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Topic: How much you spent on a date?
Unknow Joined Sat 01/11/14 Posts: 23369	Wed 05/16/18 10:40 AM
Always have the first date mid week. No point in spoiling the weekend if it doesn't turn out well I learned that early on in online dating. You never know how a first date will turn out. Most don't look as good as their pic but a couple look better. I've met overweight guys w8th an ego that won't quit and good-looking guys trying to hard to impress me. Ditto

westy602 Joined Mon 10/10/16 Posts: 469	Wed 05/16/18 12:19 PM
idk.... whats gas and a condom cost??..

Queenie Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 16001	Wed 05/16/18 12:21 PM
idk.... whats gas and a condom cost??.. Like you'd get that far

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Wed 05/16/18 12:23 PM Edited by eric22t on Wed 05/16/18 12:23 PM
come on westy throw in a bottle of wine to loosen her up too

Queenie Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 16001	Wed 05/16/18 12:24 PM
Unless a wino throws it at him I'm sure it's not gonna happen

Unknow Joined Sat 01/11/14 Posts: 23369	Wed 05/16/18 12:25 PM
come on westy throw in a bottle of wine to loosen her up too Which end?

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Wed 05/16/18 12:26 PM
it was worth a shot

westy602 Joined Mon 10/10/16 Posts: 469	Wed 05/16/18 12:28 PM
idk.... whats gas and a condom cost??.. Like you'd get that far Only 19 mpg in the X...she better be close

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Wed 05/16/18 12:34 PM
The cheaper the date, the better. It's a quick way to find out if she is there to be with you. Or there for the money you spend on her. I've met a few in my life that the more money you spend on them, the more they want to be around you. Free meals. Free concerts, whatever it may be. They are ready. But when the money dries up, They gone. So, I find out right at the start. But Charles dont you ever feel that feeling when the woman is worth a lot to you by not minding at all how much you’re spending when you’re together? Well i am asking if sometimes you just forget and that money is no object because you just feel she is worth it ? Not talking about how the relationship ends but the time its just starting he isn't paying for a hooker....miney shouldn't matter.....no one especially men shouldn't have to spend a lot for her attention...... The only time a person has to spend more is when they have to go dutch Id like to clear out my question sir. I can compare it with time actually. It is a precious commodity. All of us would rather not waste it and if were always aware of it we do something to make it worthwhile and be able to do of whats left of it. Now on line we meet people there would specific ones we would talk to till such time we realise weve spent a lot of time talking to one person because we enjoy talking to him/her. We dont realise the time and the days that pass by all we know and feel is talking to them makes us smile. So it is this feeling im tryjng to ask. Do you feel money is not a big deal because you just don’t realise it in the company of a person you truly enjoy being with? I would spend gifts on my ex not

greeneyes148 Joined Fri 12/25/15 Posts: 5830	Wed 05/16/18 12:35 PM
with me if I went on a date I'll spent no more than $45... And you sir.. are a tightwad

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Wed 05/16/18 12:37 PM
Not thinking if he was worth it and that eventually he would give my gifts away. I gave them as a symbol of my love even though later on he would cheat on me.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14539	Wed 05/16/18 12:43 PM
On a date nothing!! The man pays!!!

westy602 Joined Mon 10/10/16 Posts: 469	Wed 05/16/18 12:45 PM
another tightwad...

greeneyes148 Joined Fri 12/25/15 Posts: 5830	Wed 05/16/18 12:49 PM
On a date nothing!! The man pays!!! You are absolutely right.. the man should always pay. If you invite a woman out.. you pay.. that is what a man does. And you don't put a $ cap on the event, you take her out, enjoy the company and make it special. If you can't do that or are to cheap... then don't do it at all.

Fervid_heart Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 489	Wed 05/16/18 12:49 PM
If he aint buying me roses with my three course meal it isnt a date, just a meal

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Wed 05/16/18 12:50 PM
If he aint buying me roses with my three course meal it isnt a date, just a meal does it count if i steal them off the neighbors bushes on the way up the walk fervi?

Fervid_heart Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 489	Wed 05/16/18 12:52 PM
Only if you pick off the thorns and blow out the bugs

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Wed 05/16/18 12:54 PM
cool thorns and bugs makes the 1st 2 courses so all i need to buy is dessert

westy602 Joined Mon 10/10/16 Posts: 469	Wed 05/16/18 12:54 PM
The roses come after you put out, T&A..geez and If he buys your meal then its a date too.. disclaimer: T&A is my Dh nickname for Fervid and not sexual innuendo... so no need to delete it... damm this place..

Queenie Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 16001	Wed 05/16/18 12:57 PM
Why'd you come in here looking like that? Trying to get us in trouble when we've just learned how to be nice