parent, perfect PR not tons a child of a big chunk of their identity so they are always feeling like part of their foundation is damaged no matter how they shore it up.
It is very difficult not to get comfortable once you. Make whatever peace there is on living without a parent. You don't have much patience for wanna be. Mother's that just play at it.

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Wed 03/29/17 05:31 AM
very good reflection

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Wed 03/29/17 05:35 AM
the child can be seriouly affect

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Wed 03/29/17 07:34 AM

When a child never grew up with his mother does it affect the child later on when he is fully grown?


ones family ALWAYS affects them, whatever the makeup

I do believe there is a special impact that a mother and father can have though,, the mother has that life develop in her body for 9 months, it is grown attached to her very heartbeat and certainly to her,,,,to have that type of bond suddenly removed, to have it absent

certainly


has an impact,, just like losing any other family member, if not more

do you think that having ones sibling suddenly disappear out of their life would not affect them, even if the remaining family were wonderful and did everything right? of course it would.

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Wed 03/29/17 08:50 AM
It is known that the environment a child grows up in contributes a great deal to what they turn into, there's this love that most mother's have, missing it as a child is a great deal. though most parents might be worse off than their absence. So I wouldn't say anyone has a definitive opinion.

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Wed 03/29/17 10:20 AM
Edited by Unknow on Wed 03/29/17 10:20 AM
I charge 150 dollars an hour for clinical therapy. Maybe you should talk to Lucy.



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Wed 04/05/17 09:20 PM
Edited by IgorFrankensteen on Wed 04/05/17 09:22 PM
EVERYTHING you go through in your life affects you when you are fully grown. That's how life works.

One thing to consider though, is that no one ACTUALLY knows how anything WOULD have been, had their lives gone differently. We can only guess.

And a lot of the "studies" into how this or that factor affects people, have been confused by the additional elements of the lives of the people in the study. It's very hard to study all people who were raised by only one parent, and JUST isolate the effect of that one thing. After all, how and why they lost that parent, and how much they understood about it all early in their lives, can make a TREMENDOUS difference.