HELLO JSH FAMILY.I haven't bee here very long but I know you all can help me.I've e-mailed this guy for a couple of days now.Today,he turned on me,he was mean/rude.He says that my profile was wrong,[need to read my profile]he says that it should read nonunderstanding,hateful,mean spirited person.because I didn't put in there,that I had a temper[but is has mellow out with age],but sometimes I might raise my voice.He just got mean.I've never had anyone say such mean things to me.I told him,where he could go. MY QUESTION IS,WHAT SHOULD YOU PUT AND NOT PUT IN YOUR PROFILE?YOU DON'T WANT TO TELL YOUR LIFE STORY.SORRY SO LONG.WILL BE LOOKING FOR YOUR REMARKS........

Nothing wrong with your profile. To the thread deleters leave this thread alone.

First I'd like to say that most people aren't super mellow. That's a given in life and he shouldn't have assumed that all women are. Second, if he's that critical...and bitter, he may be someone who shouldn't be dating or looking right now anyway. Don't take others words to heart. That's a lesson I've had to learn myself. Good people will choose to learn what a person is really like through friendship first.

nothing wrong with your profile and well to be honest if he turned out that mean after only two days well the problem could lay in him not you.

Myself I would not worry about it and blow that jerk off and be glad he is gone already..

I don't believe that he was actually asking you to change your profile per say (there is nothing wrong with it) but it was his way of insulting you...telling you to warn people about your personality.

I don't know you, and I wouldn't judge you anyway, just be yourself..the same as anywhere else, and expect that some people won't like ya. The ones who can accept you as you are, they are the people worth stressing over.

I'm hoping he actually emailed the wrong person. Who knows. Dr. Jekle/Mr. Hyde syndrome maybe? Hmmmmm.

People show themselves always, and to accuse another, is to be holding a mirror to himself..


He showed who he is....learn from it, and move on, be you, your authentic self, and the rest shall pass.

Hello Beauty!!!!

"When people show you who they are believe them the first time" - Maya Angelou

Red flags all over the field. Don't give this guy anymore thought. He has a problem, not you. Glad you told him where to go!

Who's brain was that????

Your profile is fine. You were honest about how you look and feel about things important to you. We all have our bad days and no one is perfect. If he wants perfect tell him to get a BARBIE DOLL because she can't and won't talk back. If he wants a subservient person he needs to look elsewhere. Most of all don't let him get to you. Ran into someone like that here as well to. You can and will find dates and friends here.

write whats important to you in your profile...dont worry about others

Hello darling. Beautiful as ever.

Your profile is just fine, sweetie! Be grateful you didn't waste more than a couple of emails on him. If I were you, I'd block him as well....

your profile is just a snipet of who you are and if it captures someone attention then its all good

bad email experience from one person should not make you rush to change it

good luck

your profile is fine.the guy must be a jerk. move on (not from this site though)

MANY.MANY THANK-YOU!!!!!!I DO FEEL BETTER ABOUT MY-SELF AND MY PROFILE.I HOPE THAT NONE OF YOU OTHER LADIES WILL RUN INTO HIM.YOU ARE RIGHT,I PUT UP A BLOCKER.THANKS AGAIN.......

If the guy is rude, just block them and forget about them.


That's a pretty blue shirt.

Have fun and make lots of friends here.