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Topic: In person
Toodygirl5's photo
Wed 03/07/18 11:50 AM
Not online.

But when you're at home town events or gatherings are you a Flirt or a bit shy around people you don't know?

Would you make the first move? As asking for date?

I'm outging and a bit of a Flirt.

Robxbox73's photo
Wed 03/07/18 11:55 AM
Edited by Robxbox73 on Wed 03/07/18 11:56 AM

Not online.

But when you're at home town events or gatherings are you a Flirt or a bit shy around people you don't know?

Would you make the first move? As asking for date?

I'm outging and a bit of a Flirt.




Nice TG5! I was always sanguine and the team builder! If our guys didnt know someone, I would approach them and invite them into our group! Especially if they were shy....Later we would rub off on the shy folks and soon enough, they would lose their shyness!!! It's so much fun helping people break out of their comfort zone.. Flirt? Well, if the gal is giving me the eye....then yes. Sometimes, I use comedy to flirt. Its hit or miss, but its fun all the same!

Larsi666 😽's photo
Wed 03/07/18 12:05 PM
I am pretty shy, so I am told ... well, people are right in saying that

Robxbox73's photo
Wed 03/07/18 12:23 PM

I am pretty shy, so I am told ... well, people are right in saying that


Welcome Lars! Join us in the forums. Open a post a put out a thought! In time you will find yourself a little less shy! Good luck mate!

Larsi666 😽's photo
Wed 03/07/18 12:32 PM


I am pretty shy, so I am told ... well, people are right in saying that


Welcome Lars! Join us in the forums. Open a post a put out a thought! In time you will find yourself a little less shy! Good luck mate!


Thanks.

I added something in the Ireland section already :wink:

no photo
Wed 03/07/18 12:35 PM
Fortune favours the brave !

So I'd show no outward signs of nerves, but inside very different

Robxbox73's photo
Wed 03/07/18 12:41 PM

Fortune favours the brave !

So I'd show no outward signs of nerves, but inside very different


Welcome Bri
Step #1 add a pic.. usually no pic subconsciously sends out a "I'm hiding something vibe!"
Good luck!

Tom4Uhere's photo
Wed 03/07/18 01:36 PM

Not online.

But when you're at home town events or gatherings are you a Flirt or a bit shy around people you don't know?

Would you make the first move? As asking for date?

I'm outging and a bit of a Flirt.

I'm invisible in public.

I used to be the life of the party, friends with anyone I met.
Had no problem with being noticed, I was the class clown and very cheerful, a magnetic personality.

When I got sick, I was abandoned completely. I lost my energetic appeal. If someone comes up to me, I respond but I no longer seek a large friendship base. I'm fine just being quiet and watching. For now.

Toodygirl5's photo
Wed 03/07/18 01:54 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Wed 03/07/18 01:55 PM
Sometimes being a Flirt, I got myself in trouble, meaning the man thought I was really into him, I was not!

I tend to Flirt to get me out of nervousness in meeting new people.
This is only in person Not online.




Toodygirl5's photo
Wed 03/07/18 02:00 PM


Not online.

But when you're at home town events or gatherings are you a Flirt or a bit shy around people you don't know?

Would you make the first move? As asking for date?

I'm outging and a bit of a Flirt.

I'm invisible in public.

I used to be the life of the party, friends with anyone I met.
Had no problem with being noticed, I was the class clown and very cheerful, a magnetic personality.

When I got sick, I was abandoned completely. I lost my energetic appeal. If someone comes up to me, I respond but I no longer seek a large friendship base. I'm fine just being quiet and watching. For now.



That's interesting you were outgoing but changed!

Toodygirl5's photo
Wed 03/07/18 02:00 PM

I am pretty shy, so I am told ... well, people are right in saying that


Welcome to mingle2 waving

Toodygirl5's photo
Wed 03/07/18 02:04 PM

Fortune favours the brave !

So I'd show no outward signs of nerves, but inside very different



Most men I meet in person , I can tell if they are nervous.

I met a gentleman in December and he was so nervous, asking me out for coffee. Of course, he was a widower and had been out of the dating pool for years!!

