İ dont like acting someone that im not.
For example:İm mostly caring girls personality but always their personality not matching with me.So im finishing relationship.
İt has no meaning if i cant be myself.
what should i do?

That is a choice you have to make for yourself.

Yes you just have to be yourself because your life is your to live and people that are really worth your friendship will respect your values as well as you do for them.

Self-esteem reflects an individual's overall subjective emotional evaluation of his or her own worth. It is the decision made by an individual as an attitude towards the self. Self-esteem encompasses beliefs about oneself, (for example, "I am competent", "I am worthy"), as well as emotional states, such as triumph, despair, pride, and shame. "The self-concept is what we think about the self; self-esteem, is the positive or negative evaluations of the self, as in how we feel about it."

Acceptance - To accept someone is to show respect for and validation of who they are, what they do, and for the life and path they chose. It by no means agreeing with or approving of anything about another. You don't have to like it. Yet, you can always accept it as being a part of everything that is.

High self-esteem is important because it helps you feel proud of what you can do in school or around the house, or when you play. It also gives you the courage to try new things and expect good things to happen. High self-esteem means you like yourself, even if you make a mistake.

You can't see from behind anybody else's eyes. You can try to Imagine What They Experience but you Can't Know For Sure. It works both ways. Nobody can experience life behind your eyes.
This makes us all different. Those unique differences create what is called personalities.

The way I see it, personalities have a baseline affinity.
Good, Neutral & Evil
I got the idea from the affinity descriptions while building a character for a Dungeons & Dragons game, but the concepts seem to ring true for me.
There are three distinctions for each of the three groups,
Lawful, Neutral & Chaotic

I've found that I tend to be in the chaotic good to lawful neutral alignment. When I try to interact with people that are aligned differently, problems and personality conflicts arise.

I also understand that nobody else on this planet has the same life experiences as I. They all have their own. When our two personalities intersect, we either align or we don't. If I force myself to align with someone, over time, the ruse makes me weary.

I've found, by trial and error, that I am more content just being myself.
Sometimes, quite frequently lately, I find that others are attracted to me being myself.

I'm not looking for a woman that matches my personality. I'm looking for one that has a personality that my personality will align with.

If Her being Her brings Me joy
and Me being Me brings Her joy.
What else matters?

I suggest that you honestly figure out who you really are and like yourself.
Then allow others to be who they are and accept their uniqueness.
Acceptance doesn't mean you have to personally associate yourself with them.
Be aware of alignments and personal affinities
and place yourself around those that have similar alignments and affinities.

Nobody but you lives behind your eyes.
Nobody on this planet is an authority on you except you.
But also realize that you don't live behind anyone else's eyes too.
That you are not an authority on anyone else's lives.

Lawful good
A lawful good character typically acts with compassion and always with honor and a sense of duty.

Neutral good
A neutral good character typically acts altruistically, without regard for or against lawful precepts such as rules or tradition. A neutral good character has no problems with cooperating with lawful officials, but does not feel beholden to them. In the event that doing the right thing requires the bending or breaking of rules, they do not suffer the same inner conflict that a lawful good character would.

Chaotic good
A chaotic good character does what is necessary to bring about change for the better, disdains bureaucratic organizations that get in the way of social improvement, and places a high value on personal freedom, not only for oneself, but for others as well. Chaotic good characters usually intend to do the right thing, but their methods are generally disorganized and often out of sync with the rest of society.

Lawful neutral
A lawful neutral character typically believes strongly in lawful concepts such as honor, order, rules, and tradition, and often follows a personal code.

Neutral
A neutral character (a.k.a. true neutral) is neutral on both axes and tends not to feel strongly towards any alignment, or actively seeks their balance.

Chaotic neutral
A chaotic neutral character is an individualist who follows their own heart and generally shirks rules and traditions. Although chaotic neutral characters promote the ideals of freedom, it is their own freedom that comes first; good and evil come second to their need to be free.

Lawful evil
A lawful evil character sees a well-ordered system as being easier to exploit and shows a combination of desirable and undesirable traits.

Neutral evil
A neutral evil character is typically selfish and has no qualms about turning on allies-of-the-moment, and usually makes allies primarily to further their own goals. A neutral evil character has no compunctions about harming others to get what they want, but neither will they go out of their way to cause carnage or mayhem when they see no direct benefit for themselves. Another valid interpretation of neutral evil holds up evil as an ideal, doing evil for evil's sake and trying to spread its influence.

