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Topic: Who couldn't use a home delivered free Lance stripper
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Sun 06/25/17 10:56 AM




It always strikes me as odd that we Dutchies have always been frowned upon for having legalized prostitutes... The hookers in the windows in Amsterdam and so on, whereas you Americans have strip clubs at every corner of the street, strip-o-grams, topless-waitress restaurants, a booming porn industry, and one of the highest porn-watch-rates across the world.
Then we Dutchies get this reputation concerning sex noway Doesn't make sense to me...

I'd find the normalcy with which you regard all that far more of a threat to a relationship than legalized prostitutes that no man in a good relationship would go to.


That doesn't make sense to me either Crystal.

I didn't know Dutchies had legalized prostitution. It makes me wonder if they were to legalize it here if it would cut down on the porn industry? Or change how some of these men view women, I imagine it would be with a little more respect, rather than something to gawk at. Interesting!

Yes, been like that for quite some time over here, not exactly sure how long, but over a decade, prolly closer to 2 decades.
Prostitutes pay taxes like everybody else. I'm not sure if they have to pay VAT (sales tax) as they are regarded as 'own company' or not. I do remember there was talk of that when they first changed this, but cannot remember for sure.

As for our men... I have noticed Dutch men are quite different from most others.
Apparently Dutch men are called "Metero men" or "feminine men" by foreigners. I think that's a load of crap, many Dutch men are far more balanced in their masculinity, closer to being empowered. But what that means is generally not understood so it's labeled "feminine men".
Most still believe that being masculine is this macho cowboy type of guy. But such men tend to harbour a lot of imbalanced masculine and feminine energy inside, so they're not all that empowered.
For some reason or other we seem to be more ahead in the balancing act of feminine and masculine compared to most other people.

Whether legalized prostitution contributed to that, no idea. I think we are just different in general. We are generally speaking quite open about sex / sexuality. Most, not everyone, we too have a small bible belt, but they're usually the worst, just behind closed doors, lol.
But in spite of our openness, I've never heard of anyone going to a strip-club let alone going there often, or with the same idea you go out to a pub. Never heard of topless-waitress restaurants either. There's bound to be nightclubs with that 'feature' but going to a nightclub is not common practice here either.
Different people, different culture.

Oh, what was really interesting... I was reading this blog of a prostitute a while back in which she tells about her work. The things she comes across, customers she refuses and why etc. etc. Really interesting to read!
Many have a normal relationship, rent a room with a window to work from, and go home when work is done. So many of these women work solo, the girls keep an eye out for each other. Not the kind of crap you see in TV series where pimps beats the crap out of them when they don't get a new client soon enough.
Of course there is always a deeper darker scene that isn't so pretty where women are forced to sell themselves or else...
But legalizing it prolly helped a lot to stop that from happening. If it's legal, they can also take legal actions after all.
But it was very interesting to read.



It is very interesting. A little off topic, but I remember studying sociology and in Societies that are open about sex, nudity, and subjects that are usually "taboo" subjects in other cultures, there are a lot less sex crimes occurring.

I agree with the hypocrisy, there are those who ridicule prostitutes, making it dirty and nasty, and the same ones doing the ridiculing will visit strip clubs and pay for lap dances and to watch a woman dance half naked or totally naked. But some how that's okay because they are "just watching"....it's a bunch of crap!

There are many reasons why women get into this line of work, I don't feel the need or reason to judge them. And I have compassion for the ones who are forced into it. Some believe it's as simple as leaving the situation, but it's not always as simple as that. When I worked in a shelter for runaways, we had a 13 year old girl who was pimped out by Foster Parents. She was one angry messed up girl. Very sad!

I agree Pisces, also a little off topic, when a girl dies on the street of a drugs overdose she is nothing and slated, Witney Houston dies of the same and everyone is saying aww poor girl! whoa

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Sun 06/25/17 11:23 AM

I agree Pisces, also a little off topic, when a girl dies on the street of a drugs overdose she is nothing and slated, Witney Houston dies of the same and everyone is saying aww poor girl! whoa


Yes, that is sad as well.

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Sun 06/25/17 11:35 AM
Anyway, do amazon do free lance strippers? laugh

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Sun 06/25/17 11:57 AM

Anyway, do amazon do free lance strippers? laugh


Not sure, you'll have to google it laugh

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whoa laugh

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Sun 06/25/17 01:45 PM

Anyway, do amazon do free lance strippers? laugh

Would be handy for you: free delivery within the UK!
That's what it always says, haha.
I never get free delivery, nor can I order on Amazon anymore since they don't accept PayPal, w@nkers! blushing

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Sun 06/25/17 10:11 PM


Anyway, do amazon do free lance strippers? laugh

Would be handy for you: free delivery within the UK!
That's what it always says, haha.
I never get free delivery, nor can I order on Amazon anymore since they don't accept PayPal, w@nkers! blushing

surprised the only thing I have is a fire stick tv thingy .
is your book going on amazon?

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Mon 06/26/17 03:02 AM



Anyway, do amazon do free lance strippers? laugh

Would be handy for you: free delivery within the UK!
That's what it always says, haha.
I never get free delivery, nor can I order on Amazon anymore since they don't accept PayPal, w@nkers! blushing

surprised the only thing I have is a fire stick tv thingy .
is your book going on amazon?

My book already is on Amazon :smile:

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Tue 06/27/17 04:06 AM
Edited by howed on Tue 06/27/17 04:07 AM

Beer time! drinker drinker


can i join you. I feel like one as welldrinks drinks

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Tue 06/27/17 04:10 AM






this sure makes a fellow disey. i hit the floor twice now!bigsmile blushing

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