Venus is Retrograde which doesn't help to start something new, or it can stir up doubt and fears from the past when you are already involved.
Parts from an article on what can be happening and felt.



When Venus goes retrograde it is a time to heal the wounds of your heart, to let go of past lovers and relationships, to let go of past hurts and blockages, and to open yourself to a deeper love.

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As Venus goes retrograde, old messages of the past will also need to be cleared and swept away. Any nagging intuitive feelings or nagging feelings in general will be swept up and away, particularly if they are to do with love and relationships.

If you have been feeling confused about a relationship or if you have been feeling withdrawn from love, this Venus retrograde is going to bring you clarity. Before this clarity can enter into your life however, there first has to be a healing.

Venus retrograde at first, can cause us to close off our hearts and perhaps feel withdrawn. Venus retrograde is a time of going within and sitting with the baggage inside our heart chakra.

It is only when you can do this, it is only when you can sit with the murmurings of your heart that you will be able to release yourself from the pains of the past.

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Through the retrograde period, you may feel your heart challenged to rise up, release the fear and love even more. You may feel challenged by the Universe to truly delve into the healing vibrations of self-love.


Source and full article: http://foreverconscious.com/intuitive-astrology-venus-retrograde-march-april-2017

This lasts till APril 15th, then slowly wears off over the next months.
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Thanks for posting Crystal.
Good info to know.

You're welcome. And yes, can be real good to know when you suddenly seem to not feel anything much and cannot work out the reason.

Things from the past shouldn't get starred up if you have self love..u know learning who you are and what you are about. And this doesn't happen without integrity and will power and forgiving everything..some wounds/baggage/grudges go deeper and take longer so every time they surface it's time to forgive/let it go..you have to mean it
You will know when it files away somewhere upstairs in life's experience. I separated from people for quite some time and keep to good friends. Why because that's what they are to me.

This is good stuff if someone needs and wants to work on their well being. (It all starts with you.)
But what do I know? I don't have a degree in psychology. And sometimes I think I should keep my mouth shut..to many sensitives out there in the world.

This doesn't happen overnight! Many years of rewiring..done.

How many have forgiven their parents?

Thanks Crystal, this explains a lot concerning the energy I've been feeling at work, and other things as well. I read the article, very cool! I've gotten away from this stuff over the last couple years, time to reconnect.

Thanks again

When a little younger a therapist...I was seeing ...
said I should talk to my father ...
just to let him know how I felt as a child...
growing up with him ...with out a mother ...
times where not always good ...
but when I did talk to him about it ...
he had know idea or clue how I felt...
so to this day I can not remember what he said ...
but later he some how he turned it around ...
and said I abused him ... my dad was great ...
his humor could be really funny ...
and what I got out of the whole thing was ...
he loved me and did the best he could...
being a man raising a young girl...

now my mom ... well I believe was a alcoholic...
and never saw her happy ... before she left us ...
I think she loved us in her own way ...
and the only way she could ...
having a addiction ...
we experience her anger...
a lot before she did leave ...
I forgave her becouse she did not know what ...
effect she had on us ... with her addiction ...
only was not good ...

SO I was raised the best way a man...
could raise a child ... and I am very thankful ...
becouse it all could have been worse ...

You're very welcome! Always good to be connected :) Adds to life!

I myself hit a real rough spot last Wednesday.
Culmination of several things that all seemed to peak that day. I was off-kilter because of that, then old fears regarding relationship got triggered too, and then I got totally out of whack.
Thank goodness I talked with him last night, which made me feel so much better! I'm so glad he is willing to be there for me, to listen, and also wanting to know if something is wrong or when I'm sad. He prefers that to me keeping it from him and feeling off about something.
Of course no problem at all, just these stupid old fears that got triggered in me. It was real bad this time, hit me pretty good.

sounds to me like you found someone to walk beside you ...
that is awesome... and very hard to find ...

Thank you, and yes, I'm very happy :) And I wasn't even actively looking back then, neither was he. I guess when the time is right and you are ready, you simply find one another :)

Thanks for this post Crystalfairy

You're welcome!

Guess this doesn't just pertain to relationships!

Good grief...

Crystal, how many times do I (respectfully) have to tell you this astrology stuff is utter tosh.

Nice photo by the way.

like your new picture ...Crystal ...

if I had my way my daughter...
would have been named Crystal ...

Haha, I believe Venus retrograde would be astronomy not astrology?
In any case, it's not utter tosh. How could it be if it's spot on?

And thanks! It was time for a new piccie :)
Oh, and nice to see you back! Where have you been hiding?!