Chaotic evil
A chaotic evil character tends to have no respect for rules, other people's lives, or anything but their own desires, which are typically selfish and cruel. They set a high value on personal freedom, but do not have much regard for the lives or freedom of other people. Chaotic evil characters do not work well in groups because they resent being given orders and do not usually behave themselves unless there is no alternative.

Each alignment represents a broad range of personality types or personal philosophies, so two characters of the same alignment can still be quite different from each other. In addition, few people are completely consistent.

Lawful characters tell the truth, keep their word, respect authority, honor tradition, and judge those who fall short of their duties.

Chaotic characters follow their consciences, resent being told what to do, favor new ideas over tradition, and do what they promise if they feel like it.

Key traits that sociopaths and psychopaths have in common, include:

A disregard for laws and social mores
A disregard for the rights of others
A failure to feel remorse or guilt
A tendency to display violent behavior

In addition to their commonalities, sociopaths and psychopaths also have their own unique behavioral characteristics, as well.

Sociopaths tend to be nervous and easily agitated. They are volatile and prone to emotional outbursts, including fits of rage. They are likely to be uneducated and live on the fringes of society, unable to hold down a steady job or stay in one place for very long. It is difficult but not impossible for sociopaths to form attachments with others. Many sociopaths are able to form an attachment to a particular individual or group, although they have no regard for society in general or its rules.

Psychopaths, on the other hand, are unable to form emotional attachments or feel real empathy with others, although they often have disarming or even charming personalities. Psychopaths are very manipulative and can easily gain people’s trust. They learn to mimic emotions, despite their inability to actually feel them, and will appear normal to unsuspecting people. Psychopaths are often well educated and hold steady jobs. Some are so good at manipulation and mimicry that they have families and other long-term relationships without those around them ever suspecting their true nature.

It is believed that psychopathy is the largely the result of “nature” (genetics) while sociopathy is more likely the result of “nurture” (environment).

Psychopathy is the most dangerous of all antisocial personality disorders because of the way psychopaths dissociate emotionally from their actions, regardless of how terrible those actions may be.

Heterotypic stability refers to the psychological coherence of an individual's thoughts, feelings, and behaviors across development. Questions about heterotypic stability concern the degree of consistency in underlying personality attributes.

MYERS-BRIGGS PERSONALITY TYPE AND BEST FIT RELATIONSHIPS
http://www.massmatch.com/MBTI-2.php
ISTJ, ISTP, ESTP, ESTJ, ISFP, ESFP, ESFJ, INFJ, INFP, ENFP, ENFJ, INTJ, ISFJ, INTP, ENTP, ENTJ

Relationships are give and take. No other person is going to be exactly like you.

Never, NEVER do that.

What you should do? Realize that everyone in your life including potential partners -especially potential partners!- are what YOU attracted with your own energy. So if they're not to your liking, you have to look at what it is you exude and put out into the world.
Change that, and the people / partners you attract will change along with it.
People -especially partners-, and their behaviour, are only mirrors of you. They ALWAYS match you in this moment in time as YOU attracted them with your energy. So they are a perfect match.
And again, if you don't like it, you will have to change something about yourself, so your own energy will change.

Why not?
There's a huge difference between "I don't like" and "I am incapable of."

Lots of people had to learn to like vegetables rather than eating nothing but potato chips and McDonalds.


To what degree?
Everyone's personality is at least a little different.
You care about their personality.
All of their personalities are going to be different than yours.
All women are going to have something in their personality that isn't going to be a match for you.

So to what degree? What's going on?
Is it they don't accept that you love kissing monkeys?
Not into open relationships?
Don't like the band the clash the way you do?
They only eat green vegetables?


Nothing will have meaning to you unless either you give it meaning, or someone forces you to give it meaning.

If something has no meaning unless it allows you to be you, then ultimately the only meaning it will have is to support/stroke your ego. If that's all you're looking for, then you aren't looking for anything more than immediately satisfying your ego, and once consumed it's time to find the next high.

Other than that, your "self" changes.
At one point in your life you laid on your back in diapers trying to fit everything you can grasp into your mouth.
Can you list how exactly your personality changed on a daily, weekly, monthly, yearly basis since then?


I think the common saying is "get over yourself."

Means those girls are not for you.. better wait for the right one :) be positive.. in time, she will come

Grow

Do you have a twin sister? Maybe date her?