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Is sex the only thing that connects you two
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Yes, the relationship becomes everlasting~
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a lot of shagging?
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Edited by
msharmony
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Sat 07/15/17 12:01 PM
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inevitably, I feel people look for the 100 percent based upon what the movies show
they want the INSTANT chemistry, the butterflies, great 'chemistry' in conversation and in bed,,, however, once one of those things on the list are met,, they eventually become aware of the other things that are not,, and when they cross paths with someone offering what they are 'missing' on their list,, they move on,,,,and when they get used to having that they miss some other thing and 'move on' to the person offering that so, any ONE thing that defines a relationship, will be the ONE thing that allows it to stagnate and highlight all the other things that are not present,,,,its not a good idea to let a whole relationship hinge on any one factor, or moment,,,,IMHO |
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Don't sit on the furniture...eat anything off the table...basically don't touch anything in their house before you use baby wipes.
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a lot of shagging? Yep, did it again, me is in stitches |
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What happens... I think would depend on the quality of that sex...
Overwhelming physical fulfillment and mind-blowing orgasms that make even the neighbours want to start smoking again, hell, who would walk away from that? |
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Don't sit on the furniture...eat anything off the table...basically don't touch anything in their house before you use baby wipes. Poor hygiene is gross, but the suggestion of sexercising anywhere and everywhere is hot as hell... I'm game, only for him of course 
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What happens when sex becomes the main thing in the relation I dunno. Why did sex become the main thing in the relation? I mean was there anything more to the relation prior? Was there lots of talking, spending time together, exploring things/life? Was it a "normal" relation and then all the talking stopped, you just kinda drifted apart, and you just contact each other for sex? Do you get together with the intention of going out, doing things, talking, but you just show up, immediately start having sex, then take off afterwards? Or was it always sexual? Like you had sex the first date, you plan to go out and do stuff for the 2nd, 3rd, etc. dates, but end up just having sex, then after 3 months you realize that's all you ever do? Sometimes you may get an hour of Netflix in before it turns into sex? Other than that, sometimes when direct communication sucks, or incompatibilities and arguments start becoming more obvious, or people can't really share themselves past a certain point, can't be honest, maybe start talking about themselves in cliches, their life, their perspective, their hopes (intimacy and closeness), whatever, they may start over relying on indirect communication. Most of sex is indirect communication, action and immediate reaction, experimentation and response. Sometimes people rely on sex to shut themselves and/or the other person up because talking leads to pushing people away or indicators that you aren't as close as you wish/hope you are. Could be the entire purpose for pursuing a relation in the first place was to feel closer to another person, to connect. If that's not happening by "normal" interaction, some people rely on sex to make up for it. Is sex the only thing that connects you two Maybe. Maybe they're just scared that it is the only thing that connects them and are unwilling to explore what's really going on. People generally work really hard in rationalizing their identity as "good." "Oh no, I'm not a coward running from things that frighten me. Nope. I'm a good person. I'm enlightened and open minded. Yep. I run towards my sexuality." |
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What did it replace?...and who is complaining?...If that is your buffet of choice, bon appetite!...
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What happens when sex becomes the main thing in a relationship..
Well hopefully you end up with two very tired people all the time..lol.. |
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a lot of shagging? Yep, did it again, me is in stitches  
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Actually, I have never even heard of a relationship that started with overall mutual attraction and romance, which deteriorated until only sex was left, where the people enjoyed the sex enough for it to last more than a very short time further.
But people who only started the relationship for the sex to begin with, and never gave a crap about each other, tend to last much longer. |
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Is sex the only thing that connects you two What happens when sex becomes the main thing in the relation __________________________________________________________________ You get laid alot |
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Actually, I have never even heard of a relationship that started with overall mutual attraction and romance, which deteriorated until only sex was left, where the people enjoyed the sex enough for it to last more than a very short time further. But people who only started the relationship for the sex to begin with, and never gave a crap about each other, tend to last much longer. |
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It's drops off???
It breaks maybe????? Worn out????? Flip flop? Lol. I don't know. |
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It's drops off??? It breaks maybe????? Worn out????? Flip flop? Lol. I don't know. |
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Hahahaha
Thank goodness for that. I didn't want to look on google. 
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Um, if it's just sex and nothing else, well I would think things get really sore after a while...
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so that what happens
 isn't too much of anything fatal? lol
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