Topic: Is Sex Without Marriage a Sin?
Neelam's photo
Thu 09/23/21 03:13 AM
Nope

Poetrywriter's photo
Thu 09/23/21 10:14 AM
Edited by Poetrywriter on Thu 09/23/21 10:17 AM




Note to self: No sex with LUNG1954.


Bonnie
I get sex only with my wife, and we are pleased and satisfied
drinker flowerforyou


So why then do you say in your profile that you are divorced and looking for a relationship?


thanks, yes i am divorced, but I got a temporary wife


What the heck is a temporary wife?

LUNG1954's photo
Fri 09/24/21 01:32 AM

Under title; Is it legal for unmarried couples to have sex? Hidden Pockets wrote;
There is no law against premarital sex between adults. The problem, however, is that just because a certain act is legal does not mean it is also considered moral. And when an act is seen as immoral, there is inevitably a lot of regulation around it.
Many ask about the relation between girlfriend and boyfriend.
Examples;
If I am 18, my girlfriend is 17, and we have sex, does this makes me any kind of criminal?
Is it illegal to having sex with my girlfriend at my home before marriage if we both are adult? Can my neighbor object or any police man can interfere.
Answer1; Yes, it is illegal, by chance she or you leave then there can be court case of fraud.
Answer 2; No, if it is consensual, otherwise she will file rape case against you.
God permit to get sex with a temporary wife to safe both of the couple. So it is not heck as you think. It is called Mutah marriage in Iraq, sigheh in Iran, urfi in Egypt and Tunisia and misyar marriage in Gulf countries.
Getting sex with unmarried friend, without the formula of words that make the agreement legal is a big sin in all religions.
To avoid sin, man can agree with an unmarried, widow or divorced woman to a temporary marriage then they can start a permanent marriage.

Tigist Wakshum's photo
Mon 10/25/21 01:06 AM
sex..sex.sex.with out marriage Not god!! that way ??

LUNG1954's photo
Sun 10/31/21 03:13 AM
There is a rule in the Holy Books says who confesses his sins and leave them gets God's mercy
The Bible says;
"Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy".
The Quran says;
And those who do not invoke with God another deity or kill the soul which God has forbidden [to be killed], except by right, and do not commit unlawful sexual intercourse. And whoever should do that will meet a penalty.
Multiplied for him is the punishment on the Day of Resurrection, and he will abide therein humiliated -
Except for those who repent, believe and do righteous work. For them God will replace their evil deeds with good. And ever is God Forgiving and Merciful.

Vicky84650's photo
Tue 11/02/21 04:02 AM
hlo

Nikhil's photo
Tue 11/02/21 07:22 AM
yes if eat apple is...

LUNG1954's photo
Fri 11/19/21 12:12 AM
To ask forgiveness of God from a major or minor sin whatever the reason.
The prophet Nuh said, "Ask your Lord for forgiveness; He is forgiving".
The person has to say before sleeping:
"I ask forgiveness from God, the Great, who has no god but Him, the Living, the Eternal, and I repent to Him". Repeat that at least 10 times.

no photo
Fri 11/19/21 12:22 AM

To ask forgiveness of God from a major or minor sin whatever the reason.
The prophet Nuh said, "Ask your Lord for forgiveness; He is forgiving".
The person has to say before sleeping:
"I ask forgiveness from God, the Great, who has no god but Him, the Living, the Eternal, and I repent to Him". Repeat that at least 10 times.



Well, you must realise by now after a lot of posting that not everyone follows your religion. How do you feel about other religions Lung?

LUNG1954's photo
Sun 11/21/21 12:13 AM


To ask forgiveness of God from a major or minor sin whatever the reason.
The prophet Nuh said, "Ask your Lord for forgiveness; He is forgiving".
The person has to say before sleeping:
"I ask forgiveness from God, the Great, who has no god but Him, the Living, the Eternal, and I repent to Him". Repeat that at least 10 times.



Well, you must realise by now after a lot of posting that not everyone follows your religion. How do you feel about other religions Lung?