Toodygirl5's photo
Wed 03/07/18 02:07 PM


Not online.

But when you're at home town events or gatherings are you a Flirt or a bit shy around people you don't know?

Would you make the first move? As asking for date?

I'm outging and a bit of a Flirt.




Nice TG5! I was always sanguine and the team builder! If our guys didnt know someone, I would approach them and invite them into our group! Especially if they were shy....Later we would rub off on the shy folks and soon enough, they would lose their shyness!!! It's so much fun helping people break out of their comfort zone.. Flirt? Well, if the gal is giving me the eye....then yes. Sometimes, I use comedy to flirt. Its hit or miss, but its fun all the same!


Rob, somehow I thought maybe You were not a Shy man!!! happy

Tom4Uhere's photo
Wed 03/07/18 02:23 PM



Not online.

But when you're at home town events or gatherings are you a Flirt or a bit shy around people you don't know?

Would you make the first move? As asking for date?

I'm outging and a bit of a Flirt.

I'm invisible in public.

I used to be the life of the party, friends with anyone I met.
Had no problem with being noticed, I was the class clown and very cheerful, a magnetic personality.

When I got sick, I was abandoned completely. I lost my energetic appeal. If someone comes up to me, I respond but I no longer seek a large friendship base. I'm fine just being quiet and watching. For now.



That's interesting you were outgoing but changed!

yes, I know how to but just don't anymore.
A lot of it has to do with my health.
I'm still a very friendly person, I just don't go seeking.
If a woman seeks me out, I have no problem having a good time but its now a personal experience shared between just us.
Basically, if she captures my focus, the rest of the world dissappears. I'm about us, not them.

no photo
Wed 03/07/18 03:08 PM
I’m not good at hiding my feelings, so I end up throwing a goofy blush-smile when I find a man attractive. That’s my idea of a first move. laugh blushing

Toodygirl5's photo
Wed 03/07/18 03:13 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Wed 03/07/18 03:14 PM

I’m not good at hiding my feelings, so I end up throwing a goofy blush-smile when I find a man attractive. That’s my idea of a first move. laugh blushing



There's all types of first moves! happy

Tom4Uhere's photo
Wed 03/07/18 03:16 PM
In the past, the first thing I did when entering is read the room.
That blush/smile would not go unnoticed.
Now, I am seeking someone that is decisive, I will ignore the blush/smile, even tho I see it.
The woman must come and get in front of me. Talk to me, touch me.
This tells me she is definately interested in me and then I respond.

I know it shoots myself in the foot but I am looking for a specific type of personality.
Its okay...I'll wait.

Toodygirl5's photo
Wed 03/07/18 03:23 PM

In the past, the first thing I did when entering is read the room.
That blush/smile would not go unnoticed.
Now, I am seeking someone that is decisive, I will ignore the blush/smile, even tho I see it.
The woman must come and get in front of me. Talk to me, touch me.
This tells me she is definately interested in me and then I respond.

I know it shoots myself in the foot but I am looking for a specific type of personality.
Its okay...I'll wait.


Wouldn't that be a forward Woman?

Tom4Uhere's photo
Wed 03/07/18 03:28 PM


In the past, the first thing I did when entering is read the room.
That blush/smile would not go unnoticed.
Now, I am seeking someone that is decisive, I will ignore the blush/smile, even tho I see it.
The woman must come and get in front of me. Talk to me, touch me.
This tells me she is definately interested in me and then I respond.

I know it shoots myself in the foot but I am looking for a specific type of personality.
Its okay...I'll wait.


Wouldn't that be a forward Woman?

I dunno? I think it would be a decisive woman. Which is a personality quality I admire.
I try not to lock myself into too many stereotypes.
It would tell me she is able to make her own decisions according to her own desires, which is important to me.

Toodygirl5's photo
Wed 03/07/18 03:30 PM
I flirted with a man at work, afterwards he tried to set at my table for lunch most times. I had to tell him don't do that, because people will talk and think we are dating. He got upset now won't speak. sad2

Maybe. I went too far!! Or was he wrong!!

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