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Topic: Nigerians and Dating Site: Your View..
Aderolland's photo
Mon 06/05/17 04:25 PM



Hi, and welcome.
This is not a reflection on you as you come across as a good guy but people are perhaps more cautious of people from your country and other similar ones due to the amount of scammers that are found from there.
It's wide spread across the Internet.
It is a way of life now and it is a shame for the good guys.


hummmm....may God help us oooo. i know a day will come i will change the mindset of the world about Nigeria so am open to ideas from everyone now.



Hi Aderolland, I'm not sure what you can do as far as changing the mindset of the world concerning your country. But my suggestion to you is to stick to the forums and participate in the various discussions.

It's unfortunate that one person suffers suspicion due to others behavior, but that is the reality of it in this particular situation. By staying in the forums, you will have the opportunity to show others that not all are like that. You can be the example you wish others to see concerning your country.

Good luck and best wishes to you.


thanks i will do just that...may God help me

alicia384's photo
Mon 06/05/17 05:14 PM
Good luck but when o hear Nigerian I think dishonesty

Mike6615's photo
Mon 06/05/17 06:28 PM
Maybe you could be elected, pass some great laws, and help make Nigeria a place companies would go to and give out lots of well-paying jobs. Good Luck!

motowndowntown's photo
Mon 06/05/17 10:06 PM


Many people hope to improve their lives by latching
onto a foreigner from another country.

Those foreigners, however, do not wish to be the
ladder by which others vault to the top.


your opinion is true to some extend but yet we have some people like me who dont care about your status but just wanted to get married to foreigners because its what they dream of and even they are ready to bring the foreigner home if she so wish to because we believe in our country and we are doing fine.


Why, why this "dream" of marrying foreigners? Are there no women at all in Nigeria? The African continent is beautiful, full of natural resources, and full of many beautiful women.

Aderolland's photo
Tue 06/06/17 01:01 AM



Many people hope to improve their lives by latching
onto a foreigner from another country.

Those foreigners, however, do not wish to be the
ladder by which others vault to the top.


your opinion is true to some extend but yet we have some people like me who dont care about your status but just wanted to get married to foreigners because its what they dream of and even they are ready to bring the foreigner home if she so wish to because we believe in our country and we are doing fine.


Why, why this "dream" of marrying foreigners? Are there no women at all in Nigeria? The African continent is beautiful, full of natural resources, and full of many beautiful women.


just like the food we eat,the food i like may not be your favorite. many years ago when things still good down here even the people from other countries so cherish to marry from any country of their choice and it was so untill corruption set in. so what i think we should all together do now is how we can help the world turn to a better place gain. A place where we leave together in one spirit, speak in one voice which is love, transact business with high level of trust, give our daughters and sons out for marriage in respective of the country/tribe/religion without fear. with this we will give honor to Mother earth for giving us the opportunity to leave in her.

Duttoneer's photo
Tue 06/06/17 02:45 AM

Am a Nigerian and am proud to be but for many years now i discover that lots of people on dating site don't like to chat or make friend with Nigerian and thats making so many people dream to come to past. Many Nigerians are real and have a dream of marrying someone from other countries part from theirs but this habit of neglect is becoming a dream spoiler. :angry: :angry: :angry: .....come on so many Nigerians are real, pure and faithful....


To regain some credibility you could make a start by lobbying members of your own government. In view of the amount of money that flows into Nigeria as a result of all the romance scams, your government appears to do very little regarding stopping the scammers that make a very good living out of it. I suggest you put the blame regarding your countries romantic scammer reputation where it belongs, with your own Nigerian authorities.

peggy122's photo
Wed 06/07/17 04:41 AM
Edited by peggy122 on Wed 06/07/17 05:30 AM


In the same way you are rejecting thousands of women on the basis of their national identity , isnt it understandable that thousands of women from all over the world might choose to reject you because of YOUR national identity?

Its painful to be rejected but we have all rejected people in our life time and there are people who will reject us as well , just like you have rejected an entire continent of women.

The dating world is based on preference . .. yours ... and everyone elses


TMommy's photo
Wed 06/07/17 05:01 AM
gosh golly I have no idea why people may find this suspect

Aderolland's photo
Wed 06/07/17 07:16 AM



In the same way you are rejecting thousands of women on the basis of their national identity , isnt it understandable that thousands of women from all over the world might choose to reject you because of YOUR national identity?

Its painful to be rejected but we have all rejected people in our life time and there are people who will reject us as well , just like you have rejected an entire continent of women.

The dating world is based on preference . .. yours ... and everyone elses




hummmmmm

motowndowntown's photo
Wed 06/07/17 10:23 AM

gosh golly I have no idea why people may find this suspect


Me either. What rational foreign woman wouldn't want to move to Nigeria?

Aderolland's photo
Wed 06/07/17 12:41 PM

gosh golly I have no idea why people may find this suspect


i understand your view but its hard to believe water exist in a solid rock but the fact is that in the darken part of Nigeria there still starts and moon.

Aderolland's photo
Wed 06/07/17 12:45 PM


gosh golly I have no idea why people may find this suspect


Me either. What rational foreign woman wouldn't want to move to Nigeria?


come on my good friend Nigeria is a lovely place to be. with good culture, tourist attraction centers, peaceful and accommodating people. we love and accommodate strangers, we even encourage them to be part of us.....

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