I respect all religions because God said in the Quran:"And (remember) when We took from the Prophets their covenant, and from you (O Muhammad), and from Noah, Abraham, Moses, and Jesus son of Mary. We took from them a solemn covenant".
"The Messenger believes in what has been sent down to him from his Lord, and so do the believers; each one believes in God, and His angels, and His Books, and His Messengers: "We make no distinction between any of His Messengers (in believing in them)." And they say: "We have heard (the call to faith in God) and (unlike some of the people of Moses) obeyed. Our Lord, grant us Your forgiveness, and to You is the homecoming."
I think all prophets are truthful, so I am referring to verses from both the Quran and the Bible
Thank you Ladywind :heart: flowerforyou

no photo
Wed 11/24/21 08:50 PM
Edited by misty on Wed 11/24/21 08:52 PM
If you have the courage to ask such bold question, obviously you know that you need to get out of that marriage and find someone that will love you, respect you, nurtured you, protect you, guide you, mentor you and don't forget satisfy you.,

JEWEL RANA's photo
Wed 11/24/21 08:53 PM
What do you think about sex without marriage, is it a sin?

yes

Sherryblossom's photo
Fri 11/26/21 08:51 PM
Lol, I guess I'm going to hell with you and others as I've always been sexually intimate with partners and I've never been married. Sorry if I offend anyone but the big guy upstairs doesn't enter my thoughts when I'm cuddled up at night with a partner. I don't have a religious bone in my body. :smile:

LUNG1954's photo
Thu 12/02/21 09:12 PM

Lol, I guess I'm going to hell with you and others as I've always been sexually intimate with partners and I've never been married. Sorry if I offend anyone but the big guy upstairs doesn't enter my thoughts when I'm cuddled up at night with a partner. I don't have a religious bone in my body. :smile:

Sherryblossom
You have the right to be with your partner, but do it with the blessing of the Lord, so you will get the love of the partner and the love of the Lord and do not go to hell
God can give you health and sustenance in your life or prevent them from you
flowerforyou

tdion's photo
Mon 01/10/22 02:34 AM
From a biblical perspective, it is a sin because boyfriend and girlfriend relations are not supported and God will judge whoremongers and adulterers. Thusly, being in a relationship without marriage is whoremongering and having been married and having intercourse with several partners is also a sin.

[Hebrews 13:4]
Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

Note: the bed undefiled means that whatever sex is practiced in the bedroom is lawful. Venereal diseases are part of that judgment.

no photo
Mon 01/10/22 02:55 AM
What the heck is a temporary wife?

Poetrywriter,

Good question, however maybe "temporary wife" sounds better than mistress:rose:
If of course all it is about that.

Poetrywriter's photo
Mon 01/10/22 06:07 PM

What the heck is a temporary wife?

Poetrywriter,

Good question, however maybe "temporary wife" sounds better than mistress:rose:



He seems to think so!

dust4fun's photo
Sat 01/15/22 03:32 PM
Sex without marriage is not a sin, however marriage without sex is a sin!

LUNG1954's photo
Sat 01/15/22 09:58 PM

Sex without marriage is not a sin, however marriage without sex is a sin!


No, marriage without sex is not sin.
A sexless marriage is a marital union in which little or no sexual activity occurs between the two spouses. The US National Health and Social Life Survey in 1992 found that 2% of the married respondents (aged 18 to 59) reported no sexual intimacy in the past year.
Sexless marriages can develop over time from a range of possible causes.
Some couples may have sexless marriages because they have different work schedules or busy lives.
Adultery can lead to a sexless marriage, for "a low level of sexual desire" due to age.
Difficulty during any stage of the sexual act.
A marriage may also be sexless if one or both partners is asexual or if the couple mutually agrees to abstain from sex due to the goal of avoiding conception.
Some couples may be married solely for legal purposes or tax benefits.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexless_marriage#Causes

orlar's photo
Sun 01/23/22 01:15 PM
this may have to do with ones religious beliefs ...
but up to the individual of course ... I don't think I will hold my breath to get married again :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

why?