oh snap and three clicks .. I was thinking something very similar

well to be honest I was trying to be tactful rather than just open my mouth

Haven't bothered to look at your profile. But your forum personality does come off as being just a wee bit hostile.

I counted four nots and one no....

I know .. I am laughing too .. next time you have prostate issues ... I will completely forget about being tactful

I think your profile is meaningfully written and reveals you as a wonderful individual. People are incomparably different, especially among people who live single, as are on this site. Any notion of a need for two to be exactly equal is not likely to be as enriching as a friendship that both enjoy. The part where you mention reporting and deleting someone's profile if they are uncivilized is the only thing that seems intimidating. For example, when I start opening up I am always nervous that I might be thought of as a freak who is better off axed. Anyway, hope you are feeling the love from above and around.

Okay, you asked...

The blurb at the top is way too long.
The blurb indicates you want someone else to conform to your standards.

I see no problem at all with your photos.

Some of your interests are a little too long for a possible match.
The interests are more for key words than sentences. Think word tags;
composing music, music, easy listening, hip hop,
dance, dancer, art, painting, artist, murals, horses, horse racing, reading, libraries, spirituality
Like that so there is more of a chance to match others tags.
The interest tags are more for message topic starters that sending a message itself.

The first sentence is filled with possible tags. I didn't find it threatening at all.

Most normal people despise arguments and conflicts. it sets the 'tone' of your profile to the negative. Consider rephrasing as a positive statement.

As I read on I see more negative and it puts me off. Its not warm and inviting. Some of the things you mention would be appropriate in a message reply more than on the profile.

A lot of what you wrote is just fine. It does have a negative slant and the profile is there to attract the one for you. As you put it, your soul mate.

What I see is someone that is negative and I would just pass right by without interest. I look for positive, up-beat and enticing.
Yours looks like you don't want to be contacted.

Well, there you go. This was my opinion based on what I look at.
Its your profile and I believe you should write it anyway you want.

I'd appreciate it if you had not commented at all instead of laying judgement on me when you don't know me at all. I have a voice and if someone is going to say that I've been negative when I haven't been I will speak up. This is my original question. Is my profile friendly???... Not... Pass judgement. Thanks for trolling though.

Oh I understand what you're trying to say, however I don't see things the way you do and to me it's not negative as I mentioned before, I'm positive in what I wanted to say.

I, personally, don't see anything wrong with the profile. Many people don't read profiles so changing it won't really matter.

That being said, you posted here for opinions on YOUR profile. If someone doesn't like it, it is par for the course. Criticizing repliers profiles is not right. They didn't ask for a rating. You did. People give opinions in this forum

Yep! Indeed you are positively and resolutely negative! If that's what you were going for you've succeeded. Anyway, I'm out...


Good luck!

Thank you Yellowrose for your feedback back, but where exactly did I criticize someone's profile??? Because as far as I know I haven't done such a thing.

Regardless of what I write it's going to attract undesirables, trust me... This is my 3rd profile re-write, why do u think it's written that way and so blunt. Oh and I find it rather interesting that people who give advice on do's and don'ts actually haven't followed through with their own advice. .

Oh I have no problem but from the get go it seems you have had an issue. But yes good luck to you.

Hmmmm



Yet you asked for a rating